Not only aupama it is ITV where a good, sanskari, achi bahu hone ka mtlb hi ye hai ki wo sabki bakwas sune aur return me ek do bhari dialogues de dete hai ki wo strong bhi lage,,, but in reality being strong nd independent doesn’t mean to defend ourselves every now n then for every crap,, it is something where we draw a line for others to not to invade our personal space,, exactly hum to apne parents, apne in-laws ki itni na sune jitni ye anupama apne ex inlaw ki sunti hai,,, its not about defending ourselves its about ‘I don’t give a damn about what you think about me’ attitude but this is so no no for ITV bahus,, in one of the episode devika clearly told ki sawal puchne wale uske pas bhi log hai per wo sabko jawab nhi de sakti And exactly the point we as a person can not please every person in the family specially in the in laws family,, do char log honge to vichar to apas me takraenge sab log humse sahmat ho zarori to nhi,, but on ITV bahu should be liked by all nd she should be righteous always,,usse kabhi galti nhi ho sakti like seriously bahu na hui farishta jisse galti nhi ho sakti,, and she will be blamed for every xyz’s problems 🤷🏻♀️