Ghosla and the fight

So, yes the lovely ghosla that the bird should return to after her flight is the topic here.

Dear chidiya, your ghosla is brimming with vultures lying in wait of your return. And every time you do, they take a piece of you but please keep going back.

Weren't you going to leave this nest a few days back? What happened now? It must be the 'baaquick'- its poisonous fragrance has you neck deep in delusions.

Unfortunately, anuj the aandhi failed in making his chidiya realize that ghosla is not a safe place to be.

The only way i see the chidiya ever leaving her ghosla is when baa will slap this chidiya for troubling her uncha kadd kuputra and will throw her out of the ghosla.

Till then, chidiya should continue with her routine poison feed. It will further increase her taunt quota limit which already is higher than her flight.

About the fight now, yes anupama's exhausting sligtly racoon eyed lecture didn't move us. BUT big but, it was necessary. Anu has started to find her voice just now. It is necessary that she retorts so that her heart feels a little less burdened. Yes, vanraj is a thick skinned croc. He is not really fazed by anu's words but he is jilted when anu threatens him. Also the "kadd ucha, but gardan neechi" comment was gold

Agree to each and every word of yours. This was such crappy explanation given by the makers.

Today was the best time, she had already paid her part of loan to Rakhi and after this tamasha, she could have said bbyee to ghosla! Nobody apart from bapuji and pakhi force her to stay and bothcould not open their mouth today.

There is something called Stockholm syndrome and its real!

Now I am finding Anuj character also useless. He should atleast file defamation case or something professionally on Vanraj to get his ego straightened, so he doesn't mess with him next time.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/159051758

I just checked Twitter and ppl are appreciating all these empty talks and justifying her not leaving the "ghosla"

No wonders makers show crap, there are audience watching it and liking it.

Some where I agree ke Anupama ko abhi ghar nahi chodna chahiye kyu ke anu pe 20 lakhs ka karz already hai upar se rent and house expenses it's hard to manage yaar uski maa ka ghar shayad 1 bedroom hai to vaha bhi koe fayda nahi abhi economically anu ye ghar na chode yehi bhalai hai anu ke liye aur rahi baat tamashe ki to ye vanya and Toshiba anu chahe patal mai chali jaye ye log waha bhi tamasha karne pahuch jayenge so no point ke wo ghar chod de.

Originally posted by: dipali13

Some where I agree ke Anupama ko abhi ghar nahi chodna chahiye kyu ke anu pe 20 lakhs ka karz already hai upar se rent and house expenses it's hard to manage yaar uski maa ka ghar shayad 1 bedroom hai to vaha bhi koe fayda nahi abhi economically anu ye ghar na chode yehi bhalai hai anu ke liye aur rahi baat tamashe ki to ye vanya and Toshiba anu chahe patal mai chali jaye ye log waha bhi tamasha karne pahuch jayenge so no point ke wo ghar chod de.

Lekin anupama shah house ko apna ghosla samaj kar ruki hai na! Agar uske intentions financial condition ke wajah se ruk jane ke dikhaye hote toh fir bhi audience 1% like karti uske decision ko lekin Yaha clearly dikha rahe hai that she believes it as her ghosla !

Can’t feel any sympathy for this suicidal lady because of her reasonings 🤢

To be honest, people who live in abusive households find it very hard to leave because of their attachments! I have seen this happening in real life and honestly, it shocks me how people put up with it!

The people I know have come to me complaining and crying despite me telling them to leave the toxic environment and they don't do it! They can't and won't! It's called Trauma Bonding where it becomes normal for them and they feel lost without it thus creating a bond with their trauma! Personally, I have told the same people to f*** off cause I can't deal with their emotional baggage since they themselves won't deal with it! And it's not my business anymore since it affects me negatively too!

Psychologically speaking, this is a very interesting phenomenon to study despite being rather a miserable and depressing thing to experience or watch someone else go through it!

Anupama is in this situation, she has trauma bonded herself to this house in the name of love and family. I liked it before when the house was divided and everyone used to argue, it was better because the other characters weren't just spectators with no voices! They took sides and it was nice to see! Now everyone is just watching and letting Vanraj get away with it! I am surprised Anupama didn't slap Vanraj for saying the terrible things he did!

Devika is also fed up of Anupama's choices and rightly so! There's only so much a person can take and watch someone you care about suffer and then going back to the same thing, it's heart-breaking and traumatizing! Same with Anuj even though he hasn't been around for as long as Devika has!

I will also stop watching cause Anupama is driving me insane! 🤣