Rakhi I know is loved by many here. Rakhis approach to win back her daughter has not been right. We can love our children but to insist that they follow our ways be it Anupama or Rakhi is not right.
Rakhi kept Pramod out of Kinjals wedding, invited Kavya to create Tamasha at the wedding. When she was unable to make Kinjal move out she lured P1 with the job, pent house.
When P1 moved to the pent house Anupama and Bapuji urged them both to leave happily and leave together.
Kinjal kept telling both P1 and Rakhi that she will move when she is ready. Both refuse to respect her POV.
In fact after the wedding Anupama took Kinjal to the Dave home to ensure she makes amends for eloping.
When Rakhee created the tamasha with the nameboard last time, she humiliated the shah's. Kinjal in fact warned her mother already that in her bid to have her way she shouldn't lose her daughter.
There are people who react to everything others say and do. There are others who stay mute accepting all humiliation and insults. There are others who weigh the pros and cons and respond and handle situations in ways they perceive as right.
Kinjal is a mature young lady. If she choses the Shah family over Dave's... If she chooses to work outside and create a work identity of her own, if she chooses Anupamas ways over Rakhis because she considers it a better option in her POV what is wrong?
If Anupama says this to Rakhee there must have been a provocation. Anupama has always accorded respect to Rakhee despite her atrocious behaviour. Baa may call her names there are other ways to put her in her place than stooping to her level.
Kinjal chooses Anupama over Rakhee it is based on who she thinks has given her unconditional love and is a better human.
Just as Anupama has now started distancing herself from toxic Vanraj and giving fitting responses to Vanya, she could have realised that the Shahs have endured enough of nonsense from Rakhee. The Dave's have never treated the Shahs with decency. Respect has to be mutual be it between individuals or families. Let's wait and watch the lead up to this.