Kavya's hint - Page 3

Tanya Anupama ko puri tarah daba diya gaya hai, divorce ke pehle bhi usko allowed nahi tha apne Miyake jana kyu ke ghar ka kaam koun karega And trust me jab in laws aise ho to himmat apne aap tut jati hai aur ye apne experience se bol rahi hu it's like been there done that 😭 mere gharwalo agar mujhe milne meri sasural ate the to mai darr ke mare kapne lagti thi shuru ke dino mai 😭 ajj agar log mujhe iron lady kehte hai par kabhi mai bhi Anupama hi thi sasuralwalo ne jam kar Toda tha usme se bahar nikal na kitan hard tha ye mai hi janti hu🥺

Originally posted by: dipali13

Tanya Anupama ko puri tarah daba diya gaya hai, divorce ke pehle bhi usko allowed nahi tha apne Miyake jana kyu ke ghar ka kaam koun karega And trust me jab in laws aise ho to himmat apne aap tut jati hai aur ye apne experience se bol rahi hu it's like been there done that 😭 mere gharwalo agar mujhe milne meri sasural ate the to mai darr ke mare kapne lagti thi shuru ke dino mai 😭 ajj agar log mujhe iron lady kehte hai par kabhi mai bhi Anupama hi thi sasuralwalo ne jam kar Toda tha usme se bahar nikal na kitan hard tha ye mai hi janti hu🥺

Dipali ji isiliye mai hamesha bolti hu that you are fighter and you did fight, akele Canada mai aap rehte ho Yaha wapas nahi aye ! Ek alag zindgi banaya ap ne ! Ap ne bhi kahi se shuruat ki thi isiliye ap Iron Lady bann sake 💪

Har insaan ko kahi na kahi se kabhi na kabhi shuruat karni padti hai , Ap pinjre se pyar kar k apni udaan nahi rok sakte! That is the case of anupama ! Woh kahi se kabhi bhi shuruat karna he nahi chahti hai isiliye usko pinjre re itna zyada pyar ho gaya hai ki woh apni alag udan ka soch he nahi sakti hai!

Ab usko pinjre se bahar nikalne ke liye Anuj ko he force karna padega !! Aisa kyun dikhana ki bina admi ke aurat apna pinjra chod he nahi sakti!!!!

Look at you ! Ap ne kahi na kahi se shuruat kiya, apne pinjre se khud bahar nikle isiliye ap truly Iron Lady ho but what about anupama? Woh toh bina Anuj ke apne pinjare se nikal he nahi pa rahi hai !

Originally posted by: dipali13

Tanya Anupama ko puri tarah daba diya gaya hai, divorce ke pehle bhi usko allowed nahi tha apne Miyake jana kyu ke ghar ka kaam koun karega And trust me jab in laws aise ho to himmat apne aap tut jati hai aur ye apne experience se bol rahi hu it's like been there done that 😭 mere gharwalo agar mujhe milne meri sasural ate the to mai darr ke mare kapne lagti thi shuru ke dino mai 😭 ajj agar log mujhe iron lady kehte hai par kabhi mai bhi Anupama hi thi sasuralwalo ne jam kar Toda tha usme se bahar nikal na kitan hard tha ye mai hi janti hu🥺

I too was so scared in my in laws home... when my dadaji visited me without informing in advance .... I was so nervous....

(he doubted something is fishy.... so did not call intentionally)... I ended up serving him the food not suited his digest system... did not dare to speak up... that my grandpa not eating it.... was so guilty...cried whole night after he left...

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Muje toh Abhi se Anuj ke liye bura lagta hai!!!

Sab struggle Anuj ko he karna hai

I guess in anupama’s priority list ,

1. Her Baa/Bapuji

2. Her bacche

3. Vanraj /Kavya

4. Her mother/brother

5. Her other relatives

6. Her friends

7. At second last position Anuj hoga because last position par anupama khud ko rakhti hai

Seeing long priority list of top 5 , Anuj ke life mai bahot struggle aanewala hai and uper se anupama bhi uske sath non cooperative attitude dikhayegi because of top-3 priorities of mentioned list.

🤣🤣 it's so funny and true. You nailed it!

Agree and worst part is as much as we all are anticipating - there is a huge possibility of nothing ever happening between them officially!

As Anu is never going to leave Shah's and Anuj sure won't move with them as GharJamai. Only possibility is when the show is near it's ending

Obviously CVs can't find a story line to create drama... where All of them are not living under one roof and Anu is not being a doormat.

As much as I'm looking forward to Anu-Anuj as something, it probably won't happen

I see AnuRaj happening before MaAn

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

@ bold - ditto!

I too was so scared in my in laws home... when my dadaji visited me without informing in advance .... I was so nervous....

(he doubted something is fishy.... so did not call intentionally)... I ended up serving him the food not suited his digest system... did not dare to speak up... that my grandpa not eating it.... was so guilty...cried whole night after he left...

@bold : I was like this too for first year of marriage. After first year I changed completely and become bold in front of in laws. My cousin had visited me for the first time after marriage and she had noticed that . We had talked about it . She had given me good moral boost to be bold in front of in laws .

I had stayed alone for 9 long years in the hostel . I was free bird and had no habit of asking before taking my personal decisions. After marriage my mother in law started to take decisions on my behalf ! I was shocked in the new environment! I was unable to digest the fact that somebody else will decide I will go at my mother’s place or not! I will take leaves from work for social events or not! For how many days I will stay at my mother’s place etc . It was extremely shocking transition from free bird to married woman but just after a year of marriage I firmly informed my mother in law that I am an adult and I can take my own decisions so better to leave my decisions on me and from that moment everything changed.

100% agree with you.

Originally posted by: dipali13

Tanya Anupama ko puri tarah daba diya gaya hai, divorce ke pehle bhi usko allowed nahi tha apne Miyake jana kyu ke ghar ka kaam koun karega And trust me jab in laws aise ho to himmat apne aap tut jati hai aur ye apne experience se bol rahi hu it's like been there done that 😭 mere gharwalo agar mujhe milne meri sasural ate the to mai darr ke mare kapne lagti thi shuru ke dino mai 😭 ajj agar log mujhe iron lady kehte hai par kabhi mai bhi Anupama hi thi sasuralwalo ne jam kar Toda tha usme se bahar nikal na kitan hard tha ye mai hi janti hu🥺

U know sometimes one is so used to dominated life that free asmaan raas nahi ata....it's like u know woh kya kehte hai unknown person se better known monster hota that kind of faltu talk....

She got one outing just one n she could have escaped but that was cancelled because of babuji n now she is back to the daldal jisse khud kabhi nahi nikal sakte .....

Abhi bhi dekho naa har cheez ke liye she is blamed...is anyone giving her any happiness ...no ....it's exactly how it was when she was married but she is used to it ..n thinks this is happiness....

She needs someone to pull her out of this because khudse yeh hona ab anu ke bass ki baat nahi hai

N her own mother also can't do anything because woh bhi issi daldal ke aas paas ,wahi ek hai jisne uss daldal mein itne saal rehne ki sheksha di thi...humesha adjust karo....ab bhale hi woh pachta rahi ho but she no longer has any understanding or tools to take her daughter out of this situation

From my experience :

it depends a lot on how we girls had our childhood... how good our support system is/was... as anupama had widow mom and poor (messed up in own life) brother... who loved her but can not stand up for her...

same way.... for me.... I lost my father at very young age, brother - cousins were too younger than me... not ready for moral support.... I was 2nd oldest in all cousins .... oldest one had her own set of problems... had no one I can reach out for my problems!

I had lots of friends from my 11 years of hostel life... they were not reachable... no cell phone... home phone is answered by elders.., letters go through sensor😔 - or were being read in public by my jethani ....

This kind of family does exist/was real (in 2010) in India

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

From my experience :

it depends a lot on how we girls had our childhood... how good our support system is/was... as anupama had widow mom and poor (messed up in own life) brother... who loved her but can not stand up for her...

same way.... for me.... I lost my father at very young age, brother - cousins were too younger than me... not ready for moral support.... I was 2nd oldest in all cousins .... oldest one had her own set of problems... had no one I can reach out for my problems!

I had lots of friends from my 11 years of hostel life... they were not reachable... no cell phone... home phone is answered by elders.., letters go through sensor😔 - or were being read in public by my jethani ....

This kind of family does exist/was real (in 2010) in India

Did you fight against injustice and wrong doings of in laws?

I guess I am younger than you . I fought against injustice and become my own advocate because I had understand it quite well that if I can’t speak myself then nobody will speak for me and people will eat me with conservative mind set .

Today nobody dares to force their likings/disliking/decisions on me 💪