Is there any scope of new love interest for anupama? - Page 5

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I dislike when they show a woman has no Identity apart from maa wife bahu types and show ambitious women as grey or evil.

Is it wrong for me to want to be Anju and spare sometime to eat what I like but fam dislikes or so something for my satisfaction . Big fat no..if I cannot be happy how can I keep others happy.

So this maa portion of Anupama gets to me more than anything. Parents should not pander but empower. Supportive yet allow us to grow as individuals not their shadow. I am totally different from both my parents and my individual journey is diff. I am much more assertive and if need be demands my share of rest and relaxation. Most of my late teen and YA life has been influenced by my bro who has always been nurturing my ambitions and supportive when in times of adversity

I totally understand your point because like you, I do believe in my individual journey which is very different from my parents.

During the initial days of marriage, my mother in law used to tell me that I should follow exact methods of her and my grand mother in law in each and every household work. One fine day, I sit and explained her that end result will be as per everyone’s choice but METHOD will be mine only .

In maid’s absence she encourages me to use jaadu for cleaning but I wanted to explore dyson v10 which is cord free vacuum cleaner. I bought it on my own . She was like this was not needed we can do with jaadu. I explained her I am techie person and I like to use smart gadgets for the domestic work also and when I working hard, it’s my right to grow the way I want to.

I clean my bedsheet, curtains , flooring everything with my dyson v10 vacuum cleaner . My mother in law likes to do the same with dandi wala kapda. That’s called difference of living style which is absolutely ok.

What is not ok is if you can’t accept someone’s sci-fi approaches in the house , do not expect from them to accept existing methods.

Somewhere this is my journey to grow as woman , as a wife and now as mother.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : Your point is damn logical and realistic but in tv world mostly second husband heroins ke liye lattoo aate hai . So jo bhi ayega woh lattoo hoga anupama ke uper.

I hope koi aisa aye jo Anupama ko thoda sa sensible banaye and the way anupama feels extremely overwhelming in all happy /sad situation, seems like she needs meditation therapy badly so usko life mai new direction bhi de.

The thing is anupama’s main identity is “MAA” so seems like they are not interested in showing her as wife for the second time and her entire life is only for pakhi/rakhi/toshu/Kavya/nandini/Samar only.

But at least in those shows the heroines weren't still living and working with their exes, so other men being genuinely interested in them made sense at least to some extent 😆

Also I know exactly what you mean with the meditation therapy thing 🤣

I agree 100% that if there is a new love interest for Anu, he should be someone who talks some sense into her, but somehow I have a feeling that even if they do bring in such a character at some point, he will just be another one to worship her mindlessly,and glorify all her wrong attitudes/choices.

And judging by how the show is going now, there is a possibility they may even show him also moving into chidiyaghar after marrying Anu instead of taking her with him 😆....

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : Exactly this is what I feel that’s why I said they are behaving like anupama is Ek lauti mother on this entire planet jisko Maa banne ka sukh mila hai😆

All the mothers on this planet are good not just anupama . Mothers usually sensible bhi hoti hai ,

Maa bante he sirf mamta hoti hai and women senseless bann jati hai aisa kuch nahi hota the way they are showing here.

This show is saying mamta se bhari Maa senseless he hoti hai 😆😆

Mamta overflowing hone se kuch nahi hota , sensibly parenting bhi karna aana chahiye.

Exactly, most mothers I have seen in real life would never in a million years silently tolerate this type of rubbish from their kids (and I am so glad for that!).

Whilst claiming to be progressive, over the last few moths this show seems to have taken pre existing sexist/regressive attitudes to new extremes where an ideal woman has to be extremely submissive not only to husband and in laws, but also to her now ex, his second wife ( remember that scene where she applied ointment on Kavya's feet 🤢), and even her kids ffs.

And you're right, talong with showing that the "right" way to divorce is by living with, working with and playing dosti dosti with your cheater ex (and also trying to do dosti with his mistress turned second wife from time to time 🤡), they are showing that the "right" way to show mamta/love for children means being totally spineless/senseless (all of which are things I've actually never seen anyone promote before- even on ITV- so these are new lows 🤢).

Originally posted by: kooki07

do you think these parents will understand it ,from my side its zero for their realisation they are soooo dumb.

Tomorrow toshu will receive tight slap from vanraj . Toshu will cross all the limits. I hope tomorrow toshu will leave the house.