Society's typical thinking in marriages

Anupama holds Nandini's hand and supports her. Just how a mother supports the child. Vanraj is acting as an idiot as usual. Nandini is telling the truth before marrying. Instead of appreciating her for telling the truth. These stereotype people are blaming her. Now this makes me to think that are women just a means to give birth to children after marrying? Means mera Vansh aage badhao, bas yahi hai aurat ka kaam hai?

We marry people not to have kids. But we marry someone to share our pains, in the tiring journey, we share partnership and things get easy. Out of love, kids happen. First motive of marriage is to share a journey. These people like Leela, make people marry for Vansh aage badhao.

Anupama said beautiful lines "Nandini ne sach jaanke rishta joda nahi aur Samar ne sach jaanke rishta toda nahi" Vanraj, learn from your kids. Why I have written we all know so won't elaborate it. Another beautiful dialogue to Vanraj "Jis bete ko aap nichi nazaro se dekhte aaye hai, aaj uski soch itni unchi ho gayi hai ki gardan mein moch aa jayegi". Poor Samar always alone in this house. I feel very bad for him.

Vanraj bringing the age thing. This is a major thing to be broken in the society. My parents, my some friends said that they won't marry an elder girl. This is what I don't like at all. Why is there written anywhere that an elder girl is not allowed? Love should be the important the factor. Is it ok that the society makes a girl to marry a man who is 10 years old? Glad they brought the age factor.

I feel that this time Anupama was not Mahan. She was modern in her thinking. Leela says I want to be a Pardadi. Behen umra kitni bachi hai boss tapak padogi kabhi. Pardadi banogi phir bologi ke Par ki Pardadi banana hai. Vanraj said regarding kids was right to some extent. That kids make you happy in oldage. There are some couples who don't want kids. But can they not adopt kids?

Leela said Maa bachhe ko janam lene se banati hai. What a modern thinking. See Lord Krishna. Devki gave him birth but Yashoda raised him. . Now taking my example only. My aunt has no kids. So she considers me as a daughter. Anupama said Maa banane ke liye Mamta honi chahiye. Meri maasi mein mere liye woh hi mamta hai. Samar again right what if the accident happened after the marriage. What a dialogue "Aap vansh chala rahi hai aapko pata hai par aap kiska vansh chala rahi hai aapko nahi pata".

Again Advait as the mood healer. He tried to give a new perception, but this these two senseless people got on my nerves. This Toshu didn't want kids now what happened to him. Instead of being with Sanan he is with his hero Maharaj. Samar said "Meine Vansh aage badhane ka theka le rakha hai" 👍🏼 He said "Desh ke 140 crore lok ukkhad nahi paaye, woh mera bacha ukhad lega" A dialogue that made me laugh so hard. 🤣

Poor Samar. No words I have to express his sadness. All against him. He has Anupama on his side, otherwise Shah family people will torture him badly. How easily Leela said Tu ab baharwali hai. Vanraj even snatched his right of being called a mother. What Anupama said regarding divorce and what type of expression Leela gave so insensitive. I wanna slap Kavya, at least for Nandini she could have stood up. But this hypocrite lady changed like this.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Anupama holds Nandini's hand and supports her. Just how a mother supports the child. Vanraj is acting as an idiot as usual. Nandini is telling the truth before marrying. Instead of appreciating her for telling the truth. These stereotype people are blaming her. Now this makes me to think that are women just a means to give birth to children after marrying? Means mera Vansh aage badhao, bas yahi hai aurat ka kaam hai?

We marry people not to have kids. But we marry someone to share our pains, in the tiring journey, we share partnership and things get easy. Out of love, kids happen. First motive of marriage is to share a journey. These people like Leela, make people marry for Vansh aage badhao.

Anupama said beautiful lines "Nandini ne sach jaanke rishta joda nahi aur Samar ne sach jaanke rishta toda nahi" Vanraj, learn from your kids. Why I have written we all know so won't elaborate it. Another beautiful dialogue to Vanraj "Jis bete ko aap nichi nazaro se dekhte aaye hai, aaj uski soch itni unchi ho gayi hai ki gardan mein moch aa jayegi". Poor Samar always alone in this house. I feel very bad for him.

Vanraj bringing the age thing. This is a major thing to be broken in the society. My parents, my some friends said that they won't marry an elder girl. This is what I don't like at all. Why is there written anywhere that an elder girl is not allowed? Love should be the important the factor. Is it ok that the society makes a girl to marry a man who is 10 years old? Glad they brought the age factor.

I feel that this time Anupama was not Mahan. She was modern in her thinking. Leela says I want to be a Pardadi. Behen umra kitni bachi hai boss tapak padogi kabhi. Pardadi banogi phir bologi ke Par ki Pardadi banana hai. Vanraj said regarding kids was right to some extent. That kids make you happy in oldage. There are some couples who don't want kids. But can they not adopt kids?

Leela said Maa bachhe ko janam lene se banati hai. What a modern thinking. See Lord Krishna. Devki gave him birth but Yashoda raised him. . Now taking my example only. My aunt has no kids. So she considers me as a daughter. Anupama said Maa banane ke liye Mamta honi chahiye. Meri maasi mein mere liye woh hi mamta hai. Samar again right what if the accident happened after the marriage. What a dialogue "Aap vansh chala rahi hai aapko pata hai par aap kiska vansh chala rahi hai aapko nahi pata".

Again Advait as the mood healer. He tried to give a new perception, but this these two senseless people got on my nerves. This Toshu didn't want kids now what happened to him. Instead of being with Sanan he is with his hero Maharaj. Samar said "Meine Vansh aage badhane ka theka le rakha hai" 👍🏼 He said "Desh ke 140 crore lok ukkhad nahi paaye, woh mera bacha ukhad lega" A dialogue that made me laugh so hard. 🤣

Poor Samar. No words I have to express his sadness. All against him. He has Anupama on his side, otherwise Shah family people will torture him badly. How easily Leela said Tu ab baharwali hai. Vanraj even snatched his right of being called a mother. What Anupama said regarding divorce and what type of expression Leela gave so insensitive. I wanna slap Kavya, at least for Nandini she could have stood up. But this hypocrite lady changed like this.

@bold - small correction "Nandini sach chupa kar rishta joda nahi......"

@red - Just loved these lines.

@blue - lolll this cracked me up 🤣

@purple - I felt like slapping Baa

@green - its our mistake that we always expect ki he will go against his father and support what is right. I missed Kinjal here yaar. I so wanted her to be present during this sequence, atleast she would have supported Anu.

Everything you have you have written is perfectly summarised. Nothing much to add.

Just one thing, the expression that Rupali gave when Baa called her baharwali really brought tears in my eyes. That pain, that shock, 25 ghante main 25 saal ka rishta bhula diya. All the concern and meri beti hai tu, went down the drain in just one second. I felt atleast Baa had truly and wholeheartedly accepted her as her daughter, but she proved woh Vanraj ki Maa hai, kutte ke dum humesha tedhi ki tedhi hi rehti hai.

Also I did not understand, why was Baa so shocked knowing that Nandini is elder than samar, didn't she used that as one of the reason earlier to refuse their alliance. Toh ab itna shock kyujn ho rahi thi?

Kavya hit a new low today by using Nandini's pain and agony for her benefit and Baa toh fuli nahi samaa rahi thi jab Kavya ne baa ki side li. Baa, Vanraj and Toshu deserves Kavya only.

One thing is good now Samar will stay with Anupamaa.

Precap main old Egoistic Vanraj is back, well then my savage Anupamaa is also back, Vanraj ke bass ka nahi ki usse tod sake. Jisse EMA, divorce and Cancer nahi tod saka usseaur kya todega.

On a lighter note, when Samar said na ki main 22 saal ka hun aur hum bache discuss kar rahe hai, I was like, beta tujhe abhi shaadi bhi discuss nahi karni chahiye thi, pehle thik se kamane toh lag.

Kavya, " let baa decide" really?? Let's see how this works out for you in the future.

Also, instead of the 25 years relationship wala lecture, I would have loved it if she just told baa I broke relationship with mr. Shah and not my kids so you stay out of my kids business. Shut up (in a nicer tone) when parents are talking.

And to v and kavya, that No baa will not make teh final decision, she is not the mother. I am.

Originally posted by: puja0507

Kavya, " let baa decide" really?? Let's see how this works out for you in the future.

Also, instead of the 25 years relationship wala lecture, I would have loved it if she just told baa I broke relationship with mr. Shah and not my kids so you stay out of my kids business. Shut up (in a nicer tone) when parents are talking.

And to v and kavya, that No baa will not make teh final decision, she is not the mother. I am.

This was my same thought!

She is mother of Samar so she has more right than baa. baa is not Samar’s mother. She needed to inform baa that she has not broke up with her kids and she has all the rights.

I Dont know why vanraj and baa said to dr advait that Dont interfere in family matter. Arey dr advait family matter mein kaha intefere kiya . Woh to latest technology ke bare mein bata raha tha

Ajeeb paagal yeh baa aur vanraj

Upar se vanraj ne music deck bhi gira diya

Aacha hua anupama ne is pshyco vanraj ko divorce de diya nahin aur is pshyco family se baahar aa gayi

Originally posted by: neo7

@bold - small correction "Nandini sach chupa kar rishta joda nahi......"

@red - Just loved these lines.

@blue - lolll this cracked me up 🤣

@purple - I felt like slapping Baa

@green - its our mistake that we always expect ki he will go against his father and support what is right. I missed Kinjal here yaar. I so wanted her to be present during this sequence, atleast she would have supported Anu.

Everything you have you have written is perfectly summarised. Nothing much to add.

Just one thing, the expression that Rupali gave when Baa called her baharwali really brought tears in my eyes. That pain, that shock, 25 ghante main 25 saal ka rishta bhula diya. All the concern and meri beti hai tu, went down the drain in just one second. I felt atleast Baa had truly and wholeheartedly accepted her as her daughter, but she proved woh Vanraj ki Maa hai, kutte ke dum humesha tedhi ki tedhi hi rehti hai.

Also I did not understand, why was Baa so shocked knowing that Nandini is elder than samar, didn't she used that as one of the reason earlier to refuse their alliance. Toh ab itna shock kyujn ho rahi thi?

Kavya hit a new low today by using Nandini's pain and agony for her benefit and Baa toh fuli nahi samaa rahi thi jab Kavya ne baa ki side li. Baa, Vanraj and Toshu deserves Kavya only.

One thing is good now Samar will stay with Anupamaa.

Precap main old Egoistic Vanraj is back, well then my savage Anupamaa is also back, Vanraj ke bass ka nahi ki usse tod sake. Jisse EMA, divorce and Cancer nahi tod saka usseaur kya todega.

On a lighter note, when Samar said na ki main 22 saal ka hun aur hum bache discuss kar rahe hai, I was like, beta tujhe abhi shaadi bhi discuss nahi karni chahiye thi, pehle thik se kamane toh lag.

Thanks for correcting me

That line when Anupama spoke of 25 years and 25 hours was so touching. This gave me a real picture of life. That sab ko khud se matlab... Matlab khtam to phir tu kaun mein kaun...

This is the reality of life also. We work selflessly and people forget us in one second. This leela wanna slap her. Kavya was bad, this was expected from her bciz she is bad. But Leela, she told Anupama meri Beti hai. Saara rishta dho dala baharwali keh ke

Originally posted by: puja0507

Kavya, " let baa decide" really?? Let's see how this works out for you in the future.

Also, instead of the 25 years relationship wala lecture, I would have loved it if she just told baa I broke relationship with mr. Shah and not my kids so you stay out of my kids business. Shut up (in a nicer tone) when parents are talking.

And to v and kavya, that No baa will not make teh final decision, she is not the mother. I am.

I didn't feel the 25 years dialogue was wrong at all. She could have added your point as well.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I Dont know why vanraj and baa said to dr advait that Dont interfere in family matter. Arey dr advait family matter mein kaha intefere kiya . Woh to latest technology ke bare mein bata raha tha

Ajeeb paagal yeh baa aur vanraj

Upar se vanraj ne music deck bhi gira diya

Aacha hua anupama ne is pshyco vanraj ko divorce de diya nahin aur is pshyco family se baahar aa gayi

Wow Surabhi....

Agar khud ka vansh badhane ka shok hai to maan lete Advait ki baat. Par pagalo ko woh bhi nahi manana.

Every time they appreciate Advait and now they even stopped him from. Doing his work

I think that's why Advait has decided that he won't attend functions 😆