Few Moments left for separation

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Leela and Anupama's scene, regarding the society. Which I find to be stereotyped. The society speaks whatever comes in their mind. What she said regarding the society was right, but is the society going to live Anupama's life? Today they will taunt Anupama and tomorrow when she will fly, the society will say she is such an inspiration? They change sides, their talks according to the needs. Sahi Kaha Anupama ne "Jo Kisika Saga nahi hota, uski parwaah mein kyun karun?" A divorced woman is not a bad woman, just a woman, who doesn't needs a man to support her. Leela was also right, "Har ghar mein sab ko Anupama hi chahiye" Sab ki baat maane. A typical stereotype


Anupama is seeing her kids and crying. The lines that touched me was "Yeh mera pariwaar hai, aur mein apne pariwaar ka hi hissa nahi rahungi" It should be Vanraj leaving the house. The one who makes mistakes should leave the house. The song played "Mera kuchh Saamaan Tera Paas Pada Hai" and the whole journey with Vanraj Shah passes in her mind. She expected dreams from the same and every dream is broken.


Vanraj and Anupama share a scene, Vanraj is very anxious regarding the divorce. As he is seeing his destruction. He is saying, he has Guilt. Enough of this guilt thing. Then isn't he is guilty of what he did to Kavya? He still is saying that "Mein yeh nahi keh raha hu ke mein kavya ko chhod dunga" All his emotional blackmails were coming because he got selfish. Everytime this man reaches the finish line and he plans to extend the dead line. Has he talked to Kavya regarding the same? Anupama mane na mane, Kavya pagal panti karne lagegi. What an emotional blackmail? He saying "Mein tumhare bina pariwaar ka dhyan kaise rakhunga?" Again he is getting on my nerves, is Anupama the caretaker of your house?. Vanraj it would've been better if you said much much before stepping in the marriage "Anupama I will take care for you"


Anupama hugged Vanraj and I was like, Gai Bhens Paani Mein. I felt disgusted till her silence. After she spoke I sensed relief. And Kavya questions Anupama, I think she should question this to Vanraj, because your boyfriend is acting like a Paltu.


Its the morning time and the sunrays are shining Anupama's face. After darkness of betrayal, cheating, now today Anupama's life will see the light after 25 years. And she prayed to Krishna, "It is said Der hai, Andher Nahi" That's what I felt today. The darkness is above to go away after 3 and half hours. All we should say All the best Anupama

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Kavya is soo annoying! It is always and should always be matter of trust... But woman is so filled with herself...


Her Mera Vee Jaap needs to stop... And I wonder if makers plan to make her little more sensible post her marriage with Vanraj or not....

And not that I care...


Next I only care about Anupama and her journey!!! That's it... And to it is light now! Subah ho gayi...


I am one of those who is really happy that it's Anupama who is leaving this house. So far, ever since revelation I have been waiting for makers to focus on her life... Uski school se jyada we see Kinjal and Kavya's office or she is stuck in some Shah family related drama...


Gosh.. It's annoying! It was supposed to be a journey.. I would rather see her dealing with work politics over kitchen politics now... There are no more kids here!

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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Kavya is soo annoying! It is always and should always be matter of trust... But woman is so filled with herself...


Her Mera Vee Jaap needs to stop... And I wonder if makers plan to make her little more sensible post her marriage with Vanraj or not....

And not that I care...


Next I only care about Anupama and her journey!!! That's it... And to it is light now! Subah ho gayi...


I am one of those who is really happy that it's Anupama who is leaving this house. So far, ever since revelation I have been waiting for makers to focus on her life... Uski school se jyada we see Kinjal and Kavya's office or she is stuck in some Shah family related drama...


Gosh.. It's annoying! It was supposed to be a journey.. I would rather see her dealing with work politics over kitchen politics now... There are no more kids here!

Kavya's constant bickering is more annoying than Anupamaa's mahaanta.

Her mere presence on screen irks me.

Have been waiting for Anupamaa's journey after divorce. So excited to see her journey to success.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I Dont understand ki aakhir yeh baa vanraj aakhir kya anupama ko batane ki koshish kar rahe hain ki society taunt karegi sanan ka engagement hai

Arey anupama ko bhi pata hai ki uski akele reh kar sub kuch sambhalna use bhi pata hai sanan ka engagement hona hai pakhi ki padhai complete use bhi naukri aur baad mein shaadi karni hai yeh sub anupama ko pata hai anupama know it Very well

But yeh responsiblity agar anupama poora karegi to agar samar ki shaadi karegi aur pakhi ki padhai poori karkwake phir uski shaadi karke phir doctor se apni bimari ka treatment karwayegi to yeh sub karte karte to aise hi 6,7 year nikal gaye

Aur phir 6,7 year baad divorce lene ka kya matlab. Tub to yahi kaha jaayega anupama se jub 6,7 year tuk bina divorce ke bina vanraj ke saath kaat liya to baaki ki zindagi bhi bina divorce diye hue vanraj ke saath kaat lo ab 6 , 7 year ke baad divorce lene ka kya matlab. Yahi kaha jayega anupama se

But anupama ko pata hai ki uski responsiblity as Mother khatm nahi hue hi but yeh responsiblity poora karne many year lagenge to aakhir anupama kyon responsiblity ki chalte apni self respect itni year tuk compromise kare just to full fill responsiblity hai

Anupama mentaly prepare hai use pata hai divorce le baad akele reh kar aagey ki zindagi kaatja easy nahin hoga but phir bhi woh divorce le rahi hai to aakhir yeh sub anupama se kya kehna chahete hai be it dolly or vanraj or baa


These baa, vanraj shiud know that anupama know that life will be diffcult for her after divorce but anupama is not that person jo mushkil se ghabra jaayegi . Anupama is mentally prepare for all diffculyy after divorce She is fighter kitni bhi musibat aaye anupama never give up

To anupama ko jub is baat ki chinta nahin hai ki society kya kahegi aur jub use chinta nahin hai ki divorce ke baad woh kaise sub khuch karegi she is totally mentaly prepare for it to yeh baar baar anupama ko jabardasti kyon dara rahe hain

Anupama is baat se nahin ghabratiki society kya kahegi woh akele kaise karegi woh bus yeh chahti hai ki uski self respect ke saath koi compromise na ho aur isi self respect ke chalte woh divorce dena chahti hai

Yeh baat vanraj aur baa ko samjhani chahiye ya phir yeh dono janbhuj kar anjaan ban rahe hain

And again questiion to baa vanraj jub tuk anupama ko affair ke bare mein pata nahin tha aur jub usne divorce ke liye apply nahin kiya tha aur vanraj anupama se jhagade karta tha tub baa ne vanraj ko anupama se jhagda karne se kyon nahin roka

Ab kaise yaad aa raha ki parivaar nahin tootna chahiye kyon jub divorce ho jaayega to log to poochenge ki akhir vanraj aur anupama ka divorce kyon hua itni year baad to phir to vanraj ki pole khulegi society ke saamne ki teen bacchon ka father hote hue vanraj ne bahar wali chakkar chalaya to bete ki izzat ki dhajjiyaan ud engine

To bete ki izzat ki dhajjiyaan na ude to baa divorce nahin chahtti asli baat to yahi hai

Kyonki agar baa ko wakai chinta hoti aur wakai chahtti ki vanraj aur anupama aapas mein pyaar se rahe to baa vanraj ko in 25 year mein jaroor vanraj ko samjhauta ya scold karti ki apni biwi se aise rudely baat mut karo but baa ne aisa nahin kiya in 25 year

To baa ka yeh rona parivaar toote jaayega yeh sub Hell irrating aur fake lagta hai

Edited by surabhi01 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Leela and Anupama's scene, regarding the society. Which I find to be stereotyped. The society speaks whatever comes in their mind. What she said regarding the society was right, but is the society going to live Anupama's life? Today they will taunt Anupama and tomorrow when she will fly, the society will say she is such an inspiration? They change sides, their talks according to the needs. Sahi Kaha Anupama ne "Jo Kisika Saga nahi hota, uski parwaah mein kyun karun?" A divorced woman is not a bad woman, just a woman, who doesn't needs a man to support her. Leela was also right, "Har ghar mein sab ko Anupama hi chahiye" Sab ki baat maane. A typical stereotype


Anupama is seeing her kids and crying. The lines that touched me was "Yeh mera pariwaar hai, aur mein apne pariwaar ka hi hissa nahi rahungi" It should be Vanraj leaving the house. The one who makes mistakes should leave the house. The song played "Mera kuchh Saamaan Tera Paas Pada Hai" and the whole journey with Vanraj Shah passes in her mind. She expected dreams from the same and every dream is broken.


Vanraj and Anupama share a scene, Vanraj is very anxious regarding the divorce. As he is seeing his destruction. He is saying, he has Guilt. Enough of this guilt thing. Then isn't he is guilty of what he did to Kavya? He still is saying that "Mein yeh nahi keh raha hu ke mein kavya ko chhod dunga" All his emotional blackmails were coming because he got selfish. Everytime this man reaches the finish line and he plans to extend the dead line. Has he talked to Kavya regarding the same? Anupama mane na mane, Kavya pagal panti karne lagegi. What an emotional blackmail? He saying "Mein tumhare bina pariwaar ka dhyan kaise rakhunga?" Again he is getting on my nerves, is Anupama the caretaker of your house?. Vanraj it would've been better if you said much much before stepping in the marriage "Anupama I will take care for you"


Anupama hugged Vanraj and I was like, Gai Bhens Paani Mein. I felt disgusted till her silence. After she spoke I sensed relief. And Kavya questions Anupama, I think she should question this to Vanraj, because your boyfriend is acting like a Paltu.


Its the morning time and the sunrays are shining Anupama's face. After darkness of betrayal, cheating, now today Anupama's life will see the light after 25 years. And she prayed to Krishna, "It is said Der hai, Andher Nahi" That's what I felt today. The darkness is above to go away after 3 and half hours. All we should say All the best Anupama

@bold - This line hit me hard. Yaar please don't seperate Anu from her kids, she doesn't deserve this at all. Whole life she has suffered enough already, not still. If Vanraj voluntarily leaves the house na, I will atleast start accepting that he really cares of her and his family and may accept if he stays friends with Anu. Can he be selfless for once. It is one chance to atleast actually show his pachtava, that he talked about today.

Vanraj giving family and bacho ki duhai was too much, bcoz he didn't bother about them while having and affair and now emotionally blackmailing Anu for this is so not done.

Also can they please show less of Kavya, recently she disgusts me more than Vanraj. Constant che che is frustrating. Khud toh shanti rakhti nahi hai, dusro ki life main bhi ashanti faila rakhi hai. She wants to marry a giy, jispe usse bharosa nahi, my god, akal kya ghaas charne gayi hai iski. But Vanraj deserves this only, bohot takleef di Anu ko, you deserve this woman only, bohot mazze kiye 25 saal ab tere mazze lenge hum.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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@bold - This line hit me hard. Yaar please don't seperate Anu from her kids, she doesn't deserve this at all. Whole life she has suffered enough already, not still. If Vanraj voluntarily leaves the house na, I will atleast start accepting that he really cares of her and his family and may accept if he stays friends with Anu. Can he be selfless for once. It is one chance to atleast actually show his pachtava, that he talked about today.

Vanraj giving family and bacho ki duhai was too much, bcoz he didn't bother about them while having and affair and now emotionally blackmailing Anu for this is so not done.

Also can they please show less of Kavya, recently she disgusts me more than Vanraj. Constant che che is frustrating. Khud toh shanti rakhti nahi hai, dusro ki life main bhi ashanti faila rakhi hai. She wants to marry a giy, jispe usse bharosa nahi, my god, akal kya ghaas charne gayi hai iski. But Vanraj deserves this only, bohot takleef di Anu ko, you deserve this woman only, bohot mazze kiye 25 saal ab tere mazze lenge hum.


I haven’t expected this from her children. Samar never said I will shift with mummy.

I guess anupama also doesn’t want any of her children with her. She never asked her grown up son specially Samar that does he want to shift with her?


No mother left like her . Bacche bade ho yah chote, har maa puchti hai baccho ko ki tum mere sath aana chahoge ki nahi ?!


yesterday I had said you , she is leaving without filling loopholes, without settling anything. This is my problem with this mother.

Edited by sweet_tania - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania


I haven’t expected this from her children. Samar never said I will shift with mummy.

I guess anupama also doesn’t want any of her children with her. She never asked her grown up son specially Samar that does he want to shift with her?


No mother left like her . Bacche bade ho yah chote, har maa puchti hai baccho ko ki tum mere sath aana chahoge ki nahi ?!


yesterday I had said you , she is leaving without filling loopholes, without settling anything. This is my problem with this mother.

I also don't know she not telling anything to Samar or why Samar is not saying her about living together. Is it bcoz, her mother's house is small and she doesn't want her kids to adjust there, or she doesn't want kids to stay away from each other, and do not want to seperate toshu, pakhi and samar, bcoz pakhi and toshu are never gonna leave we know. I don't know what's the reason, but I want her atleast have this conversation with her kids or family. I hope writers touch this topic.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I also don't know she not telling anything to Samar or why Samar is not saying her about living together. Is it bcoz, her mother's house is small and she doesn't want her kids to adjust there, or she doesn't want kids to stay away from each other, and do not want to seperate toshu, pakhi and samar, bcoz pakhi and toshu are never gonna leave we know. I don't know what's the reason, but I want her atleast have this conversation with her kids or family. I hope writers touch this topic.

Atleast she should have conversation.

It looks so bad being mother, you never asked your child that he/she wants to come with you or not. Even if you are well aware with their choices, you should ask them for once.
Not just samar, she should ask toshu and kinjal too. Even if you know toshu’s choice. You should ask him as a mother.

I am seeing this bullshit for the first time that neither mother nor grown up children having conversation with each other.
If Anu’s mother’s house is small, Samar and she can rent the house for themselves. Ahmedabad mai 10000 mai 3 bhk mil jata hai

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Atleast she should have conversation.

It looks so bad being mother, you never asked your child that he/she wants to come with you or not. Even if you are well aware with their choices, you should ask them for once.
Not just samar, she should ask toshu and kinjal too. Even if you know toshu’s choice. You should ask him as a mother.

I am seeing this bullshit for the first time that neither mother nor grown up children having conversation with each other.
If Anu’s mother’s house is small, Samar and she can rent the house for themselves. Ahmedabad mai 10000 mai 3 bhk mil jata hai

I hope they show this convo before she is actually leaving the house. Right now she is too much occupied with getting the divorce.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania


I haven’t expected this from her children. Samar never said I will shift with mummy.

I guess anupama also doesn’t want any of her children with her. She never asked her grown up son specially Samar that does he want to shift with her?


No mother left like her . Bacche bade ho yah chote, har maa puchti hai baccho ko ki tum mere sath aana chahoge ki nahi ?!


yesterday I had said you , she is leaving without filling loopholes, without settling anything. This is my problem with this mother.

Even I have the same issue

why cannot Samar leave with her . He can give her moral ,emo and financial support

Toshu is still her son and can still contibute financially and support his

It's time for children to support the right

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