Both have double minds

Anupama and Vanraj are talking about Sanan engagement. Happy that Vanraj cleared my doubt regarding Opposing Sanan. Samar is so stubborn in front of his father, that he won't listen to his father. Vanraj said that we start taking everything positively. But I think he takes only few things positively. Rest he believes in running away, getting angry, getting confused and all

Advait playing the flute and Vanraj enjoying it. Was very much relatable to me. Music is my soul, so I was able to connect more. Krishna plays flute, he says agar man se khali rahoge to hi sur achhe lagenge. Music is very powerful source to connect with Krishna (Experience speaks). Vanraj said "Tum Krishna ho sabke dost" Krishna makes friends easily, he can connect to every part of you. That's why Advait made friends easily with Kavya.

Regarding what they said about learning. Vanraj claims that he learnt too much from life. I think he is wrong. If he learnt then he would be a positive person. Learning is what Anupama has done. She knew nothing but still learnt so many things after getting aged. Learning comes with curiousity. Vanraj had the chance to learn cooking while staying at Kavya's, but he was not curious instead he misunderstood the work as females job.

Kavya on one hand trusting Anupama and her Mahan promise and other side she has insecurities. If Vanraj is double sided, then so is Kavya. Kavya said to Anupama, "Tum.jahan jaati ho wahan ghar bana leti ho" Kavya is getting back her Karma. She is getting jealous of Anupama and this jealousy is forcing her to compare herself with Anupama. That makes her even more sad.

During Kavya and Vanraj scene, Now why Kavya is against Sanan? Vanraj discussing about Anupama's happiness will of course annoy Kavya. Vanraj always diverting the divorce topic. Anupama needs no Vanraj to console but Kavya needs. Kavya On one side trusts Anupama's promise and then she is blaming Anupama always otherwise.

In the moment Vanraj attempts to slap Kavya. Vanraj shouldn't have done this at all. I understand, but why Anupama needs to speak up everytime. Kavya is a strong girl, she can handle it. She is not An Abla Naari. This makes me think that Anupama once slapped Kavya. Why? Be it a woman slapping a woman or man slapping a woman. A woman shouldn't be slapped at all. Not a woman, a man should also be not slapped. Why Anupama is telling them to end the fight?

KAVYA AND VANRAJ BOTH HAVE DOUBLE MINDS, THAT'S WHY THEY FIGHT ALWAYS

i just read the updates because cant stand to listen to mata jee s lectures plus i dont like samar and his behaviour ,mata jee is busy giving the lectures to others but it should have started from home first .sorry

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Anupama and Vanraj are talking about Sanan engagement. Happy that Vanraj cleared my doubt regarding Opposing Sanan. Samar is so stubborn in front of his father, that he won't listen to his father. Vanraj said that we start taking everything positively. But I think he takes only few things positively. Rest he believes in running away, getting angry, getting confused and all

Advait playing the flute and Vanraj enjoying it. Was very much relatable to me. Music is my soul, so I was able to connect more. Krishna plays flute, he says agar man se khali rahoge to hi sur achhe lagenge. Music is very powerful source to connect with Krishna (Experience speaks). Vanraj said "Tum Krishna ho sabke dost" Krishna makes friends easily, he can connect to every part of you. That's why Advait made friends easily with Kavya.

Regarding what they said about learning. Vanraj claims that he learnt too much from life. I think he is wrong. If he learnt then he would be a positive person. Learning is what Anupama has done. She knew nothing but still learnt so many things after getting aged. Learning comes with curiousity. Vanraj had the chance to learn cooking while staying at Kavya's, but he was not curious instead he misunderstood the work as females job.

Kavya on one hand trusting Anupama and her Mahan promise and other side she has insecurities. If Vanraj is double sided, then so is Kavya. Kavya said to Anupama, "Tum.jahan jaati ho wahan ghar bana leti ho" Kavya is getting back her Karma. She is getting jealous of Anupama and this jealousy is forcing her to compare herself with Anupama. That makes her even more sad.

During Kavya and Vanraj scene, Now why Kavya is against Sanan? Vanraj discussing about Anupama's happiness will of course annoy Kavya. Vanraj always diverting the divorce topic. Anupama needs no Vanraj to console but Kavya needs. Kavya On one side trusts Anupama's promise and then she is blaming Anupama always otherwise.

In the moment Vanraj attempts to slap Kavya. Vanraj shouldn't have done this at all. I understand, but why Anupama needs to speak up everytime. Kavya is a strong girl, she can handle it. She is not An Abla Naari. This makes me think that Anupama once slapped Kavya. Why? Be it a woman slapping a woman or man slapping a woman. A woman shouldn't be slapped at all. Not a woman, a man should also be not slapped. Why Anupama is telling them to end the fight?

KAVYA AND VANRAJ BOTH HAVE DOUBLE MINDS, THAT'S WHY THEY FIGHT ALWAYS

@bold - I found Anupamaa's reaction normal when she saw Vanraj raising his hands on Kavya. Yes I agree Kavya is not abla naari, but behaves that way when it comes to Vanraj, also she didn't stop his hand when raised it, the way Anu had stopped it when Vanraj gad raised on her. So obviously, if Vanraj himself had not stopped, he would have slapped Kavya. So that way her reaction was normal but only to the extent when she told Vanraj not to control women and to kavya not to become hayi bechari (which she is becoming now-a-days). Apart from that the bhashan she gave on how they should not fight and patch up was not needed at all. Also I don't think we can compare the situation when Anu slapped Kavya. Firstly because that day she repeatedly told kavya to leave and not create unnecessary scene, even haath jodke bola tha usse bcoz the issue that she was creating was not at all relevant and was spoiling someone else's happy day. Whereas Vanraj raises his hands considering as if its his birth right and thats why she told him off.

I agree Kavya and Vanraj are in two minds. Atleast Vanraj told Kavya that after Anu recovers from illness, he will divorce her. But Kavya toh has become insane. First she tells Vanraj to tell his decision whatever be it, but then in precap we saw that when she heard Vanraj wants to cancel divorce ( I am assuming Vanraj meant till Anu is cured, he doesn't want to take divorce), she told him he has to divorce Anupamaa. Than what is the point in asking Vanraj his decision. Also one side she says I feel Vanraj loves Anu and finds reasons to stay with her and then says ki Vanraj ke muh se uska decision sunna hai and maine umeed nahi chhodi. This woman needs to gather her self respect and dump Vanraj.

The way she is jealous of Anupamaa, she will always feel it, even once she marries Vanraj. She said Anu jahan jaati hai wahan ghar basa leti hai bcoz usse ghar basana aata hai, ghar ujadna nahi. Kavyaa will never feel secure even after marriage bcoz no one is gonna accept her and also Anu will always be part of Vanraj's life through family and kids and she will always feel lonely, jealous and insecure. Why can't she understand this is beyond me.

Originally posted by: kooki07

i just read the updates because cant stand to listen to mata jee s lectures plus i dont like samar and his behaviour ,mata jee is busy giving the lectures to others but it should have started from home first .sorry

Anupama is better than the other serials we watch. There are deviations but it is a good one then that other serial. Of course Anupama is shown Mahan but she is somewhat real also

Originally posted by: neo7

@bold - I found Anupamaa's reaction normal when she saw Vanraj raising his hands on Kavya. Yes I agree Kavya is not abla naari, but behaves that way when it comes to Vanraj, also she didn't stop his hand when raised it, the way Anu had stopped it when Vanraj gad raised on her. So obviously, if Vanraj himself had not stopped, he would have slapped Kavya. So that way her reaction was normal but only to the extent when she told Vanraj not to control women and to kavya not to become hayi bechari (which she is becoming now-a-days). Apart from that the bhashan she gave on how they should not fight and patch up was not needed at all. Also I don't think we can compare the situation when Anu slapped Kavya. Firstly because that day she repeatedly told kavya to leave and not create unnecessary scene, even haath jodke bola tha usse bcoz the issue that she was creating was not at all relevant and was spoiling someone else's happy day. Whereas Vanraj raises his hands considering as if its his birth right and thats why she told him off.

I agree Kavya and Vanraj are in two minds. Atleast Vanraj told Kavya that after Anu recovers from illness, he will divorce her. But Kavya toh has become insane. First she tells Vanraj to tell his decision whatever be it, but then in precap we saw that when she heard Vanraj wants to cancel divorce ( I am assuming Vanraj meant till Anu is cured, he doesn't want to take divorce), she told him he has to divorce Anupamaa. Than what is the point in asking Vanraj his decision. Also one side she says I feel Vanraj loves Anu and finds reasons to stay with her and then says ki Vanraj ke muh se uska decision sunna hai and maine umeed nahi chhodi. This woman needs to gather her self respect and dump Vanraj.

The way she is jealous of Anupamaa, she will always feel it, even once she marries Vanraj. She said Anu jahan jaati hai wahan ghar basa leti hai bcoz usse ghar basana aata hai, ghar ujadna nahi. Kavyaa will never feel secure even after marriage bcoz no one is gonna accept her and also Anu will always be part of Vanraj's life through family and kids and she will always feel lonely, jealous and insecure. Why can't she understand this is beyond me.

Regarding the slap thing, we both agree that Vanraj should not slap. This man is doing the same with Kavya. I was saying it in the context of real life, means if a divorced woman sees her Sautan and her ex husband fighting. And the latter slaps her, then the wife wont indulge in it.

You are saying from a human approach, that be it anyone Anupama will do the same. Our approaches are right but the perspectives are different. It depends upon the individuals

sorry to ask which other shows do you watch please?

Originally posted by: kooki07

sorry to ask which other shows do you watch please?

I watch Ghum, Mehndi and ANNS (sometimes)

Originally posted by: kooki07

i just read the updates because cant stand to listen to mata jee s lectures plus i dont like samar and his behaviour ,mata jee is busy giving the lectures to others but it should have started from home first .sorry

Same here 🤢

I can relate with only kinjal and she is my favourite character. Only person who has brain and heart both at correct place and can say spade a spade ♠️ Waiting for her come back.

I am skipping impractical lectures and annoying mahanta scenes.

I just can’t stand anupama’s bad habit of diverting the actual matters.🤢In no capacity i would like to listen her dumb bhashans just to counter other person.

Unfortunately I am not seeing any better options and I like kinjal so I am hanging here.

Samar is good by heart but I don’t like the acting and jodi of actor actress. No spark No chemistry No acting skill 🤢

If they continue anupama as relationship counsellor for vanya in future after their marriage, it will be awful to watch and that will be my last day with the serial.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Same here 🤢

I can relate with only kinjal and she is my favourite character. Only person who has brain and heart both at correct place and can say spade a spade ♠️ Waiting for her come back.

I am skipping impractical lectures and annoying mahanta scenes.

I just can’t stand anupama’s bad habit of diverting the actual matters.🤢In no capacity i would like to listen her dumb bhashans just to counter other person.

Unfortunately I am not seeing any better options and I like kinjal so I am hanging here.

Samar is good by heart but I don’t like the acting and jodi of actor actress. No spark No chemistry No acting skill 🤢

If they continue anupama as relationship counsellor for vanya in future after their marriage, it will be awful to watch and that will be my last day with the serial.

Evu lage 6 k tame bahu bhadai gayela chho.

Sanan my opinion on them is 7/10.

Bolded line: I laughed hard

Anupama and Mahanta janam janam no rishto 6. Khabar 6?🤣

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Evu lage 6 k tame bahu bhadai gayela chho.

Sanan my opinion on them is 7/10.

Bolded line: I laughed hard

Anupama and Mahanta janam janam no rishto 6. Khabar 6?🤣

Ha ben bav j bhadai gayi chu 😆

Sautan ne koi Promise b api shake?!!!! Relationship counsellor banvani a hadd hoi 🤢 aa to gheli thai gai che kavya pachad 😆

Avo ghelo to vanraj pan nathi kavya mate jetli anupama gheli thai che 😆