Lost my balance completely

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Today's episode Anupama is all happy with the family and then she is out in the garden where she meets Advait. Where Advait has an idea that Anupama knows about the reports and appreciates her positivity. On the other side family is emotional that Anupama is suffering. The family getting emotional for Anupama is her life time earning. the family fears that Advait doesn't blurts truth out to Anupama.


Anupama asks him about her reports. Instead he is much frank and truthful rather than someone giving her false hopes. He tell the truth. Truth cant be changed Anupama has to face this truth. The situation is given to her that she has a tumour, either she spoils the gift of her life for few days or cry pathetically for it. This Anupama's current track, reminds me of our current Corona track. I know the disease is deadly, people are dying but some people are dying just because of the fear of having Corona, the fear overshadows over happiness and we aren't able to live our life fully.


On the other side Kavya still in the same situation alone vs Vanraj's family together. I wonder its written that she will stay alone in her fate. During Vanya's scene today, Kavya was somewhat right, but she was also selfish. Kavya said that Anupama's illness might not be cured after 5 years, then Vanraj will give Anupama's illness reason to Kavya? Its just a signature. Whereas Vanraj got what he liked. Quote in Gujarati "Bhavtu hatu ne Vaidhya e Kidhu" Means I was confused regarding the divorce and Anupama's illness reduced my dilemma or atleast prevented the problem for now. Vanraj should obviously support Anupama but as a friend, and again he claimed her to be his wife. He said "Meri kuchh Zimmedariya hai". Before a day he was running away from his responsibility and now he wants to fulfill the responsibilities.


Advait said only Kanha knows how much time she has left. Just put whatever I write in these two paragraph keep in this Corona context and we will find it much relatable. Advait said "Saath mein milke ladna padega". A patient fights with the help of doctor. A family member fights with the support of others strength. Our soul fights with the support of God. Our Karma is to fight not to win. Anupama will fight with the help of Kanha, family members and Advait.


Now Anupama is thinking about the family and that reminded me of my father. He fears if he gets Corona, then he will be closer to death and what about the family. This is one of the main reason why we fear death. What will happen after me? Anupama is worrying about each and everyone except her ownself. She didn't think about the divorce. I am happy she didn't think about Vanya marriage. Thank you CVs for that.


She walks and then runs and finds Seema Samapta. This is life whatever we do it is going to end, some of our responsibilities we wont be able to fulfil it. Anupama worrying about everyone. That's why its very hard to die. But the bitter truth is that the world wont stop after Anupama it will run. It is just the serial will stop. Anupama here is portrayed to be a super woman and now she will not worry about herself instead she will manage some finances, manages Sanan's marriage, Pakhi's studies, will train Kinjal. No one in real life is able to complete every responsibility and I wont like anupama to fulfill all.


Anupama instead of fearing and worrying live in the present. This breathes are now a gift to you by Kanhaji. Your fear and your worry will take away your happiness. Think for yourself and dance your heart out, till your illness is cured.

ANUPAMA JUST FOUND HAPPINESS AND REALITY STRIKED HER HARD. SO HARD THAT SHE LOST BALANCE COMPLETE


Note: I request people to not worry about Corona as it is not in our control. This worry is eating you up at a faster pace than Corona itself. Please have a strong will power. And those who have lost their loved ones. My heartiest condolences to them and praying to God that they give peace. Don't be scared and live your life fully and do what you like after you work the whole day. This will pass.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think it will be discovered that its first stage and she will get cured. Since Ranjan Sir post points that divorce will happen .

I find the mahanta OTT but that's the reason many incl my Amma like her .

In life one has to be selfish sometimes.

I mean her relationship with baa is something I don't understand how can someone tolerate verbal.abuse for so many years and yet not resent it 🧐. Why are women put on a pedestal and expected to forgive a s be mahaan

The way Toshu and Sweety behave with her is so bad ..

In a way when u let such behaviour continue u are creating issues for their spouse. Toshu for example in many ways us like his father MCP and sweety more often than not always is self centered

Samar is one character I quite like.

kinjal and her mom are one of my fav characters realist and practical

Kinjal has this fine balance of self respect and love

Rakhi is again a realist and perhaps feels her daughter will be expected to adhere to mahaanta standards

Again the above is my perspective and I don't expect peeps to agree.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I think it will be discovered that its first stage and she will get cured. Since Ranjan Sir post points that divorce will happen .

I find the mahanta OTT but that's the reason many incl my Amma like her .

In life one has to be selfish sometimes.

I mean her relationship with baa is something I don't understand how can someone tolerate verbal.abuse for so many years and yet not resent it 🧐. Why are women put on a pedestal and expected to forgive a s be mahaan

The way Toshu and Sweety behave with her is so bad ..

In a way when u let such behaviour continue u are creating issues for their spouse. Toshu for example in many ways us like his father MCP and sweety more often than not always is self centered

Samar is one character I quite like.

kinjal and her mom are one of my fav characters realist and practical

Kinjal has this fine balance of self respect and love

Rakhi is again a realist and perhaps feels her daughter will be expected to adhere to mahaanta standards

Again the above is my perspective and I don't expect peeps to agree.


Your comment is valid but I have deviation regarding Anupama and Leela, won't discuss it as it will get much elaborated.

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