Dheere Dheere Samajh Jayegi - Page 2

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Yeah Toshu is no ideal son but his stance seems not only way more moralistic compared to Pankhi but also far more understandable and realistic for someone in that situation...

No educated young people of this generation would wish for their mom to patch up with a husband like Vee... literally no one... if anything it would be the moms themselves or elders like Baa who would want things to move in that direction...

Toshu is better than Pakhi any day. Pakhi has been the most ill mannered one. Baa will taunt Kinjal but will have no guts to correct her fav grandchild bcoz she is daughter of the house.

Pakhi has been given whatever she demanded so have been toshu but atleast after Vanraj left house he thought of doing job while madam Pakhi ran behind dad to fullfill her materialistic needs.

Originally posted by: shruti

Toshu is better than Pakhi any day. Pakhi has been the most ill mannered one. Baa will taunt Kinjal but will have no guts to correct her fav grandchild bcoz she is daughter of the house.

Pakhi has been given whatever she demanded so have been toshu but atleast after Vanraj left house he thought of doing job while madam Pakhi ran behind dad to fullfill her materialistic needs.

Not really, Pakhi is stupid because of her own sheltered upbringing. She has not had a boyfriend or been in love and hence doesn't understand the seriousness of cheating. She will get a reality slap and will come back to Anupamaa.

Paritosh is an opportunist. For him people hold importance in increasing order of money which is why he favours Rakhi over Vanraj, but favours the same Vanraj over Anupamaa. He objected to Vanraj's cheating only because Rakhi chided them and it threatened his engagement. He will shuttle between these three (and Kavya) as and when suits him.

No wonder Kinjal is already divorcing him in the Bengali version.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Not really, Pakhi is stupid because of her own sheltered upbringing. She has not had a boyfriend or been in love and hence doesn't understand the seriousness of cheating. She will get a reality slap and will come back to Anupamaa.

Paritosh is an opportunist. For him people hold importance in increasing order of money which is why he favours Rakhi over Vanraj, but favours the same Vanraj over Anupamaa. He objected to Vanraj's cheating only because Rakhi chided them and it threatened his engagement. He will shuttle between these three (and Kavya) as and when suits him.

No wonder Kinjal is already divorcing him in the Bengali version.

Both kids hv shown their selfish side snd whenever they hv anyone to blame it's their anu not Vanraj just like their dad and baa. Toshu can b manipulated easily hence it was easy for Vanraj to fool him when he confront him about affair. Pakhi has been princess of house. When she use to give bestie imp over mom anu use to feel bad but not express now she is getting jealous bcoz anu is treating Kinjal as daughter.

Tell me about it! I have even up all hopes on Anu.

She never talks down Pakhi on her behavior, even if she does a little - that is not enough! Pakhi straightforward blackmailed Anu about leaving the house. and all Anu had to say was she is a teen- she will eventually understand. Like how she is going to understand anything - if she doesn't even know her behavior/mentality is problematic.

Pakhi too is another level character. It surprises me, how everything is so normal to her after all the things that have happened. She seems like living in some delusional fairy world with her Papa.

Anu should have at least supported Kinjal on that sasural thingy. But then Baa would have been displeased! Kinjal was right about the oil message as well, but alas. At this point Anu's suffering is on her, not Baa - not Vanraj - not anyone. People have tried giving her a helping hand, but she has turned down everyone with her Sanskar and Mahanta. I think someone said in the forum - she has to help herself first - it is so true!

Originally posted by: shruti

Toshu is better than Pakhi any day. Pakhi has been the most ill mannered one. Baa will taunt Kinjal but will have no guts to correct her fav grandchild bcoz she is daughter of the house.

Pakhi has been given whatever she demanded so have been toshu but atleast after Vanraj left house he thought of doing job while madam Pakhi ran behind dad to fullfill her materialistic needs.

Yes! Pankhi is much much worse than Toshu... at least he woke up to his dad's real nature after the big reveal at the resort (and Vee's following rant about Anu after returning home)...

And why would Baa correct her? Pankhi just wants Kinjal to be treated the same way Anu was treated by Baa, Dolly, Vanraj... and she's confused as to why things are not going that way as she has grown up believing it to be right (and it's worth mentioning that Anu never actually told her otherwise)...