Originally posted by: 100raj
kis bonding ki baat ho rahi hai??
in india over 70 % marriages are arranged by family and ladka and ladki dont know each other...inke beech kaunsa bond hota hai?? in these cases love and bonding happens only after marriages...majority of arranged marriages are successful and divorce ratio is very low...
where as recent survey suggests over 60% of love marriages failed with in one year of marriage...how many childhood friend married to each other??it is near to zero...
life is very uncertain--kabhi bhi death hosaktha hai--husband aur wife ka...and most of cases boys repeat marriage made by family and most of the time is it is arranged one ...
my sister in law death happened with in 6 months of marriage --and her husband remarried with in next 6 month and that was arranged marriage...
can we ask him why he married without bonding with new girl??no--we need to accept reality of life...
death can happen any time and life will move on...this hard truth of life...
jaane wale chale jate hai aur yaaden dhundali hojati hai waqt ke saath...
and about evil things---it is generally believed --evil things can be be contained and not able to eradicate them---so after some time they might resurface in life---so anamika wapas aagayi in new roop...
i understand as a rano fan tumhe bada dhakka laga hai...
jab zindagi main aisa hosaktha hai---kisi ki untimely death hosaktha hai aur uske baad husband ka arranged re-marriage ho saktha hai...
zindagi main jo hosaktha hai---usse serial accept karna itna mushkiil kyon hai??
Dear Raj,
I agree with what you have said about life, death, re-marriage, etc. But, unfortunately that was not the central point that I was arguing in my post. That was only one of the other more important points that I wanted to raise. My central argument was that Anamika's transition from super-natural "buri aatma" to normal human vamp was enough to ruin the show.
When I said that there should be a certain bonding between the lead protagonists, what I meant was that at least the male and female leads should appear as a team who are pitted against the evil force. This makes the viewer align himself with the lead pair. Even if there is no chemistry between them, they should atleast be together when one needs the other. One has to agree that this existed between Rano and Jeet and simply doesnot exist between Chhavi and Jeet.
Also, it is not about any "dhakka"/setback/shock. I clearly stated in my post that it is not about the female protagonist, but the show has been ruined post the revamp because Anamika, the title character has been made powerless. You cannot expect to name a show after the antagonist and then make her powerless in the name of a revamp and still expect the viewers to like it!
Please recall that I was responding to your post in which you said that you didnot find any difference in the show before and after the revamp. What I wanted to specifically point out was that:
Anamika as a powerless human + Lack of chemistry between Chhavi and Jeet + Anamika's projection as yet another obsessive vamp in a love triangle who has no other weapon but black magic = the difference in the show before and after the revamp and also the cause for the show's rapid decline.
Even after Rano's death had Anamika not been rendered so helpless, powerless and a common human, had Chhavi not been forced upon the viewers and had Anamika been made to work hard again as a "buri aatma" to lure Jeet to her using her super-natural powers, the plight of the show would not have been so pathetic as it is today!!
Edited by Abhishek_5 - 12 years ago
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