Chit Chat Question for today 31st July 2013

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Posted: 12 years ago
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HELLO AMITIANS... Kem chho????


LOVE MARRIAGE COUPLES ATUL - KAJAL❤️

ARRANGED MARRIAGE COUPLES A2❤️,😊 I'm back again with today's chit chat question!! We have recently seen in Amita Ka Amit the gr8 jhagda between Atul & Kajal...aur humare pyare A2 ke baat to hain hi anokha theek jaise unke jhagde hai...par jhagde ke saath saath pyaar bhi hain beshumaar in do no couple ke beech. Let us discuss today on this age old yet most exciting topic...which kind of marriage is more interesting, enduring & better & why?? Please participate actively in this discussion & share your valuable view points. Please hit the LIKE Button if u like the post! Thank U!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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According to me Arrange marriage (At least for me) is better... Because you are not aware about your partner's likes & dislikes, so you are ready to accept... Acceptance level is very high in Arrange marriage.. While in love marriage you know your partner very well and your expectation level high...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pankhi07

According to me Arrange marriage (At least for me) is better... Because you are not aware about your partner's likes & dislikes, so you are ready to accept... Acceptance level is very high in Arrange marriage.. While in love marriage you know your partner very well and your expectation level high...


hi pankhi

fully agree with you .

btw i wanted to ask you if you could share your experiences with us ? like i wanted you to share your story with us from d time you people met to where are you now . how you fell in love ? how was d adjustment face etec etc please i really want to know how a true love story can be like . pleaze share ur feelings etc etc. ek acha sa detailed write up please ??/

@lily :yaar shaadi koi bhi ho bas pyaar hona chahiye .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pankhi07

According to me Arrange marriage (At least for me) is better... Because you are not aware about your partner's likes & dislikes, so you are ready to accept... Acceptance level is very high in Arrange marriage.. While in love marriage you know your partner very well and your expectation level high...

Well Pankita!! bang on! I knew u'll vote for AM.👏 I still remember how in one of the post U had shared ur personal experience & take on AM...Plzzz along with Kanika I also request u if u can share your story with us...coz even i'll have no option but to hv AM as still I;m not into any love relation with any one.....So plzzz share your story!!😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kanika266


hi pankhi

fully agree with you .

btw i wanted to ask you if you could share your experiences with us ? like i wanted you to share your story with us from d time you people met to where are you now . how you fell in love ? how was d adjustment face etec etc please i really want to know how a true love story can be like . pleaze share ur feelings etc etc. ek acha sa detailed write up please ??/

@lily :yaar shaadi koi bhi ho bas pyaar hona chahiye .

Yes kanika dearie..yeh Pyaar hi sabse ahem cheez hain...& personally agreeing 100% with Pankita I also vote for AM coz in AmM u slowly discover the likes & dislikedsof ur partner & I strongly feel ki until & unless U klive with some 1 24/7 U can't knw the person well enough. In AM ur partner will be in his real self max time as there is no need of wooing U coz u r already married...& so it becomes easier to know the real self...Times is definitely taken to make things work out & to find Love in AM...but it happens & it happens permanently coz all ur good & bad qualities r revealed to your partner so if he/ she loves U this love will be completely pure as he/ she will accept u the way u r!! That's why i think AMs r more enduring!! The entire phase of knowing , discovering your partner's likes, dislikes & then suddenly discovering LOVE is extremely fascinating according to me! Hats off to a show called Amita Ka Amit which brought about this fact!👏 No offence plzzz😊 This is just my POV.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wow lily ...kya topic chuna hai dear
I don't know guys whether I am wrong or right…but my vote goes to Aarranged marriage AM.. IN AM U know your partner's nature, character after your marriage. So chances of getting cheated is much less in compared to love marriage…..aise jo ho raha hai aapke samane ho raha hai…..no dekhawa at all…In arrange marriage you have many thing to share that makes the life go on….You know nothing of each other but that is the whole fun….. Discovering each other and taking a common road in the journey of love……wow…realy looking forward to it… 😳😃..hope nishu ke tarha koi meel jaye

Secondly, Its not about two people its about the two family joining by heart..here in AM parents decide for u{off course keeping in mond ur likes}….they decides best for u😊

…..but dekha jaye every relation build on trust…agar wo hai kya LM aur kya AM…Well both the marriage are special in their own way. If there is true feeling, trust understanding …..hai na…😛

But for me…"LOVE AFTER MARRIAGE IS BETTER AND TRUE "…..dekhe aage kya kya hota hai…😉

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Earlier, i always used to advocate love marriage..not because i saw some benefits of LM over AM.. but just bcoz i hv witnessed a bad AM (sry, can't reveal more abt it) so there ws a little hatred/fear in my heart as to AM. But this show really changed my perspective. i came 2 realise that just bcoz i saw a bad AM doesn't mean all AMs are unsuccessful. After watching this atul-kajal drama, i came to d conclusion that it doesn't matter whether a marrige is AM/LM.. it is not at al about AM vs LM.. it all depends upon YOU to make your marriage work... its all about keeping patience n understanding n like amita once said, " always keep on doing little koshishen.."

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Originally posted by: aanaya16

wow lily ...kya topic chuna hai dear

I don't know guys whether I am wrong or right'but my vote goes to Aarranged marriage AM.. IN AM U know your partner's nature, character after your marriage. So chances of getting cheated is much less in compared to love marriage'..aise jo ho raha hai aapke samane ho raha hai'..no dekhawa at all'In arrange marriage you have many thing to share that makes the life go on'.You know nothing of each other but that is the whole fun'.. Discovering each other and taking a common road in the journey of love''wow'realy looking forward to it' 😳😃..hope nishu ke tarha koi meel jaye

Secondly, Its not about two people its about the two family joining by heart..here in AM parents decide for u{off course keeping in mond ur likes}'.they decides best for u😊

'..but dekha jaye every relation build on trust'agar wo hai kya LM aur kya AM'Well both the marriage are special in their own way. If there is true feeling, trust understanding '..hai na'😛

But for me'"LOVE AFTER MARRIAGE IS BETTER AND TRUE "'..dekhe aage kya kya hota hai'😉

Yaar Aanaya...kya kamaal ka likha tune!!!👏 KUDOS!!👏 The points which i highlighted touched my heart yaar!!👍🏼..Really marriage in our culture takes place between two families also...& the parent's have their full blessings on us before we enter our married life...so that;s really a very strong point indeed!!😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: grintson

Earlier, i always used to advocate love marriage..not because i saw some benefits of LM over AM.. but just bcoz i hv witnessed a bad AM (sry, can't reveal more abt it) so there ws a little hatred/fear in my heart as to AM. But this show really changed my perspective. i came 2 realise that just bcoz i saw a bad AM doesn't mean all AMs are unsuccessful. After watching this atul-kajal drama, i came to d conclusion that it doesn't matter whether a marrige is AM/LM.. it is not at al about AM vs LM.. it all depends upon YOU to make your marriage work... its all about keeping patience n understanding n like amita once said, " always keep on doing little koshishen.." ....Yaar Aman!! Kya baat hain!! Meri bolti bandh kar di!! Sach mein...what a brilliant thought ki its "we" who have the power to make our marriages work whether it is LM or AM!! I agree with u 100%...& really its little "koshishe" which works as wonders for our life as Amita said!! Really these r the factors why we r sooo much in love with AMita KA Amit...this is not just a " daily soap" for us or aadhe ghante ka entertainer...but its much much more than that...its is a teacher for maidens like us..a guide book which solves soo many queries of ours!! Kudos to the makers of Amita Ka Amit!!👍🏼...& Kudos to u Aman for sharing this absolutely brilliant thought with us!! Ur write up really touched my heart!!👏 Comments in Pink


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lily.lotus.rosy

Yaar Aanaya...kya kamaal ka likha tune!!!👏 KUDOS!!👏 The points which i highlighted touched my heart yaar!!👍🏼..Really marriage in our culture takes place between two families also...& the parent's have their full blessings on us before we enter our married life...so that;s really a very strong point indeed!!😊

oho lily dear i am glad u like my post😉...waise muze badee sharma aa rahee hai...kahee ye post dekh ke mere daddy meree shadee na karwa deEmbarrassedEmbarrassed...haye

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