It was time to cut the Umbilical Cord! (Updated) - Page 2

Originally posted by: SuperChillz1

Know what Diana, I am actually happy that Sam is divorcing Shobha for his ego and nature.
yaah me too, it would never be like sobha fell in love with other man and divorced him. nobody would be able to point fingers at her in future.
Wht he is doing he thinks will shatter, rip her apart.
The fool he is...sobha cares a shit for him...she is begging to stop ruining the marriage for the sake of her children and moreover she is asking to give some time before taking such a crucial decision...but samarth is forever kutta kamina...little does he know, he is actually paving the path for sobha's second innings with her actual soul mate vikram !
What he doesn't know is Vikram is with hee, by her side, like a strong pillar.
oh he was so much mad with rage, he would have thrashed samarth right left centre if the ganguly brothers didnot stopped him by force and sent him home !!
And sharda has finally opened her eyes... Finally..!

(Apurva looks hansome in black 😉 My fav😆) main thodi naa blind hoon, main bhi ankhe phad phad ke dekha !!😆 waise inti serious mahol mein yeh bolna sahi nehi hai isiliye chup thi...yeh soch ke koi na koi tho yeh topic zaroor tapkaygi !!

Originally posted by: shreya_rc

add your later parts which I emphasized in bold.

Originally posted by: ddsoaps

DD: And about Shobha being an abla naari. My post puts some clarity on it. Its easier said than done. Every relationship deserves a second chance. The kids have to be thought of. Shobha is only on the verge of becoming independent. Not an established independent woman.

The house where she lives is someone else's. And the aftermath of the divorce is to be thought of. She loses the children now that he is out. Court may handover custody to a caretaker until things are sorted. Not sure of the legalities here. Its something a couple talk it over before making a final decision.

Yes it would make great drama for Shobha to sign it off right away and fling the paper on his face. But I feel the CVs are showing it in a more realistic manner. Yeah I would have loved it if she had said "YOu can go to hell"...but Shobha is a character written with great finesse. There is a side to her which is strong, sensible, mature, yet a very vulnerable side to her nature.

Just my POV...


Shreya: "@ bold : I absolutely agree with u. the show is based on reality and for the 1st time atleast they r showing realistic approach towards this sensitive issue. no middle-class Indian woman married for 9 yrs and have two kids will throw a divorce paper and walk away from the husband, no matter how much kameena that man is.such drama can gather taliyar briefly but it would be realistic at all . she knows whatever she is doing is wrong, this man has no right to abuse and insult her, the psychopath doesnot even deserve her, but still she tries her best to save the marriage if not for her then atleast for her children...india is still hesitant to accept a loving step dad or an independent single mother...I know it is horribly wrong and unjust , and should be changed immediately but this is reality too...and everyone usually 1st try working according to the norms of the prevalent society before rebelling against it ...it happens when ultimately patience wears off.even at21st century if a woman remarries in India, the children have to hear taunts and crude remarks from their peers...''iske maa doosri saadi kar li haha...which is equivalent to '' look his / her mother is as good as a wh**e.'' and these nonstop jarrings literally drive them mad and make them against their own mother or the new father. or even she doesnot remarry, and remain single, tab bhi baap ko lekar baat hoti i rehgi, and gradually all fingers would point to the woman, iski i koi kami hogi and all nonsense. And thatz why sobha is trying her best to save her marriage and procet her chindren from such future insults and pain of broken marriage...and moreover she is pleading samarth to take time as these decisions should not be taken impulsively. alas, that bas***d has neither time to listen nor heart to realize her word. which is a boon in disguise. and

another thing diana !
sam is not out on bail, he came to attend the marriage on parole. so he will be back on jail. and given samarth's scandalous history do u think he would ever get children's custody if shova decides to contest...srif dhamki se shobha ko darna nehi chahiya now."


DD: "Agree Shreya, society has "zero" leniency towards a woman. Even a widow is not spared.

Oh so he is on parole...This man knows Shobha's weakness and that is him. He has great control over her, hence all those dhamkis...

Also another very important thing, Shobha's direct family is not around to support her. They must show her mum and sister Ridhima.

Vikram and Naani and his family are still just friends and a great employer. But her immediate family's intervention and support is needed for Shobha to take the right decision and sign those documents.

Shobha at this point thinks maybe counselling, talking it out, working on the cheating problem will resolve Samarth's issues. But its deeper than that. She has to think hard over it. And someone else has to give her that little push, booster to do it.

This booster will come from her MIL as her own mother is not shown"

dd