scenes/things I didn't like in ADHM - Page 2

Why need to watch them?Aren't they stowed away in your memory. But then I guess I'm the only idiot who watched a single episode four times in a week everytime time it was aired on Tv. At 10 at night then the rerun at 1 the same night. 5 in the evening the next day and the complete rerun of the week on Sunday .

Originally posted by: blind horizon

Why need to watch them?Aren't they stowed away in your memory. But then I guess I'm the only idiot who watched a single episode four times in a week everytime time it was aired on Tv. At 10 at night then the rerun at 1 the same night. 5 in the evening the next day and the complete rerun of the week on Sunday .

really muneeza, you saw 4 times....😛.........too bad...😆😆.....thats why u got it really bad....😆😆

now we shud not jump into personal discussion here....lets stick to topic only..😊

Yes I understand I got it really bad coming back to the topic I too hated the wedding gown Rusty wore. Way too old fashioned. It could be better if she had worn her hair in a swiss roll or french knot . The gown could have been a different shade champagne maybe or if white then not the placid white she wore rather a creamy white or pearl white. The veil could've been done away with and she could've worn tear drop earrings or just plain ear studs. She culd've worn a plain pearl necklace or a platinum one with a pendant a small one. There it wud've done the work. No rolled hair or veils were required. To spoil the simplicity of it all. The dress could've been off the shoulders , she'd have looked marvellous.

Originally posted by: blind horizon

Well done Shabnam !! 👏 you said it all

i agree.....👏

Hi. I agree with almost all of what Shabnam is saying... too many slaps for me to be comfortble.... given my way i wouldnt have had a single slap.
Also didnt like Rusty's lecturing, hectoring attitude at all.... but thats a problem i have with all Hindi serial heroines who seem to have taken thekha of the world.
Didnt like the abrupt switches of character.... never knew when Mathura would be good and when bad.... i mean remember when Beeji and Mathura behaved badly with Rusty outside the gurudwara, so much so that Samay got the divorce papers made?.... and the very next week they were in her house and with her.... unlike Randhir, who was just pretending, they had gone back to feeling parental about her.... yeh kab hua?
And since i did mention it, found the making of divorce papers wala scene infuriating.... without asking or telling your wife, how can you decide whats right for her and whats wrong?.... i know dramatic effect comes from having the papers ready, but why cant he just say 'i think we should get a divorce' and let that dialogue then be the driving force of the scene.... there's something so authoritative about 'i've got the papers made... you just sign them'.

Originally posted by: blind horizon

Yes I understand I got it really bad coming back to the topic I too hated the wedding gown Rusty wore. Way too old fashioned. It could be better if she had worn her hair in a swiss roll or french knot . The gown could have been a different shade champagne maybe or if white then not the placid white she wore rather a creamy white or pearl white. The veil could've been done away with and she could've worn tear drop earrings or just plain ear studs. She culd've worn a plain pearl necklace or a platinum one with a pendant a small one. There it wud've done the work. No rolled hair or veils were required. To spoil the simplicity of it all. The dress could've been off the shoulders , she'd have looked marvellous.

I am impressed by your detailing here.😊.......I agree, rolled hair and veils were not required😕.....but I think they needed to change the look...but the result was not good enough....Dress off the shoulders........It could have been really difficult for her to carry it and dance as well.....but that would have looked better.....😛.......This whole dance sequence was out of place and not required at all....I feel.😊

Yes I too agree the dance was not required , no intimacy at all. But then I guess both Gaurav and Soumya felt awkward as he commented." The whole unit was looking as if a real Sr was about to happen". How can you not have that disturbed feeling that you'r being watched. So I guess to make it get over with the director went for the dance sequence.But you know I really dun think an Sr could've been felt awkward with. I hate to state the truth but Ekta's soaps somehow carry off that factor really well. When Kashish and Sujal got married it looked that they got married the intimacy was there without any sleaziness , there was a song sequence no doubt but it looked good. Just recently I happened to watch Gauri and Shiv's marraige being consumated and it did justice to the hype that had been created. True I hated the way she actually sucked the glycerined tears off his cheeks but it added to the effect the director wanted. The scene was done in bits and snatches yet conveyed it all, nothing vulgar really.But then all rests on the director's way of portraying a certain emotion even romance can be dealt with in a touching yet non revealing way.

Originally posted by: whynot

Also didnt like Rusty's lecturing, hectoring attitude at all.... but thats a problem i have with all Hindi serial heroines who seem to have taken thekha of the world.

Shvetal, I am also surprised by this attitude of hindi serial heronies...I think they intrude too much in others lives....and their character is portrayed as great😛....while in real life ...we prefer not to intrude too much in others personal life and personal decisions😳...not in context to Rusty...general statement.😊

Originally posted by: whynot

Didnt like the abrupt switches of character.... never knew when Mathura would be good and when bad.... i mean remember when Beeji and Mathura behaved badly with Rusty outside the gurudwara, so much so that Samay got the divorce papers made?.... and the very next week they were in her house and with her.... unlike Randhir, who was just pretending, they had gone back to feeling parental about her.... yeh kab hua?

Story writers take audience for granted😆....Sudden twist in anybody's character and whole story turns in that direction...including other characters😕...there is no logic anywhere....Randhir was very dukhi.....so Mathura and Beeji started cursing Rusty😡...Randhir forgave her overnight without any rhyme or reason....and they also forgave her😆...whole of the thinking is governed by one man's attitude...😆

Originally posted by: whynot

And since i did mention it, found the making of divorce papers wala scene infuriating.... without asking or telling your wife, how can you decide whats right for her and whats wrong?.... i know dramatic effect comes from having the papers ready, but why cant he just say 'i think we should get a divorce' and let that dialogue then be the driving force of the scene.... there's something so authoritative about 'i've got the papers made... you just sign them'.

In reality, if we analyse, it is really impossible.😕...but keeping the story in mind...the greater the shock is...sweeter the result...😉.So I guess all this was done to solve Mohini's problem and normalisation of their relation as husband and wife😛...I guess if the show would have not been coming to an end...they would have dragged it little more....😊

If we go by story , there are many flaws....because story is not written in one go....they change it or rather write it as the show progresses.....

I think in this serial only i saw the characters disappearing when their role is finished....such that it started as a overcrowded family but ended at 4 people...😊

Originally posted by: blind horizon

Yes I too agree the dance was not required , no intimacy at all. But then I guess both Gaurav and Soumya felt awkward as he commented." The whole unit was looking as if a real Sr was about to happen". How can you not have that disturbed feeling that you'r being watched. So I guess to make it get over with the director went for the dance sequence.But you know I really dun think an Sr could've been felt awkward with.

Yes Muneeza, I agree the chemistry was very poor in this dance sequence😊....and I was also surprised by Gaurav's statement when he said that whole unit looks at you as if real SR is going to happen😛....I mean if this is the attitude of unit members then ofcourse actors will have awkward position😕...Keeping this in mind....I would rate this scene as ok😊....but I had lots of expectations from this scene....without any revealing...or physical intimacy still it could have been written in a better way....😊, but the morning after was good enough....😊

As for Rusty's slaps and lectures I think the two things a soap heroine knows how to do well is lecture ardently and slap violently. There are two types of leading ladies those who are timid, contained, teary eyed and affectionate and those who are bold, brash, fiercely religious, cultured and can sustain all injuries and pass any controversy or predicament without a hassle. Unfortunately Rusty was an amalgamation of both . The lectures my God overbearing and the slaps unfortunately all meant for Samay or anyone related to him , not to forget the good doctor. It's surprising how Samay even in the harshest of times and the bitterest of events never once slapped her , and she so frequently did it. He just tried reasoning while she hardly tried that. I realize Samay was impulsive and jumped to conclusions but she hardly gave him a straight answer either running after her Papa or Mama or Biji,to put her act right in front of them. I hated that running away of her. Made me seethe at times.