Originally posted by: candyfloss
whynot why r you refering to me only? 😭 Sweetie I'm referring to you only because i'm upset that you thought of leaving. I would miss you and so wrote to you.
first of all i didnt understand ur post. sorry, will try and write simply from now on.
i know i'm very young at age 15 to decide abt relationship.but i've elder bro-sis so i know tidbits abt love etc.
ok agreed we got over hyper when we saw the article.but i didnt accuse gaurav going out with N.i didnt like him lying.you see,nach baliye is for only couple so why did gaurav act front of everyone being a couple n the next moment he said they split and.... sweetie i understood what you are saying. Yes Nach Baliye is for couples only but they themselves called these 2 and these 2 went. so i think once Nach Baliye people called them the whole issue was over. some people on NB are trained dancers, some are not. some are couples, some may or may not be. once the show starts, all that should matter is how they dance.
i also dont understand why some are saying marriage and love shud be based on beauty,homely person...for me marriage n love is all abt how strong you feel and connect to each other.you dont chose lifepartner based on partying,dancing,watching movies,confused abt commiting. i agree that marriage should be based on connecting to one another. I don't know how Narayani Gaurav connect. But i do know that sometimes people connect over watching movies, dancing and confusion about commitment. For eg, I'm someone who is very scared of marriage, it will be very difficult for me to commit myself to a life long relationship. So i will be able to connect only to someone who understands these doubts.
i know no one is perfect.and gaurav is not perfect at all. that is eactly what i'm saying. why do you expect perfection from tv stars? they're human beings, they'll have their good points and bad points like everyone else.
gaurav is not in my handsome list,i dont like his dress-up,he cud be boring,if i had to choose btwn rajeev or gaurav definitely i'll go for rajeev. of course you can like anyone you want to, i never meant that you have to like Gaurav only.
i know someone mentioned abt me n shahnaz sis that we discuss wht we want to see or happen.my part i expressed nothing like that.
I'm 100% sure gaurav has developed soft corner for saumya.saumya acting exactly the same way gauri acted in kutumb. See sweetie this is what i meant. Enjoy the show but don't be so emotionally involved. Dont let these dreams become so important that you are very upset when they don't come true. shanaz does justify saumya and gaurav, but she's also aware that there is a 1% chance that they may not end up together. I'm worried about you as you're still very young and very strongly want this to happen. I don't want to see you upset if Gaurav and Saumya don't fall in love with each other.
But shahnaz sis can justify saumya better.me,n my sis always get negative vibes abt GN.my sis is married for 2 years n she understands better than me.she's very good at guessing body language n how ppl talk.while watching nach baliye she even understood the couples bonding. i agree that shanaz is brilliant at analysing body language... but these are all edited shows sweetie. What Shanaz sees, what i see, what you see may not be the whole picture.
hey i'm not at all emotionally attached i'm just having fun discussing these stuff. 😆 I'm releived to read this, i was getting seriously worried about you. When one is 14 or 15, emotions can be so intense... things that seem small to the rest of the world can hurt someone so much.
i wudnt have post anything if shahanaz sis and jojo didnt tell me.😆.
i think whynot we have different view point abt relationship,right? 😉 of course we can. after all, difference make the world such a great place to live in.
cool then you explain again b/c i'm confused. 😕
whether ur irritated or dont like me bashing N 😆
i'm not bashing N...i just think G is wrapped around in a little finger. 😉 reason gau said he wont marry her,split blah blah...
N says they're a couple,marriage wont happen in future but will happen sometimes,still going out together etc. i'm not irritated... i just think that we should take the pressures of that life into account before we decide what kind of people they are.
whenever G is interviewed alone he says completely different stuff. 😒
this is just my opinion.i'm trying to figure out G's feelings n expression by reading his interviews.i know its his life buh whats the harm discussing. 😆 😛 i know gaurav says various things. but then that happens in all relationships. you say things based on the last time you've met that person. eg. if i've had a fight with my best friend this morning and complain about him all day (yes my closest friend is a guy), and you meet me that day and ask me about my friends, i would speak of him with far less enthusiasm than any other day. you would think "they are not close". two days later, you see us in a coffee shop talking for hours... you would think " oh they are close. what is happening here?"
i still think gaurav shud make decision on his own rather than depending on one friend.he shud try to make friends(not GF) with other girls and make his own decision.i'm affirmative his freind is keeping an eye on every step.who knows she might be taking advantage. Don't know enough about Gaurav's life to comment. But i think that girls who are friends are very useful... whenever my best friend has a fight with his gf, i'm the one who helps clear up the mess 😃
Sorry for getting a bit personal, first N mentioned that producers/team came to her for participating in NB2.In another inteview she said thatwhen she came to know abt the audition she signed her n G's name without informing him.she goes abt we're dating for 2 years blahblah and G always has something else to say.Doesnt it click!Somethings fishy.The chaos that has been created in nb2 G needs to be more ssensible.
can go on n on buh it might not be in favor of gaurav so PERIOD. Again i wouldn't depend on media reports for making up my mind about someone. there are so many chances of error because of mis quoting, the interviewer's mood at that time etc.
hey whynot i still didnt get your post?pls be straightforward. 😊 sorry kiddo. couldn't keep the teacher in me out. will re post a simplified version. 😊
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