Are we judgmental?

Originally posted by: jojo_100

It is very much our bussiness....no.. no.. our onlyyyyyyyyy bussiness 😉 to discuss each and every aspect of gaurav/samay life..... being his fans we have discussed his love life...his live in relationship?..and even his skinny legs 😆....no body had a problem then... .and btw what should we discuss? ...only his screen character samay?😕...it is a forum about showbiz ,not about religion or morality, and we are discussing a showbiz personality not a saint or some prophet..

Jojo, my sweetest heart❤️ you said my words so beautifully.🤗I agree with you 100%.

Personally I do not feel that I have any right to be judgmental about anyone…. as I, myself am not perfect in many ways.😊

But the people who decide to go for a public life like actors, politicians, basically anyone whose popularity really depends on peoples perceptions… I do not feel there is any problem to be vocal about anything we like to discuss😊. After all we are the people responsible for their fame right?😉

And in case of Gaurav and Saumya this shows only our love and affection (may be unbearable for them😆)… for them. If we feel happy knowing that Gaurav or Saumya does not have a love life….. it's only because we love them to be a couple in real life😳…. Meaning they are doing a great job in ADHM… that we are unable to visualize them separately… we are so attached… that's all.😉😳

Also look at how we go ga ga about him😳😉… is it something we do for other guys in our life who is not our husband or boyfriend?😆 Imagine the situation if we start doing that about every guy we like at school, college, work place, in the mall…. The world will end my friends.😆😆

So in our real life there will never be a Gaurav😭 …. In real life would you able to share some one you love with these many people? Whom ….we will all like to share lovingly and actually enjoy each other's view about him in a forum like this?😉

I know I would not😛… I am a very possessive person when my love life is concern.😛

Hope I have not hurt anyone's feelings.😳

Hi. I seem to have hurt many feelings which was not my intention at all. See as far as Gaurav is concerned, whatever has to happen in his life will happen. All of us can go on hoping and wishing!! Its not like i want him to be with Narayani only.
When i said do not judge what i meant was very simple. On this forum, i got the impression that people think that live-in is wrong. It was that opinion that i was disagreeing with. Gaurav Narayani ho ya Gaurav Saumya, i do not think that only marraige makes a relationship serious and good. I know that a lot of people will disagree. All i want to say is i did not intend to hurt anyone. I'm sorry to have done so.
Isliye my problem was not what jojo was saying, nor am i saying that we should all stop discussing what we do. I was just expressing my opinion, which was about marraige rather than about Narayani Gaurav. I should have conveyed that better.
Hope there are no hard feelings. As i said in another post, we may or may not believe in marraige, we may all be different people, but we're brought together by the fact that we're all huge fans of adhm and of Gaurav. Friends??

Originally posted by: shahnaz12

After all we are the people responsible for their fame right?😉

in our real life there will never be a Gaurav😭 ….

.......👏 👏 👏 ..wah wah ..kya post hai.. maza aa gaya.😃

well said shahnaz ,that we are resosible for their fame so we have the right to criticize them also. ....hai dil tot gaya mera , that there will never be a gaurav in our real life 😭

Friends??? Of course …. Friends all the time.👍🏼 As long as we all love Samay and Rusty no one or nothing can come between us. 👏

Let us have fun at the cost of these two sweethearts.😳 Real life and reel life will merge time to time when we discuss them…. That's OK….. that is why we love them so much because although it seems time to time we become judgmental but they never are …….right? 😆 😆

Very true and very well put. Yes we'll go on discussing. Pata hai, sometimes i wonder... aisa toh kya hai ki i can't stop talking about this show or thinking about it. Sab kaam dhaam chod ke baith jaati hoon.
P.S. I was watching the episodes of NB2 again... if only he comes back. I really want him to win.

Originally posted by: whynot

Very true and very well put. Yes we'll go on discussing. Pata hai, sometimes i wonder... aisa toh kya hai ki i can't stop talking about this show or thinking about it. Sab kaam dhaam chod ke baith jaati hoon.
P.S. I was watching the episodes of NB2 again... if only he comes back. I really want him to win.

i agree wid u but not wid nb k i love gauri hiten ur mera dil hai k wo hi jeete 😃

I agree its their life, but we are fans help thm to the top we watch thm like thm and they have success..But i dont think by discussing him we are judging him or being fanatic fans.. 😳
We like him so we discuss him..Whts wrong with tht?

i think actors r public property we r the one who give them fame sooooo also we have a right to criticise them sorry no offence to anyone

Originally posted by: candyfloss

i really wud love to see gaurav-soumya in real life.They both look so adorable and compatible to each other. 😳
Lets pray they fall in love.also pray soumya get another fall and our gaurav saves her. 😉

main to kab se doa kar rahi hon 😉 inshallah they fall inlove wid eachother soon like onscreen.haye just imange candy kitna romantic sence hoga na jab gaurav save our doll suomya 😳bilkut lovebirds lage gae hai na???😃

Originally posted by: gr8_mms

main to kab se doa kar rahi hon 😉 inshallah they fall inlove wid eachother soon like onscreen.haye just imange candy kitna romantic sence hoga na jab gaurav save our doll suomya 😳bilkut lovebirds lage gae hai na???😃

I don't know what to say yaar...... I would love to see these two get married in real life and settle down😳...... I have never felt this way before any other actors in a soap.....😭