When Madhav will stop calling shekhar as Pagal..

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Since after Laali told him..Madhav somethimes Calls shekhar as Babuji.. Since his Mom tells to do so...and He has accepted Lali and mom Loves and Respect her..So When ever she tells Madhav correctes him self..

But since long 7 years with which hes habituated Baby is not easily
stoping call shekhar as Pagal...When ever he calls in front of Laali ,Laali correct but than all is same When this Daddy -babby is alone together..Madhav calls him as same....
I wonder ..When Madhav will stop calling shekhar as Pagal and accept him as his real
Father not jerk Ranvijay..
I m waiting for Moment when Madhav will accept Shekhar as * DAD * not Ranvijay and stop calling him Pagalwa...In the Mischivious way also.....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SweetGirl-

Since after Laali told him..Madhav somethimes Calls shekhar as Babuji.. Since his Mom tells to do so...and He has accepted Lali and mom Loves and Respect her..So When ever she tells Madhav correctes him self..

But since long 7 years with which hes habituated Baby is not easily
stoping call shekhar as Pagal...When ever he calls in front of Laali ,Laali correct but than all is same When this Daddy -babby is alone together..Madhav calls him as same....
I wonder ..When Madhav will stop calling shekhar as Pagal and accept him as his real
Father not jerk Ranvijay..
I m waiting for Moment when Madhav will accept Shekhar as * DAD * not Ranvijay and stop calling him Pagalwa...In the Mischivious way also.....

Well even when Lali was gone for seven years the family should have still taken the responsiblity to not let Madhav call Shekhar Pagal. They should have known better since they were looking after the child. There is no excuse. However they did nothing😡😡😡. They just spoiled him so he could be a brat.
Now that Laali is back the responsiblity is hers and she has to start from the beginning.
She is trying hard and is working at it but it will take a long time.
If she is trying to changing his behavior and the others are not helping her out then she is going to have a hard time. That is why she needs to get out of the haveli and work on the son without the others around....😛😛😛 It seems like the child was not taught respect!!!😡😡😡😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Girls,

It is as if you have never seen energetic kids before. I had a nephew who ran his mother ragged. No matter how much you tried to discipline him, it just wouldn't work.

Outsiders who saw it probably thought that his parent were not disciplining him properly. But nothing seemed to work. Anything climbable, he climbed - beds, chairs, drawers - only thing left was the wall. That his parents climbed!!! (He just drove them up the wall.)

However, as he grew older, he just grew out of it.


As for Madhav, aside from calling his father paagal, I find the kid very entertaining.

Besides, it is not only Laali and Madhav bonding that needs take place, but also Shekhar and Madhav.

I am sure the AJ writers will write in something that will cement their relationship for all time.

So let's not harp on the kid's behavior too much. From my side Madhav, go ahead and be the seven year child that you are. You have every right to drive your parents up the wall!!


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Posted: 14 years ago
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It was cute when he called shekhar Pagal when lali was changing the shirt on shekhar and he was running away to chase after Madhav😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Of course a child should behave the age he/she is..I do not diagree with that.

However, there has to be some control over how the kid behaves.. a parent cannot let a child run all over you or else the child will never take the parent seriously.
Yes of course kids will act up at any ages which is fine, but at the same time parents do have to teach them between right and wrong. Kids will be naughty and mischevious no doubt but it is important for the parents to monitor this in an safe and loving manner.
Some kids might outgrow the hyper behavior, but then there are some that never outgrow anything. If the parent does not set up boundaries then the kid goes wild.
Besides boys tend to be more aggressive than girls at that age, so they do go a bit crazy.
I personally do not like it when parents let their kids run wild all over the place...that is not right. 😭😭😭😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neela10

Girls,

It is as if you have never seen energetic kids before. I had a nephew who ran his mother ragged. No matter how much you tried to discipline him, it just wouldn't work.

Outsiders who saw it probably thought that his parent were not disciplining him properly. But nothing seemed to work. Anything climbable, he climbed - beds, chairs, drawers - only thing left was the wall. That his parents climbed!!! (He just drove them up the wall.)

However, as he grew older, he just grew out of it.


As for Madhav, aside from calling his father paagal, I find the kid very entertaining.

Besides, it is not only Laali and Madhav bonding that needs take place, but also Shekhar and Madhav.

I am sure the AJ writers will write in something that will cement their relationship for all time.

So let's not harp on the kid's behavior too much. From my side Madhav, go ahead and be the seven year child that you are. You have every right to drive your parents up the wall!!


You said no matter how much you discipline it will not work...so does that mean just let the kid run all over the place. Kids can be disciplined and still have fun. It is the parents job to do that.
I have seen some kids whose parents never say anything to them and they turn out to be terrors ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neela10

Girls,


So let's not harp on the kid's behavior too much. From my side Madhav, go ahead and be the seven year child that you are. You have every right to drive your parents up the wall!!
I m not getting harp atleast..I just want baby to accett his real daddy and mom..nad have good father..that's it😊


I have Seen Neela...But the question is not of being energeticd kid or something..Everyone likes madhav as madhav .......I have not mentioned this at all....But than Call father as Pagal certainly does not come under well on my perspectiveMy post does not belong to this area at all...My question is of accept faather as real father ...which baby has not managed still..Question of respect and accept father..Rather accept one Jerk as father..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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You said no matter how much you discipline it will not work...so does that mean just let the kid run all over the place. Kids can be disciplined and still have fun. It is the parents job to do that. I have seen some kids whose parents never say anything to them and they turn out to be terrors


From my point of view, I don't find Madhav's behavior too much out of the ordinary.

He is just a happy, energetic seven year old who likes playing and doesn't like studying. (Which kid does?) And he loves flying kites, and running around all over the house.

And sometimes running off with Aunt Barchi's laado!!!.

Sometimes he is rude and disrespectful but most times he is nice and lovable. He is lovable to his two mothers.

Most importantly, he listens when he is talked to.

So you keep on correcting him when he is doing something wrong. This is the most important thing, you keep on talking to them (like we did our nephew) and slowly as they grew older, they just grow out of it.

Crikey! the way people are on his case, as if he is an evil menace.

Madhav, go on, be your seven year old self, and don't listen to these old maids!!

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