...5 yr leap??? Shali misses baby's formative yrs

I feel so sad that Shali have been cheated from nurturing their baby in the formative years. It is said that a baby forms its character and behaviour in the first 6 years - why must there be a 5 year leap booo hooo😭😭😭 they miss the joy of bringing up their babY.. so UNFAIR 😕