Abandonment's the Worst Torture, atleast for ShaLi

I don't know if my topic makes any sense or not
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(if it doesn't the moderators can lock it) but this was what I really wanted to write after seeing and analysing what I saw this week

Viewing the past few episodes of AJMBHK I have come to realize that it is not Love which Shekhar or Laali crave for
It is the warmth of being accompanied by someone who cares for you
And their worst fear is being abandoned or left alone

And I found it happening in the past few episodes and was really happy to see this

We all know Siddheshwari loves Shekhar but she does not realise the importance of giving her husband the accompaniment he desires because she does not consider her all that IMPORTANT

Laali knows its importance and spends time with Shekhar in his lone and melancholic surroundings because she has been instructed to by his Mother
and she also knows what does one feel when he realises that he is alone and nobody needs him or cares for him (She has already gone through this).
I could see the excitement and awe on her face when Shekar came to talk to her and discuss with her that how she used to celebrate Diwali at Koyna.
It seemed as if a great tide of emotions had burst out of her when she was discussing all this.
This actually made me cry for good when I realised that she had finally found her "Tanhai ka Saathi" who could share with her little moments of happiness.

And this was what even Shekhar had longed for, right?
Even he has finally found his "Tanhai ka Saathi" which earlier used to be his flute.
When he told Laali that he had not played his flute for quite some time just because he did not feel lonely, I realised how lonely he had been all these years even though he had a wife whom he loved so much.
Becuse most of the time we have seen him playing the flute only....
And the time they were spending in the field was one of the most beautiful scenes I had ever seen in AJMBHK.

I feel that this part where Shekhar and Laali only have care and concern for each other in their minds is the most beautiful part to watch right now,
Many people who thake this relationship as wrong might not like this
even many Salians might not like this as the want the relationship to go to a higher level
But I feel this is rhe best part and i am enjoying it to the CORE...
What do you think guys???

Nice analysis. But I don't agree with some of it. One I am not sure that Sid is even capable of real love. And even if she is the object of her affection is herself.

hwy nice post nikkie!

but as i said in some other posts there will be no future for laali and shekhar
laali will sacrifice her lover after the waaris!

it will be sad to watch those epi

Originally posted by: cbindia2009

You are right that both lali and shekar want the "warmth of being accompanied byy someone who cares for u" but then people who luv each other want the other to provide that warmth. Their worst fear is not simply being abandoned but being abandoned by the one you luv.

I mentioned this just because Shekhar and Laali were left alone not only by their Life partners but by everybody possible
Even those who wanted to help them or even talk to them were helpless like Shekhar's mother or Jamuni
Shekhar's mother could not prevent the injustice being done to Shekhar or Laali at initial stages (though she is raising her voice now) 👏 👏

And as far as Jamuni is concerned she has no control over Gangiya and is literally blind to Rannvijay's deeds

Oh Oh wait... forgot to mention Loha Singh's dad
He's there too....
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Hi Nikkie,

This has been a great post and some equally great replies.👏 👏 I loved it.😳

Hmmn....I overall share the same view that Shekhar and Laali bonded because they came to a point where they felt abandoned, unloved, worthless, uncared for and treated as objects and then they had only each other for support.