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Posted: 16 years ago
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That they are tryin to show an extra marital affair.. and people are trying to root for that..
on what basis?
first of all.. Shekhar is married to the beautiful Sid, they are ment for eachother, because they are MARRIED.. they werent forced to marry eachother, and Shekhar really loves his wife..
And then there is LALI.. who is married to Ganeshiya, who also loves her..
And marriage is a holy union between two people..
So I want to know WHY are alot of people rooting and praying that Lali and Shekhar fall in love and be together?
isnt that disgusting? I would have understood IF Sid was abusive, or Ganesia was abusive..
We should respect the institution of marriage..
If you are saying.. oh.. but they dont really love eachother.. ... still what makes you say that they should leave their husband and wife? just because of some feelings.. ?
Love is a mere feeling which fades away in time.. DID you know that the feeling and emotion called LOVE stays in your brain for mere 18 months TOPS.. IF its a genuine love...
And after taht it fades away, and it gets replaced by another feeling called Attachment..
That is all scientific.. and practical.. It was in our Developmental Psychology class..

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I don't think this deserves a reply!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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why doesn't it deserve a reply? so u think whatever this show is showing, is good?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Guys, it's just a TV show. Everyone has their views..

Some people believe a marriage should only be broken if there's abuse, others think that a marriage must be more emotionally fulfilling than a practical bond.

There is no scientific way to discuss this issue yaar.. It concerns human emotions and lives, very complex. Just let everyone form their own views na!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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truthfully it hasn't gone anywhere near 'disgusting' yet.. or maybe it has from Loha Singh's POV (cuz he brought laali's little sister into the situation) 🤢 .. but shekhar has not crossed any limits.. and nor has laali.. she respects siddeshwari and no way in hell does she want to take her place.. and does ganesiya really love laali??? he was ready to marry rekha.. if laali hadn't shown up.. he would've married her! he stopped only cuz laali was there standing before him.. tellin him she's back... she was always his... it was then ganesiya decided he's not gonna marry rakhi.. otherwise he seemed prettttyyyyy readdyyyyy to me.. and even if he comes back.. will his parents ever accept laali.. i doubt it.. and he doesn't seem gutsy enough to run away with her.. and provide her the love, life she deserves..

and u have to understand.. agle janam isn't one of those typical stories.. she was bought.. and if loha singh wants to take full advantage of the money he spent.. by wanting a grandson from laali.. then hell yes, i want laali to have a place in shekhar's heart.. i want him to be there for her.. to stand by her.. thru everythingggg.. they're in this situation together.. and just cuz siddeshwari doesnt have any problem with 'using' laali for a baby.. doesn't mean laali deserves such treatment.. and then be thrown away..

ur screaming the word 'disgust'.. i have not heard siddeshwari complain.. she actually has been pushing shekhar to go on wit it.. and get it all done.. where does that leave laali?? and shekhar's not the kind to play wit her feelings.. so if love happens.. or an understanding happens (cuz they're goin thru the same thing).. i think its fine! the respect, the sympathy, the compassion they'll have for one another will define love to me.. cuz when we all say we want shekhar love laali track.. its because we want shekhar to give laali the respect she deserves.. whether the whole baby scenario happens or not!..

and yes marriage is a holy union between two people... but it always doesn't work out.. that's where divorces come in..
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Edited by Mrs. SIR - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Im sorry but im going to disagree with you on this one Sillykitty. You say Shekhar and Sid are meant for each other just because they are married. Well marriage is much more than Saat Phere or a certificate. Its about love, respect and support. Though Shekhar clearly loves his wife, Sid has yet to prove likewise. Their ralationship is so strange. Shekhar has done nothing to betray his wife or his marriage. Lets not forget Sid telling her husband to "Do what Babuji says" so she could go back to her comforts in the haveli. Shekhar accepts Sid even though she is unable to bear children, she has her husbands support all the way. Loha has caused all this uproar about not having a Waaris, so why does Sid side with her father in law and not her husband. Shekhar doesn't want physical relations with Laali because he has respect for himself, his wife and Laali.

Your point about Ganesiya and Laali, its to late for them to be together. Laali has been sold, she will carry that stigma forever. Laali not being sold and living with her husband happily ever after is not the premise of the show.
Lots of people are rooting for Shekhar and Laali for many different reasons. Though their relationship would be unconventional I would not call it disgusting. The bitter truths of life are bringing them together not carnal lusts. Their relationship is spiritual.
Lastly as far as I know Love is the most wondeful special feeling in the world and it doesn't fade... not even in 18 months or whatever else you learned about "love" in you Psychology class.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I hv nothing to say
alot of topics has been opened as to why member are rooting for shekhar-laali and i m bored of saying da same thing again and again
Destiny wants Shali to be together so neither sid can do nething nor ganesiya u cannot change da decision taken by god rite??
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Everything here is just for a child.....it's not that Shekhar's family wants him to go for an ' extra marital relation'.
Why don't they go for artificial prodecure like in Surrogate mother?? Then Shekhar doesn't even have to touCh Lali..!Problem Solved😲!!
But they will not follow this easy step..otherwise how will they Spice up the drama??😆
Edited by iamindian - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with the topic maker, its not that I like whats being done with laali(I am still waiting for ganeisiya to show up) I really dont like whats being done with laali, but we should nt still encourage laali and shekhar pairing just because we like them. I really hope that sid realizes her husband's love and her love for shekhar....I can sense she doesnt like it either but doesnt know how to end this fiasco cause she wasnt taught to be outspoken just to be a obiedient and maintainece(sajnay sawarney wali) wife...if u know what I mean...I feel like shekhar's mom should teach her own bahu(sid) some things like how she teaches laali instead of ignoring her and telling her what to do.....gosh there's so many unexplained situations.....
and I agree with "iamindian" they should get a surrogate mother or something and hello they are not living in 50s or 60s where they had no knowledge and they have a telephone and 100 servants shouldnt they know something....y r the thakurs being shown as unpar(uneducated) ....
ok after all this but I am still hooked to the show lol
oh and people plz dont mind my opinion.

Edited by javz - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yaar stop Moral policing .... enough of these topics. If you really want to do something join some NGO's for women and do some work fr the Real women who are actually suffering all these in life.

If not plz dnt spoil the fun for the fans....

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