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HI friends, after watching fridays epi, i was thinking, was it really necessary for Rangeela to lie to his dad about his status??? Was he ashamed of himself or he though his father would be ashamed of him? Why do we forget that they dont want anything from us, they just want us to be happy n comfortable.......I wanted to write all this n ask ur comments on it....Sandeep said, Rangeela was under pressure from his fathers status burden, why do we forget that parents dont want to pressure us, they just want us to get up on our own feet, so when they not around, we can look after ourself....Was it necessaryfor him to lie n hurt his dad????..n i found something on mother, courtesy simran.......which i wanted to share with u all.......😊

EIGHT LIES OF A MOTHER

This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we hadn't enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say 'Eat this rice, son! I'm not hungry.'
This was Mother's First Lie.

As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and eat what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten; My heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, 'Eat this fish, son! I don't really like fish.'
This was Mother's Second Lie.

Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes which she filled with fresh matchsticks. This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, 'Mother, go to sleep; it's late: you can continue working tomorrow morning.' Mother smiled and said 'Go to sleep, son! I'm not tired.'
This was Mother's Third Lie
When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I ran to meet her. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother's love, Seeing Mother covered with perspiration; I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said 'Drink, son! I'm not thirsty!

This was Mother's Fourth Lie.
After Father's death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family's life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family's condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbours saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to remarry saying 'I don't need love.'

This was Mother's Fifth Lie.

After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, 'I have enough money.'

That was Mother's Sixth Lie.

I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies. With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in America but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me 'I'm not used to high living.'
That was Mother's Seventh Lie

In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, 'Don't cry, son! I'm not in pain.'
That was Mother's Eighth Lie.

Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died.
YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!


M - O - T - H - E - R

'M' is for the Million things she gave me, 'O' means Only that she's growing old, 'T' is for the Tears she shed to save me, 'H' is for her Heart of gold, 'E' is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them, 'R' means Right, and right she'll always be, Put them all together, they spell 'MOTHER' a word that means the world to me. For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your Mom's presence on Earth, this story is beautiful. For those who aren't so blessed, this is even more beautiful.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Thanks Fazi it was very touching..I have got my eyes misty with this.. I would add one from my personal experience..
When everybody at home had dinner and I return home very late in the night from training.. Mumma will wait at the dining table, heat up the food and serve me.. When I asked why dint she take her food she would say 'I was not feeling hungry before' 🤗 We never realise their worth yaar.. 😳

Yea I agree he shudnt have told those lies to his father. But prolly his own dream of being in a city made him do that.. And according to Rang's Father he had to be a well to do guy to stay back in city.. So dunno whi is at fault, rangeela who had no interest in village life or Rang's father who just wanted his son to lead a respectable life with good income.. 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: monu1101

Thanks Fazi it was very touching..I have got my eyes misty with this.. I would add one from my personal experience..
When everybody at home had dinner and I return home very late in the night from training.. Mumma will wait at the dining table, heat up the food and serve me.. When I asked why dint she take her food she would say 'I was not feeling hungry before' 🤗 We never realise their worth yaar.. 😳

Yea I agree he shudnt have told those lies to his father. But prolly his own dream of being in a city made him do that.. And according to Rang's Father he had to be a well to do guy to stay back in city.. So dunno whi is at fault, rangeela who had no interest in village life or Rang's father who just wanted his son to lead a respectable life with good income.. 😳

no we dont, we take them for granted......😭...all moms r like this.....Now let me make u happy.........Its a joke.......

God said, as angels cant be everywhere so i made moms.....so the devil quickly added, as i cant be everywhere i made mother in laws.......😆

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fazila~

no we dont, we take them for granted......😭...all moms r like this.....Now let me make u happy.........Its a joke.......

God said, as angels cant be everywhere so i made moms.....so the devil quickly added, as i cant be everywhere i made mother in laws.......😆

🤣 Mother in Law -- exact oppo of Mumma the angels😃

Edited by Fazila~ - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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yes, edit it, God said i made moms as angels cant be everywhere.......sorry GOD.......
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Fazila.....that was a very touching story! 👏

What really upset me was a 45 something year old Rangila behaving like a teenager! If a young kid or teenager lies at school to boost his or his family status, it makes some sense, though I still don't approve of it!
But at such a ripe age, him acting this way was wayyyy too immature to digest! 😡
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Okie coming back, did you see Rang's dad was soo angry in the end but still he turned back to call him for the hug..Wat a sweetheart.. 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: pragalbha

Fazila.....that was a very touching story! 👏

What really upset me was a 45 something year old Rangila behaving like a teenager! If a young kid or teenager lies at school to boost his or his family status, it makes some sense, though I still don't approve of it!
But at such a ripe age, him acting this way was wayyyy too immature to digest! 😡

hmmm..........but ppl must be doing it, thats y they showed it.......they were trying to get the msg to ppl that dont do this, cause u cant hide it for long, n u will end up hurting the ppl that love u the most......
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: monu1101

Okie coming back, did you see Rang's dad was soo angry in the end but still he turned back to call him for the hug..Wat a sweetheart.. 😊

cause hes a parent..thats the greatness of parents....no matter what kids do our how old they get......parents will worry for them, they will forgive them......even if they get hurt they wont hold the grudge for long..........😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fazila~

cause hes a parent..thats the greatness of parents....no matter what kids do our how old they get......parents will worry for them, they will forgive them......even if they get hurt they wont hold the grudge for long..........😳


Very true...

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