My fiance and I - Page 3

(tukz) half of us though wants him to take the job but it means not coming back home for years and years ^^ well... i guess we'll just have to try and figured it out ourselves. thanks guys xx

ok...

first of all, there are snakes here...yes... but in the outback...not in the city 😆 so unless your fiance is getting a job in central australia, you really have nothing to worry about.

second of all, it just comes down to this, does the relationship matter more for you or does the fact that you don't want to leave nz?

Like people before me have said, give it a go. Move to Aus...and if you don't like it, move back? But don't go there with prejudiced views...then you will never be able to accept.

To make this relationship work, one of you will have to sacrifice. It's all give and take.

But is he thinking of moving to Aus forever or just for a couple of years?

btw...i said ONE of you will have to sacrifice.

oh you know what, if his family is being an ass about it, why would you want to stay in nz where they also reside?

(bewafa) no my my parents want me to stay here in NZ because i have a great life and future over here which is true anyway i jsut really don't want to talk about this right now.. thanks! it's big anough as it is

hmm.. thats complicated.. well i agree with bewafa.. one of u iwll have to sacrifice.
u can try.. if u don't like it there then u can move back..
if not then either he will have to quit his job in auss, or u will have to live with a long distance relationship...
u have to make a choice..

(pinky) thanks for the help mate. yeah i know one of us will have to sacrifice one or the other which is pretty difficult, we're both too unsure what to do or say

Yh the best option is to talk to him about it... I think you should go and spend some time there and see how you like it there... it will take some time to get settled as it'll be a totally new place... and you never know you might change your mind and will like it... however if you don't then tell him... atleast then you went for it and he will know that you tried for him and he should understand...

(ruk) thanks, i'll see what i can do for the moment of time, still got 2 and half months left

i think u guys should move 😃 i mean what the heck ! u get to travel ! new country, new food, new people ect. aus is a very beautiful place also. i have a friend just u who lives in aus right now.. maybe u should talk to her ? 😊 PM if u want 😊 im sure everything will work out allright 😉 😃 😳

(nishi) i have mates over in australia too, i mean if i hadn't then it's definitely a "no" that i wouldn't go there. lol. sorry but i've seen some big as snakes in australia XD while we don't have that here in NZ XD haha