Wow what a good frend she is? :@ Helpp!

hi guys. this is my 2nd time asking fr advice here pls i dont need any rude comments im already in a really bad mood pls dont put me in it even more. who knows what'll i do. my anger scares me myself! 😕

Anyways my problem is that i have a frend she was fine last yr n whatever but then this year she's like how im her bestfrend n i was like okay whatever but now im getting into fights wid her n all that. bascially stuff are happening to me wid never happened when she wasnt my "BEST FREND" when we werent that close nothin like that happened but now when i am her best frend i having fights wid her fr NO REASON!

i mean she sends me notes during class while im jus doing my work i wasnt even talking bout her nothing she jus starts sending me stupid notes n they get me mad. 😡

my other frendz told me to tell her that i dont want to be her best frend anymore which i true but i jus cant do it. i dont want to break her heart n everything cuz she's that emotional type n i dont want her hating on me. n that rumor type n i dont want FALSE rumors spread around da skool bout me.

secondly, she always write on her MSN bout me n that's another reason how rumors starts n i HATE IT n my frendz tell her that da whole world doesnt need to know bout her (me) but she says yehh they do. 😡 i mean why is she like this. she acts all big on MSN but then da next day in person she acts as if nothing happened. 😡 n it just ruins my mood.

n i live wid da truth! i cant lie if she did something to a person n they ask me if it was her i HAVE to say yes cuz if i lie i'll feel guilty myself i just cant lie. lying is sooo hard fr me n when i do tell da truth she gets mad at me. 😭 i mean do i have to lie fr HER! 😡 who knows why things like these ALWAYS has to happen to me.

she even made me CRY! 😭 cuz all she likes to do i start s*it wid me fr NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO reason.. n im just sooooo tickeeeedd!

guys sorry fr da long post but i needed to get this off my chest. pls try n understand my problem n plss help me!

Best Friends was suppose to be like sisters. If ur not comofrtable with her then u really need to let her know.

In return she's not really being a good friend if u have to save her all the time and if she is spreading rumors about u then she's not a good friend.

I think u should tell her that u like her as a friend coz things were working out better than this best friend thingy. And let her know that u still like her as a friend

BTW don't ever let ur anger controls u!!!

first i would say don't tell her that you don't want to be her bf, i think that there may be something bothering her and that she's just making fights to avoid the actual situation, the best thing is to sit down with her and have a actual convo with her and see what's bugging her and what her problem is, and than after that if she is acting the same way than i would say that you don't need a friend like that, that all you two do is fight