Lover Vs. BestFriend

my boyfriend of 1 year knows that i like this half indian guy i've met recently but became my bestfriend already of 2 months. he lives just 8 blocks away from me so is closer to my house than my boyfriend(lives 15 blocks away). i really like this guy, it's like i've known him forever. i can see my future with him. but on the other hand, i'm not really thinking of breaking my boyfriend's heart. he's committed to this relationship

Keep one thing in mind, somebody will get hurt in this relationship!

U see a future with a guy u met 2 months ago and now u wana break up with your bf of 1 year

Would that make u feel good hurting your current bf?

U can't possible have 2 relationship going on at the same time coz eventualy u will get CATCH, Keep in mind that will be unfaithful.

If ur BF is committed to ur relationship it means that he is serious, r u serious??? if ur answer is NO then u will have to break up with him, if u don't like him that way, eventually ur realationship will become a burden. If its YES then u shouldn't be thinking of somone else that way.

Lets not forget that if ur thinking about someone else that way, ur are indeed being unfaithful to ur current bf.

he's my bestfriend! he knows i'm in a serious relationship, that's why we're taking this very slow like baby steps. i don't know if i'm serious >.< i'm infact very confused. i don't know who to let go.

Originally posted by: IceFire

he's my bestfriend! he knows i'm in a serious relationship, that's why we're taking this very slow like baby steps. i don't know if i'm serious >.< i'm infact very confused. i don't know who to let go.

its ok don't stress too much.

God forbids this happend! Lets just say u were walking with the two of them and a car came and hit them both, but u can only save one of their lives, who would it be??

take ur time and think about it.

Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

its ok don't stress too much.

God forbids this happend! Lets just say u were walking with the two of them and a car came and hit them both, but u can only save one of their lives, who would it be??

take ur time and think about it.

uhh. that made me quiver >.< that is really hard! i don't want.. them both to die nor i. move on..! next question :) lol

seriously.. i.. love my boyfriend because he would do everything just to be with me and i love my bestfriend because he is so understanding and so sweet. he would wait even until the end of time just as long as i can be with him

stringing 2 guys aong isn't good you ither like one more than the other and you should figure outwo you like more because in the end yur bf or this guy one of them wwill gethurt or even worse they may both jt dump you and you'll have no after that

Oh...youve got a sticky situation here.

One of them will get hurt but you need to think which one will you be happy with - your best friend or your current boyfriend.

Oh dear! You sure have a tricky situation here! But dont play with both men's heart thats my advice.

Let me give you an advise, get your self a piece of paper and write the prons and cons for each guy and then decide who you want to have a future with. But dont hurry into things so quickly.

thanks guys. you guys have made me think a lot of my actions >.< but i still! don't know, i'm sorry. i love my boyfriend, i love my bestfriend so this is i guess what i'm going to do...

for my bestfriend: keep holding on to our friendship, wait a little longer and see what happens, you know.. because i don't want! our friendship ruined but hopefully he will understand.

for my boyfriend: for now it's him and i, one more strike and we're done!

I think the best choice is to finish it with ur boyfrend.As this way u r saving the pain for the both of you.There is no point on wasting ur time on something
u no u rnt got a future.So instead of breaking his heart more wen his feelings start to feel stronger for you its betta to end it know as it is not as strong.Go for the ova guy.Good luk