in luv with 2 peeple- HELP!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hii

my mate has a problem, basicaly she likes this guy in her year. he no's she like him n he has told evryone, now evrytime shes around him peeple say, "oh thats the gurl that fancies that boi" (im not goin to say his name). and its makin him feel uncomfortable around her she sent him a message n msn sayin that "i dont want to go out with him n i jus wana b frendz." so there frendz now, but she does want to go out with him, she sent this message so that he wud still talk to her n she no he duznt like her, but i dont think she likes him anymore, she cant make her mind up. and to make matters worse, she started liking one of his frendz, and she dont no wat to do. she dont no which one of the bois she likes. is it possible to b in luv with to peeple. plez help her , how does she no hu she likes.? to make fings worse my other mate also likes his friend!!! the three off us r so close. this can break our friendship wat shud she do???

plez help

do u fink she shud tell her other mate !!!

thanx

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Posted: 17 years ago
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yehh i think she shouldd.. that'd be d best thing to do.. then life will decide where it's going to take youu..

g-luckk.. and keep us updatedd..

oh and btw is this person youu..?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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omg god dis is a tuff situation...u dint tel 1 thn...is d 2nd guy in luv wid ne of dme or ne oder gal???if yes den i thnk its easy.....nun of our frnds can do nehtn if he likes sum1...u also dint tel whether dey(ur frnds)no dat both of dme like d same guy...
suppose no:
den ur frnd shudnt hesitate n ask him out cuz dis wil stp creatin ne confusion...
suppose yes:
den ur frnds shud tok 2 each oder n get thngs clear....cuz 1 prsn cannot go out wid 2 gals...n its wil cause mny prob in ur frndship..bttr dey tok wid each oder n c wid hum d boy matches n mst importantly d gals must realise dey wnt frnds or bf...if frnds dey hav 2 sacrifice a boy for her frnd n if bf dne u know wat...she hav 2 say 2 d nother dat she luvs him n cant leave him at ne cost....dis wil stp creatin confusion n if dey wanna break frndship den its deir wish n if dey wanna b frnds den agn its deir wish...
but if frnds r more imp 2 BOTH of dem den both of dem shud leave d boy n live in peace

now ur 1st prob
tel ur frnd 2 sit alone quitely n thnk matters ovr....tel her 2 imagine herslf widout wid d obth guys(one at atime) n tel her 2 realise wich feelig is greater 2 her....is tid 1st guys...or is it d 2nd guy...dat she saw herslf clearly goin out n felld her heart dancin....
if its d 1st guys tel her 2 try 2 b kind n carinw id him n aftr sumtime i thnk she shud propose...
hope am clear n dis hlps u....
keep us updated if u can.... 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think she has an infatuation with them. If she felt real love, she would know right away. 😛
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Posted: 17 years ago
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thx for al the advice but the thing is that my frend is in high school
Edited by Babi_angel - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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oh no high school shes still too young. Everyone has given their words of advise. 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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no its not me its my close mate .
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi babi...so howz ur frnd doin?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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fings rnt any betta my other mate loves him and he has got a girlfriend. He thinks dat she likes the other guy but she dont. i personally fink dat he likes her n he is goi out wit another girl to get her jealous or to get over her. my mate is so stuck. plez help!!!
thanx in advance!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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oh my god tell your friend to be careful and not to make another step before she knows what shes doing.

But before that, you need to cofirm your insticts and predications.

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