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@Robsessed.

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Hey guys/girls I'm Selina 😊

I'm normally a girl who gives advice to people on this section but now, I really need your advice.

Okay so the thing is me and my bf, have been together for a long time now, I've known him for over 5 years or maybe more, when we were little kids even and I've always liked him and I know he likes me, but the thing us his cousin from London is living with him since the last 2 weeks, eugh she is sooo annoying!

She's trying to stirr stuff between us and I know people like her! She told my bf that I'm cheating on him, drinking in pubs and going out with different guys every week. I've known this girl for like a year, and I've always hated her, she sucks. 🤢 & now the thing is my bf is in doubts, he doesn't know whether to believe his cousin or me, he told me he knows his cousin really well and she wouldn't make stuff up. Pfft, yeah right, My birthday was on the weekend, like on sat 10 oct, and he brought his cousin with him to the party, I swear I really felt like killing her, both inside and out burning her flesh. 😆 Thats how much I HATE her, and I know she HATEs me, I dont give a monkey or toss about her, but I dont know what to do about my bf, he's acts all weird, not like himself, when hes around he goes off with his guy mates and leaves me sitting with my other friends, he only says like hi or hello, and his texts and calls are EVEN weirder.

The girl is a FREAK, shes like 18 years old, and she needs to get a life, I've heard how many guys shes been with, what she gets up to and stuff, and trust me she has NO life at all. She has all these weird piercing on her tongue as well, thats why shes living with my bf's family to sort her image out ofr 8 weeks, and its only been 2 WEEKS, how am I supposed to put up with another 6 weeks when I hate her so much? 😡😡😡 and the thing is, shes putting stuff in to my bf's head, telling him stuff about me, and she literely doesnt even KNOW me, she told him she saw me in bull ring with another guy and we were making out, pfft, yeah yeah, whatever. it isnt true, im always loyal to my bf, and plus she told me she saw my bf with 2 girls at once and told me to dump him, once he left his phone in my house and she told me to go through it, I said thats invading someones privacy and when she left I went through his phone, hes only got me and my friends from school, all his texts in his inbox were friendly texts not lovey ones,

but the thing is!!!!

What do I do about her?

She's wrecked her life up, and shes trying to mess with mine!

Thanks for reading

-Selina

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well, well, well, I guess you really don't like her (Hate her as you said)

I would've said to just ignore her if you didn't like her but the problem is that she's trying to provoke you and interfere in your life and that's something that's not acceptable at all.

I would say you confront her and let her know that what she's doing isn't going to succeed. She needs to stop interfering ind your and your boyfriend's life. Just tell her everything calmly and let her know that if your boyfriend has no problem and nor should she. Just make sure that it doesn't get into a fight, just tell her everything in a nice and calm way.

If that doesn't work, then talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you don't like her interfering in your life. This is your relationship and you ONLY should deal with it. Tell him that he should know you well and shouldn't trust what his cousin says especially when she doesn't even know you well.

And if your boyfriend still continues to believe his cousin, then I would say move on with life. A relationship is based on trust and faith and if he can't trust you that he'll believe made up things by his cousin then he's not worth you time and emotions.

All the very best!

-Mahi

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

hey there so honestly his cuz seems like a little b****, you should flat out just tell him...hey you've known me for over 5 years...you should trust me when 'm telling you that i've never done any of that stuff your cuz is mentioning....and don't you find it weird that the 2 weeks that she comes is when we are fighting the most and all these accusations are now coming up...hopefully he'll realize that you are right and trust you.

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@Robsessed.

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

@ Mahi - Thanks for the advice hun. 🤗 But the thing is, when I went to my bf's place to talk to him and his cousin, he wasn't home only his cousin was; so I spoke to her. We ended up having an arguement I asked her why she was lying she goes 'my cousin can do better without ya' so yeah, I did strong verbal fight, and she just stood there, when my bf came back she faked tears saying I beated her up, when we only had an arguement. Ugh, and yes I HATE her, no dislike only HATE.

@ Hina - 0oo I didn't want you guy's to see this.

@ Rajni.D - Thank you for the advice, 🤗 Things are not going to straight or well, I don't how to explain it, my bf is back to normal, not his weird attitude like before, but everything with him is okay, but his cousin is eugh! So annoying man! Like I said, I slapped her today after school, and my friends 'cussed' her down, and she started crying again to my bf, and shes still making lies up, I spoke to my bf and he seems to believe me over his cousin, but I think hes still suspicious over what his cousin is saying about me.

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fatima

@fammma

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Posted: 16 years ago

This is an awful situation to be in...

the main thing here is trust btwn u and your bf..have a full on discussion, somewhere where you two are alone, and fully talk it all out....

Dont assume he understands what u mean without saying it, coz otherwise he most probably doesnt. It's just men in general are like that. I dont mean anything against your bf.

As to her, try avoiding her, its flipping hard, and coz u hate her guts, its harder!!

The other thing is she is instigating ur bf and making things up about you,

I have been through a similar situation wiv my fiance, bt the other person was our uncle, he is a b*****d with me, and sticks upto my fiance, like he loves him to bits.

I have completely stopped talking to my uncle, unless I am forced to in a gathering, and kind of gave my fiance an ultimatum abt the uncle.

So now my fiance knows not to mess with me, and I have no intentions of talking with my UNCLE....i hate himmmmm

HOpe things improve with you...keep us informed.....

ur a strong girl and Im sure u'll come out of this stronger...

xxxx

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: SeliinaBaybee12
@ Rajni.D - Thank you for the advice, 🤗 Things are not going to straight or well, I don't how to explain it, my bf is back to normal, not his weird attitude like before, but everything with him is okay, but his cousin is eugh! So annoying man! Like I said, I slapped her today after school, and my friends 'cussed' her down, and she started crying again to my bf, and shes still making lies up, I spoke to my bf and he seems to believe me over his cousin, but I think hes still suspicious over what his cousin is saying about me.

x

hey there you know what you should do is get his cuz a bf, man she is a angry bitter single gal she needs some1 lol

Edited by Rajni.D - 16 years ago

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

Stunner

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: SeliinaBaybee12
@ Mahi - Thanks for the advice hun. 🤗 But the thing is, when I went to my bf's place to talk to him and his cousin, he wasn't home only his cousin was; so I spoke to her. We ended up having an arguement I asked her why she was lying she goes 'my cousin can do better without ya' so yeah, I did strong verbal fight, and she just stood there, when my bf came back she faked tears saying I beated her up, when we only had an arguement. Ugh, and yes I HATE her, no dislike only HATE.

You're most welcome! 🤗

Oh well, then she's not the type that likes to sort out things calmly. Then let her be.

Just arrange a day out with your boyfriend and then talk to him about his cousin. If he's still willing to believe her and not you, then you should just move on life because a true boyfriend would trust you more.

-Mahi

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aishwarya

@aish_punk

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Posted: 16 years ago

well ur BF might trust his cousin..bcuz she's afterall his cousin..!

n ppl do get insecure at times u noe..i mean he loves you..trusts u..but then there are many ppl who fake things n we fall 4 them..so its hard..!

its gud that now he's back to normal..but just tell him that his cousin dusnt at all know u..n she should stay where she's supposed to be..

but i really hate such girls!..i have one such in mah skool..n i freeaking..ugh..!

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Jia

@Jiannax143

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

selinaaaaaaa :)

wow she seems like she has nothing better to do. Do you know why she hates you? if she "cares" about ur bf then she shouldn't be messing with him like that and i can't believe your bf actually believes her..i think you should tell her whatever you need to cause she really needs to back off..and if she won't then i guess he should get to know the real her....don't fall for anything she says..and if your bf has never doubted you before and knows you are loyal to him then why is he starting to doubt you now? he should realize that he never thought about you in that way ..and all of a sudden his cousin is telling him stuff that he has never witnessed...he should know something is up...hopefully he realizes soon

but yeah either talk to her and clear everything up cause she can do a lot of damage in 6 weeks or get everything straight with him..he should know who is really playing him

hope i helped :)

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@Robsessed.

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

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@ Everyone Who Gave Advice (Sorry, I can't write all your names down) - Thanks, I'm still working on it, and I truly hate his cousin, she's a bitter girl who really needs a man in her life to liven her up a bit. LOL.

Moushkaaaaaaaa! (Jia) Haha!

His cousin rang today, and when my bf went out with his mates to watch a 'guy' movie, and she kind of threatened me to keep away from him, and NO, I don't know why she hates me, I hated her from day one, so I don't know her reason in hating me. We're deadly enemies.

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Eugh! She is soo annoying!

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