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love_vs_hate

@love_vs_hate

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

yaa i also think that U and Ur Parents should scold her and try to make her understand... she will be OK ... dont worry...

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xox.iloveyou

@xox.iloveyou

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Posted: 16 years ago

#12

first adivce: stop talking to her.

second: if yur parents ask tell dem that if their not gonna do anything bout it. you would.

and stop talking to her. AND if she realizes that yur not talking to her and she asks tell her that yur word hurt you ALOT and see what she sayss.

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Jess.

@Jess.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#13

OMG its so hurtful when siblings call you a bitch and all that :(
it makes me soooo angry whenever my brother says stuff to me...he called me a whore once in front of all our cousins! i dont even know where he got that from...cause he knows that it makes me angry so he says it when he's really angry. i was like seriously? are you kidding me.... so i just kicked him and he got real mad and almost cried (HAHA thats what he deserved)

He likes to show off in front of his friends >(
my parents just dont care

my brother went through that phase and he used to say all these mean things and i'll just hit him and we'll get into fights

AND he wouldnt get in trouble

pisses me off....i think you shouldn't talk to her, drop her off anywhere until she realizes that it hurt you when she called you a bitch. Thats what i do with my brother...stop talking to him till he starts being nice to me to get me to talk

all this is so frustrating!

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@lovely_lady

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

i know how you feel..

i also have a younger sister who had the same problem..

but luckily, she was much younger then me, so i was able to control her..

personally, i dont think u should be taking such crap from her after all you've done for her..

i suggest that you go and talk to her..

and if its possible, discipline her..

like i had a lot of authority over my sister, so im allowed to ground her and stuff..

but seriously, u shouldnt just give up and not talk to her..

its gona make the situation worse..

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...Aphrodite...

@...Aphrodite...

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Posted: 16 years ago

#15

Okay this is my personal advice coming from personal experience after my niece picked up swear words. Yeh she's younger than your sister but the same rules still apply.
The next time she says it laugh at her in a really degrading way. If you're with someone say "She thinks she's such a a grown up..". ..or "how mature! *said sarcastically*.

Nothing is more infuriating to a teenager than belittling them The more she swears at you...the more you laugh in her face to show that it doesn't hurt you and she's just making a fool out of herself.

I bet you...if you do it correctly she'll stop eventually. If you show her it hurts...she'll just carry on.

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

#16

honestly she's 17 there's nothing that you can do now, this should of been handled when she was MUCH younger and first did it.

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315925

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Posted: 16 years ago

#17

Imagine my 7 year old cousin called my 9 year old cousin a b***h!!!! How disgusting!! I yelled at him....he is such a pervert....my sissy doesn't even know what it means....poor things...she thought he was calling her "pitch"....

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Posted: 16 years ago

#18

just gently reproach her and tell her not to swear when she does that any time. i think its a bad habit and it should be curbed in the beginning itself. otherwise its embarrassing in front of older people. it does not give a good impression too.

Edited by angelic_devil - 16 years ago

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Harjot.

@Angel-Jot

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Posted: 16 years ago

#19

Hey!! Im 17 and so i guess its just something your sis might have got from her friends. Just talk to her but dont ignore her. Show her you love her by being nice and duscussing things with her. She'll slowly stop and realize what shes been doing...hopefully.
In a way, i also agree with Ragini.D. This should have been handled when she was younger and your parents should have been more strict on that but i guess in a way its too late.

But Give it a try!! Always be optimistic.😛

Good luck!!

Ciao for now!

~Jot~😉

Edited by Angad-Kripa#1 - 16 years ago

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Arushi.

@Arushi.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: sweetscented
she is just 2 yrs younger than me.............
she is not like 10 yrs old or smth...........
she is 17 yrs old and will be going in 12th grade

i just stopped talking to her
i didn't know what to do

hey

if u stop talking to her things will worsen up..

maybe she thinks its all cool and has fallen for he peer pressure..

maybe she is having problems herslef due to which she is turning to such behaviour..

just try talking it out casually with her..

casually !!

hope all gets okay