that is in a relationship both r equal in all means .as he said " ek ka dayithva dusre ka haq hua " lekin bahut kam log is baat to samaj pathe hai " jeevan mein ya toh hum dayithava nibayahe chale jathe hai(which is abhi)
ya phir haq jathay chale hai (which is simi)" this is the mistake that they have made.
fistly simi should not have to hide things from abhi no doubt,its cent percent true no matter how close or far the bonding is
and s abhi's behaviour towards simi is also very correct .no objection
but i could not understand one thing eg
if simi would have told abhi before itself he will react same way as now and landing up in jail ( if simi stops too he will and he should react
no body have the rights to call anybody 's wife or who ever its for one night stand )and soceity will be taunting
and abhi will get irritate too .bcoz this issue is very delicate if he doesnt react then how will he prove to be her husband.and
what difference that it makes in situations (as of we know bhalla will provoke abhi ,take advantage of abhi's anger as he did now)
bcoz anger make s a person blind,no matter how wise or how understanding he is.iam not justifying simi but explaing the situation
2ndly simi went to his office its wrong in the sense to sort out this issue,she could have waited at home but can't a wife go to his office a casual visit i dont feel any harm in that,and s she said sorry for that but abhi blaming simi for called bacha in office ,they dont take him seriouly how far is this correct if he agrees or not the matter of fact is that they have the age differenc,shouldn't he prepared for this
y didn't he think about the consequences of this marriage before is it bcoz love is blind . y didn't he think when simi told the age differnce is a matter to society,y he denied the fact and was ready to face the society .and now he is feeling ashamed to take money from her ,when simi told abhi to take a job,a house then we will talk about
the marriage ,he did not listen to her frist then y did he went to nakul for job(as we all know being a IIM ahmedabad student if he doesnt get a job who else will get, the credit goes to CV's)
3rdly simi's behaviour as we all know abhi knows her from start till now , when she could hide rape incident from her parents she was ready to sacrifice herself for her brother and family , she can do anything for her family,y this step could not be called a sacrifice for her family with abhi which has not yet started too.
i some where felt its always parents responsiblity to tell children what is correct and wrong,here no body is ready to correct her for a married girl most of the time mom advices what to do and what not to do, and its somewhere abhi's fault too for supporting her in her right and wrong decision before and after marriage .
i dont understand y is this just for one reason they r on the split track but if u come to see she has done more & more wrong things before marriage to him (a boyfriend could digest those things but a husband could not, in what sense that the love differs ) and no strong clarification of simi's behaviour of hiding things from abhi,
and the love and respect that they shared befor marriage is vanished in air with no ashes left behind to find its traceses too very sad
i have not seen such a terrifying character in reel and real life, who does not know the value and worth of diamond(abhi) they say diamonds r girls best friend ,and simi a girl doesn't know its unbeliveble ,after being rejected in marriage market and
found a gem in her life and still running behind her parents and sibling who were married and have thier own life to live,where as it should be simi who should have worked harder to make her marriage success. i think this character belives in this proverb
rules and advices are ment for others,she never follows that she advicing anitha about marriage and relationship and telling her that her husbands house is hers not her parents house ,and run behind things when it has left ur court when abhi didnot confess his love she wanted that ,and now she had that but could not grab it tightly.she never claims her rights from her family but she wants to claim all rights on abhi.
oh god its above my knowledge the credit goes to none other than cv's of KB.
any ways i am happy for nakul and bhalla ,agar yeh aafat(simi) unke gale lagthi toh sari planning bhul jathe(to destroy 12/24 KB) aur inko handle karne ke planning mein lag jathe.atleast abhi could have been saved.
simi has failed to be a good wife ,in this i can take stand for neetu and anitha as wife atleast they want their husband's love at any cost neetu whether she likes him or not but stood for him before nakul.and anitha she wants her husband but not her in laws.
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