Episode with some meaning today

Originally posted by: ssree

i too felt sad seeing today's episode........... seeing abhi helpless............. poor guy a son of a rich person has only 20 rupees in his purse m, that too to saying if its not enough for auto , i will go by bus and still not enough will go walking ......................Oh my heart went out to him today.

Simi when will you understand his value , see what you have made him now . he is feeling so insecure and inferior. Once upon a time he had so much of a positive energy and positive attitude , evey things missing in him now.

Its so rightly said a girl if she wants can desrtoy and mans life or even make up a mans life.

simi pls learn to value him ASAP ,or you will loose him.

when he enters the romm with out even giveing space to breathe she starts her dilaoguse , arrey simi give him space dear, he is tired , exhausted and sad. leave him alone for some time. u are solely responsible for every thing.

Yes mesimi, manju should explain to simi what she has done is wrong by not telling abhi, and make her uderstand her mistake, she know there is a tiff betwwen them , when mili tried to help, she stopped her also. fine husband and wife should sort out the problem , but make her understand what mistake she did.

by the way from where did you get the money to buy gold.................... you were running short of money. where was your concern for your other daughters.

Manju ji pls try to be a true mother , your one daughter is pregnant , try to take care of her and be with her, your daughter inlaw is not even bothered to come to her husbands place, arent these things bothering you, and you are taking u r sick husband out and moving away .......................... manjiji manjuji manjuji.

you have to ekarn first than only your daughter will learn.

but yes goo to know Simi has started missing Abhi ........... i am happy on htat

Originally posted by: mesimi

I think todays episode did carry some meaning

1. Abhi returning home. The way he had a defeated look and told her I am in no mood of a fight.Lets not discuss this fuurther or else i will sleep outside. But altogether the tears that he shed was that of a defeated man.

2. Abhi did not have issues about taking money from her when he did not have a job. But today he is unwilling to take it from her because he feels he is a burden to her since his wife did not even consider him worthy of sharing an important issue regarding Bhalla's proposal. A husband expects his wife will trust him in all matters. When Simi distrusts him on the issue that she kept him in the dark, he feels he is just around to serve some purpose for her. So he feels he is a burden to Simi.

3.Simi missing good old days when she sees Mili on phone with Vishal. As long as Abhi was around to help her even before she asked, she did not value him. Two days of cold shoulder from him, she is missing her lost love and happiness.

4. Abhi does not even take money from her and leaves. Simi took an advance from college which was spent lavishly on Mata ki chowki extravaganza. The family was left with 1500 rupees to stretch the monthly expenses, but they are currently shopping happily for Mili and Simi is not around. Expecting she might have gone to college.

5.Simi should learn that eventually she has her husband only and family and sibs will not be around forever. No one is helping her patch up with Abhi. Are they sitting and talking to them together regarding the issue?

Manju issued a statement yesterday saying husband and wife should settle their issues themselves and none should interfere. I suppose that is meant for their personal issues only. If the tiff is concerning her over the board prioroities putting her maternal home rather than her husband first, as sensible mother should drive some sense into her daughters head and advise her to leave her home along with her husband and set her priorities straight. That is the role of a mother in a girl's life and not let her struggle by herself when all the while they have kept and used Simi for their own purpose everytime and expecting her to sacrifice herself by marrying Bhalla, marrying Nakul for Neetus sake, stay back at 12/24 to help with papaji's recovery, monetary gain fro chowki plus all along she has been contributing since she started working. Is it not a mother's duty to support and help her daughter and Abhi to get over the issue of Bhalla. Did she ever tell her daughter that it was not right to hide facts from her husband?

6.Abhi inspite of being angry on Simi is fighting his boss not to interfere in his personal life. Shows Abhi still cares. And yes a big time issue brought in. The society will never allow an individual to prosper and keeps taunting them. Bhalla is just a representative of the society's thinking. and it was extended in the form of abhi's boss today.

7.Probably they may arrive at how a once cool young free spirit like Abhi is overburdened with responsibilty by his so called"unusual marriage" to an older girl. Or how he will learn to deal with such issues.

8. And maybe its just a matter of time that Abhi and Simi will realise that they have to work together if they really have to face and overcome society's ridicules after the initial challenge of consciously accepting their age difference.

So hoping for the best.

Originally posted by: mesimi

I think todays episode did carry some meaning

1. Abhi returning home. The way he had a defeated look and told her I am in no mood of a fight.Lets not discuss this fuurther or else i will sleep outside. But altogether the tears that he shed was that of a defeated man.

2. Abhi did not have issues about taking money from her when he did not have a job. But today he is unwilling to take it from her because he feels he is a burden to her since his wife did not even consider him worthy of sharing an important issue regarding Bhalla's proposal. A husband expects his wife will trust him in all matters. When Simi distrusts him on the issue that she kept him in the dark, he feels he is just around to serve some purpose for her. So he feels he is a burden to Simi.

3.Simi missing good old days when she sees Mili on phone with Vishal. As long as Abhi was around to help her even before she asked, she did not value him. Two days of cold shoulder from him, she is missing her lost love and happiness.

4. Abhi does not even take money from her and leaves. Simi took an advance from college which was spent lavishly on Mata ki chowki extravaganza. The family was left with 1500 rupees to stretch the monthly expenses, but they are currently shopping happily for Mili and Simi is not around. Expecting she might have gone to college.

5.Simi should learn that eventually she has her husband only and family and sibs will not be around forever. No one is helping her patch up with Abhi. Are they sitting and talking to them together regarding the issue?

Manjuissued a statement yesterday saying husband and wife should settle their issues themselves and none should interfere. I suppose that is meant for their personal issues only. If the tiff is concerning her over the board prioroities putting her maternal home rather than her husband first, as sensible mother should drive some sense into her daughters head and advise her to leave her home along with her husband and set her priorities straight. That is the role of a mother in a girl's life and not let her struggle by herself when all the while they have kept and used Simi for their own purpose everytime and expecting her to sacrifice herself by marrying Bhalla, marrying Nakul for Neetus sake, stay back at 12/24 to help with papaji's recovery, monetary gain fro chowki plus all along she has been contributing since she started working. Is it not a mother's duty to support and help her daughter and Abhi to get over the issue of Bhalla. Did she ever tell her daughter that it was not right to hide facts from her husband?

6.Abhi inspite of being angry on Simi is fighting his boss not to interfere in his personal life. Shows Abhi still cares. And yes a big time issue brought in. The society will never allow an individual to prosper and keeps taunting them. Bhalla is just a representative of the society's thinking. and it was extended in the form of abhi's boss today.

7.Probably they may arrive at how a once cool young free spirit like Abhi is overburdened with responsibilty by his so called"unusual marriage" to an older girl. Or how he will learn to deal with such issues.

8. And maybe its just a matter of time that Abhi and Simi will realise that they have to work together if they really have to face and overcome society's ridicules after the initial challenge of consciously accepting their age difference.

So hoping for the best.

Well written mesimi.But now I have no hope.😭

Originally posted by: KBfanNo1

It was extremely sad to watch today's episode.. the same Abhi has changed so much.. He doesn't wnats to share anything with Simi.. how can u start disrespecting someone so much.. and he loved her like nething..

Maybe he has had too much and he is now reacting to what all has happened. AFter all he is definately immature than Simi

Hey CVs please donot bring this out that when a young person marries a elder lady this happens.. pls this is not correct and good. So donot show this atleast..