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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

I don't like abhi holding Simi's hand such way in anger. Person like anita deserves salps and all.

Simi never ever meant to hrt abhi when she hid from him adn she does not deserve such treatment.
Plz abhi hear her out and don't sae her more.
See already told you she is afraid So hear her out calmly.
Abhi anger never helps. look at simi this the same person who you calim to love.
What happen to that love don't you see is hurt too with such behavior of your sand she has never see this side of you.
It is shocker for simi adn she is afraid of you and for you. that you might do something crazy in rage.
CVS plz bring back loving caring abhi ASAP.
He has scared Simi enough. he is the only person who understand Simi so well so why all these accusations.
yaar no woman deserve such treatment from her love. especilly not Simi. nothing else he shoud think about she is older than him.
You can say anything but do not scare her showing physically you are more powerful.
I hate the men who do such to their wives showing they are more powerful physically.
please bring our sweet abhi back at least sweet to simi

di,
Any husband who is in abhi place will be angry , and furious , and so this abhi has got the rights and power to be angry on her.
She did a big mistake by not telling abhi, and that is a mistyake that cannot be overruled. He did tha correct thing by asking her what else she hid, coming to know from a third person about his enemy staying next door, is really a shock for him and i would say i onlyt behaved this way with simi is due to his maturity. if it was any other person they would have reacted in a worse manner. He also kept his decency and when he saw anuj he quickly left her hand and behaved civil with her.
I am wiht abhi in what he has done and she deserved it. Abhi has given all his love and affection sommuch on her that too more than her family members and he has all the right to ber violent with her too................... but he has not been like that too. He is still; cool headed.
Also prevuiously when abhi was silent we all wanted him to have more screen prescence , and now when they gave him , let usw not argue and crib and reduce his importace.
Neil ad Abhi is doing and perfect and woderful job, and i would like him to be like this itself.
In RBs case is a bit aggressive that he himself knows about it , and its ok; and he should be its ok like this Di .
IOf Abhi dosent show his anger now then when will he show it..................... he is a man and he should do it ..............................
So relax di , once RBs issue is over abhi abhi will be our sweet abhi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssree

di,

Any husband who is in abhi place will be angry , and furious , and so this abhi has got the rights and power to be angry on her.
She did a big mistake by not telling abhi, and that is a mistyake that cannot be overruled. He did tha correct thing by asking her what else she hid, coming to know from a third person about his enemy staying next door, is really a shock for him and i would say i onlyt behaved this way with simi is due to his maturity. if it was any other person they would have reacted in a worse manner. He also kept his decency and when he saw anuj he quickly left her hand and behaved civil with her.
I am wiht abhi in what he has done and she deserved it. Abhi has given all his love and affection sommuch on her that too more than her family members and he has all the right to ber violent with her too................... but he has not been like that too. He is still; cool headed.
Also prevuiously when abhi was silent we all wanted him to have more screen prescence , and now when they gave him , let usw not argue and crib and reduce his importace.
Neil ad Abhi is doing and perfect and woderful job, and i would like him to be like this itself.
In RBs case is a bit aggressive that he himself knows about it , and its ok; and he should be its ok like this Di .
IOf Abhi dosent show his anger now then when will he show it..................... he is a man and he should do it ..............................
So relax di , once RBs issue is over abhi abhi will be our sweet abhi.

he can be super angry and hurt RB and break his bones and fratcure his entire body I don't care but he should never ever handle simi such way. I am shocked seeing last 2 epsiode. I hope they don;t turn him to wife beater or abuser. next time, and I totally disagree that any woma should be handle such way no matter what especailly not a woman like Simi. let us put ourself in Simi's position and then How do we feel. dow eallow our huby to push us shove us or hold our hand that hurt us physically.
If nothing else abhi should think about she is much older to him adn he is hurting her physically and emotionaly becos she hurt him emotionally.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

he can be super angry and hurt RB and break his bones and fratcure his entire body I don't care but he should never ever handle simi such way. I am shocked seeing last 2 epsiode. I hope they don;t turn him to wife beater or abuser. next time, and I totally disagree that any woma should be handle such way no matter what especailly not a woman like Simi. let us put ourself in Simi's position and then How do we feel. dow eallow our huby to push us shove us or hold our hand that hurt us physically.

If nothing else abhi should think about she is much older to him adn he is hurting her physically and emotionaly becos she hurt him emotionally.
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In a husband and wife relation where does the age come........ common di, pls dont argue for name sake .
Even if simi is elder to abhi , isnt she immature than abhi?. if its loke that then abhi should call simi ji ad n t simi and instwead of tum it should be aap.
in such a relation fo me even if the husband is younger or elder , he has all the rights and more rights than the wife and Abhi as of now has not physically abiused simi. and he wont do it also.
what do u want abhi to do after listening to this nonsense from, her,,,,,,,,,,,,,, do you want abhi to run to simi and cary her and say i louve you simi for what you have done and hug her ,,..... As of now i feel what abhi has done is correct.
Di , this is just my opinion.every one has their own views

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am sorry to say I am with Jaya, Krisha, and Ssree.....Abhi did not in any way manhandle Simi.....When we are talking to someone and we feel they lied to us or are making a fool of us we would hold them and ask in a very serious tone what is going on! And that is what Abhi did!

Any other regular husband like Anuj would have lost their cool and done stupid things to the wife......Abhi did not do any such thing....
Abhi loves Simi so much and he has done so much for her...I mean he literally fought with the world for her and he always protected her and her izzaat. Simi still goes aroung calling him a becchan and telling him to stop acting like a child.....She so far went as to lecture him about trust and respect in a marriage😲😕,,,,And what did she do? I am 1001% behind Abhi......
It is about time Simi realises that you don't do what you feel is right and you don't make decisions for others thinking you know better... A marriage is a 50/50 deal....And all Simi has done so far is act as if she is the one in charge and Abhi is her pupil.....
Abhi has put up with a lot as far as Simi and her attitude towards him is concerned.. Any man would have been upset to know his wife was propositioned by the likes of Bhalla and the wife decided on her own not to tell her husband....I mean seriously who does she think she is? She has involved herself in her family's affairs against their will and she is imposing her dhak on Abhi and everyone is up until now putting up with it! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!!!!
I am not saying that Simi is bad but what I am saying is she needs to learn to treat Abhi as an equal and not as one of her sutdents or one of her siblings......She needs to learn respect towards Abhi and she needs to know how to put HIS NEEDS first instead of her and her families needs......It is high time Abhi is treated as he deserves....
ABHI DID NOT DO ANYTHING WRONG! HE IS DEFENDING SIMI BECAUSE HE LOVES HER OTHERWISE HE WOULD HAVE A WHO CARES ATTITUDE.......ABHI IS A REAL HUSBAND AND HE DOES NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE A SECOND CLASS CITIZEN!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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daboo holding her by her hand tightly and pushing her was nec right. Abhi is not a regular man but a loving caring husband. and yes he has done so much for simi. But is not waht all husbandas are suppose to do. In a mariage it is not counted who does less or more. Abhi has shown his willingness to help her from day one and simi liked him that way. Abhi liked the feeling that at least some one relies on him and trust him that he can help some one.So it has been a relationship of need and want from day one.
I still consider it a manhandling if abhi holds simi by her hand frightening her or pushing her.
I mean if he does same like RB when he is angry scaring simi than waht is the difference between 2?
I will not tolerate my man pushing me or holding my hand in anger even though I made a mistake and thank god he is not like that.He will just leave my hand and walk away but make sure I am not hurt in any way.
We call Abhi an ideal husband but then ideal husband does not resort to frighten his wife.
His anger should be directed to RB as he is the one who wanted to hurt his love Simi.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sorry Raksha I cannot agree with you.....Manhandling involves him holding her hand and pushing her around......He did not do that.....

On thursday's episode he did not push her.....he pulled his hand in such force she was taken aback.....Abhi would never abuse or manhandle Simi in any way....If he were to do that he had lots of chances before.......
I am not defending Abhi because I am "crazy or fida" upon him...I really truly feel he did not do anything wrong and Simi is not hurt...
If she was hurt she would have mentioned it or shown some sign of being hurt.....The look on her face was that of surprise not hurt!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SimBhi2

Sorry Raksha I cannot agree with you.....Manhandling involves him holding her hand and pushing her around......He did not do that.....

On thursday's episode he did not push her.....he pulled his hand in such force she was taken aback.....Abhi would never abuse or manhandle Simi in any way....If he were to do that he had lots of chances before.......
I am not defending Abhi because I am "crazy or fida" upon him...I really truly feel he did not do anything wrong and Simi is not hurt...
If she was hurt she would have mentioned it or shown some sign of being hurt.....The look on her face was that of surprise not hurt!!!!!!!!!!

he did push her yesterday and held her hand tightly as well.
I wish he had broken something to scare simi than holding her arm or pushing her. he could have made simi leave his hand when she tried to stop him. It was all a shock, a scare and a hurt.
We all have been defending abhi because we like him and blaming simi. because it was simi's fault.
But not any more if he had broken things or scare her by screaming it would have been Ok.
Simi made a mistake and he is hurt so it is justified. But not by forceully holding her hand and pushing her when she tries to stop him.
I have seen worst case of physical abuse with one of my friend and thank god she esacepd and got out of relationship. her husband threw petrol on her to burn her alive. and she was the most amazing wonderful lively bubly girl I ever knew.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't think he fully crossed his limits. He hid the truth of who he borrowed money from and he deserved a punishment. But he hid it for a good reason even though Neetu was punished by Nakul for it. Same way, Simi hid it for a good reason but she did make a mistake. But they probably wouldn't have the house back if it weren't for her hiding the truth. RB can easily bribe the police and Abhi would probably be behind bars. But she still should have told him. They could have USED the letter RB wrote as evidence and threatened to get him arrested. But again, RB can bribe. So she had to keep Abhi's anger under control UNTIL they got the house. That was smart... but she should have told him after they got the house. So Simi does deserve a punishment. He only held her hand but gradually he will may more violent towards her. I hope old Abhi is back and uses other ways of punishing her.
Edited by -Shankar- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Shankar-

I don't think he fully crossed his limits. He hid the truth of who he borrowed money from and he deserved a punishment. But he hid it for a good reason even though Neetu was punished by Nakul for it. Same way, Simi hid it for a good reason but she did make a mistake. But they probably wouldn't have the house back if it weren't for her hiding the truth. RB can easily bribe the police and Abhi would probably be behind bars. But she still should have told him. They could have USED the letter RB wrote as evidence and threatened to get him arrested. But again, RB can bribe. So she had to keep Abhi's anger under control UNTIL they got the house. That was smart... but she should have told him after they got the house. So Simi does deserve a punishment. He only held her hand but gradually he will become more violent towards her. I hope old Abhi is back and uses other ways of punishing her.

this is what I am afraid of and i hope this is stopped right here. adn they don;t trun sweet abhi into psychotic lover.
who love with passion and hates with passion. if you want to harm any one harm the person who try to harm your love.
Most abussive love their wife so passionately that they can not see some one laying eye on them as they consider like they own their woman like a possesion.
and at the point think in wrong direction like RB coming after Simi is simi's fault and may be she is encouraging him when simi is an innocent victim,
I hope the story does not take such turn or I am out of here.
I for one can not handle to see such psychotic lover.
I hope CVs are not after another track like indecent proposal a domestic vilonce where woman is victmized by huby for being target of another man.😡
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have read everyones post and please dont misunderstand because violence is not the right way but everyone is saying that simi is being hurt and that she doesn't deserve to be treated this way.
In my opinion Abhi isn't hurting Simi at all he just pulled his hand away from her so it appeared as if he pushed her away and in yesterdays episode he was just holding her arm and I honestly think he couldn't believe that he had to find out from someone else that Balla had moved next door. I admit that simi really didn't get a chance to tell Abhi but he is so furious and he is not thinking straight so anything to do with Balla is very disturbing to him not matter what it is.. He didn't bash her or target her in any way he was just so mad because he has been treated as if he is of no importance to her. DONT YOU THINK IT IS ABHI WHO HAS BEEN HURT AND HURT BADLY. He sacrifices everything, is nearly killed on the day that simis was supposed to marry nakul, sold his jeep to pay for a ring which has been burnt, disowned by his father and the one person that he thought that he could trust has given him the ultimate betrayal. Simi is truly the one that is the cause for all his anger. She has been treating him as a child for far too long and its high time she realises that he is a man and not someone you treat and use when its to your advantage or when you need his services to protect her familys needs. I just pray that Abhi doesn't loose sight and in his fit of anger hits Balla and ends up in jail. I WOULD NOT WANT TO SEE THAT HAPPEN. Abhi has put up with so much that how can he not be expected to explode.
As Simbhi2 said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Simi knew that she should have told Abhi what Balla wanted but instead she decided to keep quiet so these are the actions of her silence.
Simi has no idea what it means to truly love Abhi because if she had she would have never let the situation get out of hand like this. When you love someone and especially in a marriage situation trust and love go hand in hand but she doesn't know the meaning of either. LETS SEE IF SHE WILL UNDERSTAND NOW WHAT IT MEANS TO HAVE SOMEONE LIKE ABHI IN HER LIFE.

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