Abhi should draw a line now!

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Shanti

@shanti05

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ok after papaji's recovery Abhi should draw a line and clearly mention to Simi Unless and untill i get some respect from all the members of your family we will not be making ourselves be drawn towards their worries and problems.

i want to get my respect as the son-in-law of that house just the way tiu had stated the other day to Anuj and Anita.
'and the respect I give your mom she sould also consider me as a son-in-law of the house and take you as the daughter otherwise we will never be able to live in peace and harmony.

Let them handle situation you have done enough on your part and If truth prevails then victory will be for truth.

Simi if you are still so drawn towards the responsibilities for that house and you want me to tag along with you all the time then we should lead seperate lives
I would'nt mind seeing them seperated for some time to see how Simi realises that Abhi does mean a significant part of her life

both are not going to leave each other but a little dooriyan can make then realise the need for each others importance in life after being married

Anyone agrees with me !!

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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shanti05
Ok after papaji's recovery Abhi should draw a line and clearly mention to Simi Unless and untill i get some respect from all the members of your family we will not be making ourselves be drawn towards their worries and problems.

i want to get my respect as the son-in-law of that house just the way tiu had stated the other day to Anuj and Anita.
'and the respect I give your mom she sould also consider me as a son-in-law of the house and take you as the daughter otherwise we will never be able to live in peace and harmony.

Let them handle situation you have done enough on your part and If truth prevails then victory will be for truth.

Simi if you are still so drawn towards the responsibilities for that house and you want me to tag along with you all the time then we should lead seperate lives
I would'nt mind seeing them seperated for some time to see how Simi realises that Abhi does mean a significant part of her life

both are not going to leave each other but a little dooriyan can make then realise the need for each others importance in life after being married

Anyone agrees with me !!

agreeing with you 50/50....Yes I do agree that he needs to draw the line somewhere....Simi needs to get her prioirities straight. Abhi should be numero uno in her book. Family will always be there, but husband is your future.......As far as AA treating Abhi with respect, Simi will never let them belittle Abhi. That much I am sure of. And I have no hope for Manju ever/not in the near future excepting Abhi, and Simi cannot do anything about that. Manju is unreachable.......She is now thinking more thru her ego and samaj than as a mother.

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Krisha123

@Krisha123

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Posted: 15 years ago

There is no question in Abhi drawing line for simi, i think she is so over confident that abhi will always be by her side. One can see that, after they had their tiff at the park she didn't care about abhi instead she went to make a call. My thinking is if she realized she was wrong then she will draw a line herself or until all the family problems are solved. { womens like simi can never change - that's just my opinion }

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Shanti

@shanti05

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+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Thats why he should withdraw himself for taking responsibilities and let her find her way towards him
Then it will be nice to watch
I am not really liking this track with Abhi coming to her rescue all the time

The creatuves had given us a great Simi and Abhi in the begning but now they lack a beautiful storyline

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Krisha123

@Krisha123

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shanti05
Thats why he should withdraw himself for taking responsibilities and let her find her way towards him
Then it will be nice to watch
I am not really liking this track with Abhi coming to her rescue all the time

The creatuves had given us a great Simi and Abhi in the begning but now they lack a beautiful storyline

i really want it to happen the way u are telling,but i think in this the age factor is playing the part lets put it this way if simi was younger then abhi then there was no way she would behave like this.

i liked this track , atleast with this she will realize more. Lets see what happens in next episode.

Edited by KRIVISHU123 - 15 years ago

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Nabanita De

@Nisha1994

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Posted: 15 years ago

i love the fact dat abhi stands beside simi in all conditions... Its nt abhi who should change bt it should be simi who should change her attitude towards abhi...

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Shanti

@shanti05

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

If we wait for Simi the show will be over
so gove some turning points some judaiyee if she dose'nt listen then we can see some action from her side
Her problem is that she needs a reason to get charged up and the way Abhi can give it is by giving her an ultimatum

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Krisha123

@Krisha123

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shanti05
If we wait for Simi the show will be over
so gove some turning points some judaiyee if she dose'nt listen then we can see some action from her side
Her problem is that she needs a reason to get charged up and the way Abhi can give it is by giving her an ultimatum

remember her reaction seeing Annu ---abhi's ex girlfriend in kb i think that should definetly work or may be judai cud also work.

Edited by KRIVISHU123 - 15 years ago

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kaydene reddy

@lornareddy

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Posted: 15 years ago

true abhi has put up with alot

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Bana

@Bana

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Posted: 15 years ago

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I watched a movie once where the wife comes to know about the husband's pre-marriage relationship and that strains their mariage so they decide mutually to separate, but remain in touch as friends. When the wife's father dies in an accident and there are family troubles, he is there by her side like a close family friend to help her through all the problems, though they are still leading separate lives.

I think Abhi should do something like that - tell Simi that with things as they are their marriage is not working so they should lead their own lives separately until she is able to focus on their marriage, but he will still be there for her as a best friend whenever she needs him.

The only problem with this approach is it will give everyone a chance to say I told you so about their marriage failing so soon. Pyaar ki haar ho jayegi 😭.

How else can Abhi send Simi a strong message without others getting to know their marriage is not working?

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