Simi must learn to be happy

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Posted: 15 years ago
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In today's episode I feel they showed Simi and Abhi on a different scale altogether.
Simi has come back after seeing Anuj.
Abhi is trying to arrange a surprise for her.
Simi is surprised. They have a sweet talk about..Bagootar, Kya karen pati hai.
Her small happiness is short lived cos she has to talk to her dad.
The romance they tried bringing in. I felt Simi is happy that Abhi has done this for her. I felt her eyes showed her love for Abhi. Her problem is she is preoccupied with the information she got from dad.
She tries to smile when Abhi says those words..humdum,sajna, dost,etc but soon her worry resurfaces.
When Abhi says we will have fun and says..hum saath hain Simi, aur kya chahiye...she is thinking about it and starts dancing with him. But again the same thoughts bother her.
Abhi manages saying --Toh kya mera bhi nahi hai, jab tak tum mere saath ho, I am happy, she is trying to be happy with him but thing is she cant.
Instead of outrightly telling him, i am in no mood for this romantic dinner, she is forcing a smile to appear happy. Probably in fractions she is enjoying her moments with Abhi but her worries take over.
I feel they are trying to show that though she can be happy enjoying each minute of her life with man she loves, she still cant be happy.
I think it will be time before she learns how to keep herself happy. She better learn fast.
Edited by mesimi - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Abhi- cool, confident, smart, good looking... married to a simple next- door girl Simi.

Must say this character has a lot of courage and determination as far as his thought for Simi is concerned. He loves her and there is no two ways about it...

Age factor.. thats not a big deed. Honestly, it does not really matter much... to an extent maybe.. but again that can be taken care of.

Simi- Simple, ordinary looking, problem of not getting proper suitors for obesity and age..
Nonsense.. these days there are many girls who get married at the age of 30 yrs, especially those who have a career to fall back upon.. But are darling in this story lacks self- confidence from day one and thanks to her ungrateful mom... just because she is a daughter you cannot use her as a doormat.. atleast she had voice of reasoning in the form of her Dad, otherwise forget about teaching in a college she would have been treated like a maid servant in the house..

Now, coming to her marriage.... one lucky girl must say.. she got someone she could not even dream of... this is that person who introduced her to the real Simi she was... but it is her nature to be too very helpful... and mind you dear friends it has nothing to do with age.. it is her sense of insecurity that always.. works within her....

Small example.. when they were disowned by Abhi's father... that night while walking on the streets she suddenly felt that sense of complete loss when she was about to collide with the cyclist... Abhi.. held her hands and made her realize things are not that bad... she did reciprocate... to that...

Even making food for her husband or standing by him when most of her family members were against their marriage was awesome to see..

But we forget she is actually a "Bhighi Billi" sorry to use the term.. but that what makes Simi the character so forgiving and selfless unlike her other siblings( not dear Mili..😛).... Her insecurity never dies..yesterday... when Abhi... said those harsh words to her, I was not surprised.. their relationship has always been like like.. it is Abhi.. who had to take all the decisions, for both of them...

Simi needs to become a fighter and learn to leave with self- respect... why does she have to listen to Nitu.. if she wants she can always prove her and Abhi's innocence with regards to Vicky's arrest is concerned...

But Abhi.. has at times given into her wishes too easily... any girl would want a hubby like him so considerate and understanding but at times he needs to make her grow... not that he does not do that.. but a little more strong or at times stubborn , he must be so to make Simi develop a character of her own...

It is natural for a girl to have bonding with her parents... but not at the cost of a new relationship.. which has given you so much in life...

Well, to cut the long story shot... both the characters are human.. Abhi is young and maybe impulsive.. in his approach.. but Simi is there to complement that as she did at the bus stand, by opting to travel by bus... So, no one is perfect and it is this sense of being perfect and appreciating each others gestures and desires what makes a relationship sustain in the long run...😊


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Mesimi i am also trying to be optimistic , but at times she gets into my nerves.
oh u r sentence , he should try axe effect ...........oh 😆😆😆😆😆 , i cant help it laughing
shanti u r very observant , i diddnt notice it so much, ok i see the scene later hten and notice it. but yes appreciateAbhi for the efforts taken , and he really decorated the room. by the way I think I only saw salad on the table and two plates nothing else, r they on a diet 😲
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Happiness is not in her dictionary !! Only sulking in sorrow is written !!

Duk Duk and onlu Duk
No Dhak Dhak Dhak for Abhi😉

And Abhi has'nt married her i juts realsed he married the whole clan of 12/24 Kb's worries !!
Edited by shanti05 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: daboo89

Soooooooo true, she better learn fast. You know Abhi is a gem and he needs to be treated like one. I am more than willing to do it. Unfortunately, he is only a fictional character. No one is real is that understanding and considerate. Simi needs to wake up and smell his cologne!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well we could suggest he should try the AXE effect
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am really getting irritated with simi. hey whats shes always occupied with the problems and attimes i feel shes happy with her problems and she enjoyes it . shes not letting it out also. any She is worried coz her brother lost a job, what about her husband yaar he dosent have a job, shes not worried about that. Arey simiji anuj is quiet big enough he can take care of himself pls dont bother about hi. this female simply takes problem into her head.
Gosh shes unbelievable.
There was something missing in them in the evening atmosphere , Abhi was trying to be at his best but somewhere something missing, it looked to onesided. wonder when she will start to appreciate him.
I can understand when one have problems they u r not in a mood to celebrate, but simi see the trouble hes taken. appreciate it yaar.
I felt they were enjoying more when they spoke to each other during the day time.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

This is where they want to emphasis that the age factor causes a little storm in ones life !!
And she thinking abt how her family will deal with situations since Anuj has lost his job if I were there maybe I could have helped and all that
The ambiance was soo beautiful i liked the way he put aluminum foil around the bottle and made it a vase and kept a rose in it And decorating their cozy room !!


Shanti,
I was just thinking about writing what u said.Well thats what is the difference in age when it comes to worries. In fact i was contemplating to start a new topic or not.
As a husband who has just won his ladylove, a 22 year old will want to explore into the next level of relationship but at 30,Simi wants to fix problems in her family cos thats what she has always been doing. Just like she says..aadat hai. She is used to it.
Even Abhi tells her this on the Mehendi day..I just realised the age gap between us..tumhe zimmedari ki padi hai aur mujhe apne pyaar ki
Abhi understands and supports her but he is a romantic at heart and madly in love with her.
No woman goes to the extent that Simi does after having got married to someone you love and someone who loves you crazy when you had trouble finding one good rishta.
They want to highlight the fact that priorities are different.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually when I started watching him bring her inside and make her close her eyes I was like Wow they are alone and there is going to be some magical moment!!

he looks at her and tells her tonight its our nite and its going to be for us only and she smiled but udar hi I felt she is not confortable preoccupied but i still gave it a next phase.
Then he went towards the phone or some mp3 player where the speaker phone was on and he started the music
And he approached her and said that may i dance with you
I was like woer is this happening but she still seems preoccupied..
Then he help her hand and she gave a very whatever kinda smile and i thought well now its going to be bad and then she blurted Anuj ki kaukari choot gayee i was like ok forget it she has dumped this beautiful moment. But Abhi handled it well and said Chodo na simi lets enjoy and then bas she stopped

Arrey yaar Simi Ek pyaar karney wala Pati kuch lamhey saat mai bitana chahatha hai and you are dumping this oppertunity !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If Simi can't take her mind off 12/24 problems and concentrate on the moment when she is with Abhi, how does she deliver her lectures in Univ? If she is able to compartmentalise her personal problems at work, she can make the effort with Abhi too.

I personally feel every woman has this ability to some extent and that's what makes us so resilient.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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She wants to move ahead with her life and Love for Abhi but some strings draw her towards her family folks and siblings
At this time We want guruji to give some gharelu pravachan aur Pati ko kush Kaisay Rakthey hai

here Abhi is doing Patni Ko kaisay kush Rak sakthey hai !!😆🤣
Edited by shanti05 - 15 years ago

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