Simi's insensitivity knows no bounds

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Simi's insensitivity towards Abhi and her selfishness about her family's needs has crossed all limits...
She disappeared without leaving any info for Abhi about her whereabouts - wouldn't he be worried when he woke up and found her missing? How irresponsible!
She has been cast out from her home and her family except for her father's support - traumatic indeed. But what about Abhi - he has had the same happen to him with the parental roles reversed! Just because he is reacting calmly doesn't make it a less serious incident for him. If the same bad thing happens to 2 people with one reacting hyper and the other reacting calmly does it mean it is less of a bad thing for the latter?
Not once has she asked Abhi how he was feeling. How self-absorbed!
She is tearfully remisniscing about Holi in her house. Don't the Tarnejas play Holi - Abhi might also have such memories - did she stop her ramblings to ask him once "tum Holi par kya karte the?" How insensitive!
Such a woman can be a great daughter and sister but she cannot make a good wife, bahu or even friend, because she doesn't know how to make relationships beyond the ties of blood.

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Dhabu89 thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am in total agreement with you. Plus didn't Simi tell her dad the previous day she will not enter 12/24 until Manju calls her? She may not have had her SR, but she did wake up in the arms of the man she is supposed to love!!!!!!! Nothing and I mean nothing in this world would tear me away from that situation! And HELLO! its not just any man it is ABHI! She should have stayed at HER home and woken up Abhi with a KISS!!! Hell I would😉 Abhi is very understanding....... The CV's need to reconstruct Simi's personality🤬........ I used to root for SimBhi but it is getting harder day by day. And I wish it would go back to the good ole days when Simi actually showed she cared for Abhi!!!!!!!!!🥺 Kabhi kabhi Abhi ki zindhagi ko bhi rangeen kar de! Aur dekh kya maaza aata hai! Such mein! Joot nahin boolti😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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so true..........she doesn't know what shes missing by crying over spilt milk.........and abhi poor guy kaisi patni mili hain......as if he had dearth of girls to get married to the ever weeping, selfish simi....who doesn't even care about him...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Abhi has also left home. But he has never been close to his parents. With his dad he never was. They show he had stayed in the hostel from his 7th standard. He loves his mom but does not miss her on a daily basis. So he is holding up better.
For Simi,her life has been everyhting to do with 12/24 and its people. Her dad is the world to her. Her mom for her is next to god. And in the situation she is right now, she will miss her family more than Abhi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree to both Bana and mesmi but still a little bit of sensitivity towards Abhi should start building when she gets up in the morning and sweetly informs her hubby dear and goes. maybe he wud also join her and that would have been wonderful!
i won't be surprised that he lanbds up tomorrow as Manju is abt to give her a piece of her mind
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bana, Well noted. I think even after marriage Simi remains the same; she continues to be absorbed with her family matters. Poor Abhi goes along with her and doesn't seem to be the slightest bit bothered. He continues to be her pillar of support. MeSimi has a good point that while Abhi has not been as close to his parents he might not be as lost as Simi, but still, he has needs and should be respected as an equal partner in the relationship. She left and didn't even leave him a note.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hi dear,even i feel so ,we cant find the love that she had before abhi 's confession about his love ,now she is ignoring him as if only abhi is mad about her ,thats quite understood that she is mssing her parents and house ,but y is she forgot that even abhi has left his house mom for her sake,as its shown he is such rich guy ,who has left everything for her sake,i think more than simi abhi has lost everything,his house,sis,mom,all the facilities,his cousion bro nakul and dadi ,his job ,his MBA,his vechical,and many more for her sake ,compare to abhi she has only lost her mom ,as its earlier shown that anitha,anuj and neetu dont care for her so there is no point of losing them,her papaji and sis milli r still there for her and now her sis husband omi is also there,poor abhi.i think simi should be happy that such a loving and caring husband by her side and she is still crying
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: daboo89

I am in total agreement with you. Plus didn't Simi tell her dad the previous day she will not enter 12/24 until Manju calls her? She may not have had her SR, but she did wake up in the arms of the man she is supposed to love!!!!!!! Nothing and I mean nothing in this world would tear me away from that situation! And HELLO! its not just any man it is ABHI! She should have stayed at HER home and woken up Abhi with a KISS!!! Hell I would😉 Abhi is very understanding....... The CV's need to reconstruct Simi's personality🤬........ I used to root for SimBhi but it is getting harder day by day. And I wish it would go back to the good ole days when Simi actually showed she cared for Abhi!!!!!!!!!🥺 Kabhi kabhi Abhi ki zindhagi ko bhi rangeen kar de! Aur dekh kya maaza aata hai! Such mein! Joot nahin boolti😉

You are right there; it makes no sense for her to even go there after her mother disowned her. I don't know how she managed to change her mind. Still (and yes, this is coming from me), she still loves her mother and wants to wish her happy birthday. If the creatives don't fix this tomorrow you'll see me get down and dirty😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Both mom and daughter have the same tune !!! They cannot disown each other even if the mom hates her to the core
]I wud have been happy if she had consulted Abhi and gone !! he might have given her some thought abt it
Now again she will get some great bhasan from her mom and she will comne back weeping
I wonder if she will ever be happy even after marrying Abhi !!
There will be more such un called for events which time and again she will have to face untill things her mother approve so will we always see an unhapy Simi even though she married the person whom she wanted to be happy for herself ?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

Abhi has also left home. But he has never been close to his parents. With his dad he never was. They show he had stayed in the hostel from his 7th standard. He loves his mom but does not miss her on a daily basis. So he is holding up better.

For Simi,her life has been everyhting to do with 12/24 and its people. Her dad is the world to her. Her mom for her is next to god. And in the situation she is right now, she will miss her family more than Abhi.

why did she even get married then...........she could have waited for a few more yrs and am sure abhi would be waiting for her for the rest of his life and meanwhile continue his IIM-A studies too ......now that shes married she needs to stand by it and simi and abhi surely both of them can handle and solve the problems together.......what did she even think when she just left the house in the morning after marriage even without informing him or keeping a note by his bedside......poor abhi even after getting married is under the impression simi left him in the lurch like she used to always do previously 😲

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