Originally posted by: mesimi
After reading the update, I decided to watch after all. i saw part1 and then part 4.
Simi does not know what actual love is. She was never entitled to such blind love. With her own insecurities, she cannot believe that someone can actually love her.
Whatever religion as Laila says, marriage vows does carry meaning. Each religion has its own way of confirming a commitment. If you are so much of a non-believer(Simi is not shown as one, she is in the temple crying all the time), even then one listens to one's heart and mind when it comes to love. An individual need not be ritualistic by adhering to all set rules of a marriage like wearing sindoor, mangalsutra, or bangles, etc,etc, but as a woman one feels commited and dedicated to the person you love.
If she din believe in marriage and pheras she should not have participated in the private pheras. Why she did? Cos she believes in it. At that point of time, she din have major problem other than her mom's consent. So she went ahead.
I like Abhi the best. I wish he does not give in to her tantrums this time. His expression was just great. He had tears in his eyes but he quickly recoverd from the jhatka Simi gave him, told her he just knows they are married and he will not let her marry Nakul. The anger in his eyes was evident. Wish he sustains it and does not fall prey to her emotional blackmail of kasams. Iam getting really tired of kasams now.
I really wish Abhi is maintained as an adamant, strong-willed guy. After preventing her from marrying Nakul, he should tell her. I dont care. Sit at home and enjoy attending to everyone's needs. She will realise his worth then. There is not much hope for tomorrow though. I am sure mom and son will be asked to leave. And Manju will grin.