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pams309

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Posted: 16 years ago

Is it right on daadi's part to put such a condition that Simi n Nakul's marriage takes place only if Nitu says yes to Omi??
marriage is something like an agreement or some kind of package deal??

nobody, not even Mili sees any fault in that condition?

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Manik_mia

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Posted: 16 years ago

This kind of things are happening in India always. This is just point show the society and see how people feel about it.

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pams309

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Manik_mia
This kind of things are happening in India always. This is just point show the society and see how people feel about it.

I know...but how can Sethis accept such a condition? nobody has ever seen this Omi guy...daadi says its important to know if Nitu likes the match or not...but is it not important for Nitu to see omi then decide about the marriage? how can daadi expect Nitu to take a decision without even seeing Omi? tats too much!

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neetu

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: pams309
Is it right on daadi's part to put such a condition that Simi n Nakul's marriage takes place only if Nitu says yes to Omi??
marriage is something like an agreement or some kind of package deal??

nobody, not even Mili sees any fault in that condition?

pams,

i agree,dis is not fair as nakul and omi are two different humans and every human have the right to live with their own will ...y dadi is forcing all including nakul,simi,neetu ...she is not a god that she will make a jodi with her will ...she is a big devil..all have gone sick none of them reacting ...they were standing with their bloody gingling faces...!!!😲

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Malini

@Rumii

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well,Isn't almost ALL ARRANGED MARRIAGES are 'Deals' upto certain extent..?? I donot mean monterary Dealing like dowry or anything...... but in Modern times Don't the Parents of either side look for Such qualities that make them feel that we 'gain' something..? Don't the parents of the Bride look for a Groom with High-salary..?? Isn't that a Sort of Deal/????????????????? Why judge Dadi in Bad light only because the alliances brought by her can Seperate Simmi-Abhi?!

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uzee

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: iamindian
Well,Isn't almost ALL ARRANGED MARRIAGES are 'Deals' upto certain extent..?? I donot mean monterary Dealing like dowry or anything...... but in Modern times Don't the Parents of either side look for Such qualities that make them feel that we 'gain' something..? Don't the parents of the Bride look for a Groom with High-salary..?? Isn't that a Sort of Deal/????????????????? Why judge Dadi in Bad light only because the alliances brought by her can Seperate Simmi-Abhi?!

sure, with arranged marriages, parents look for some sort of good deal...hoping for some sort of security for their child...and somewhere this feeling is mutual between the parents of both guy and girl...however, here, the dadi is being pushy...she is forcing a double marriage ...and I don't think that is right...esp. since neetu and omi have not met...atleast simmi and nakul have met and talked...it seems like dadi is trying to trap the sethi's...

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Manik_mia

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: pams309
<br>I know...but how can Sethis accept such a condition? nobody has ever seen this Omi guy...daadi says its important to know if Nitu likes the match or not...but is it not important for Nitu to see omi then decide about the marriage? how can daadi expect Nitu to take a decision without even seeing Omi? tats too much!<br>

Even Neetu should not accept this deal. A week before she was ready to elope with another person; now how she can live with someone else when she is already pregnant with one person.
These are really puzzling me. How Neetu will live with this?

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Sandeepa

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Posted: 16 years ago

Does Neetu hate Simi so much that she will marry Omi out of spite and ruin both her life and Simi's?

I don't understand why the CVs have made Neetu into such a despicable character. She started off so nice and silly and fun to watch.

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Sandeepa108
Does Neetu hate Simi so much that she will marry Omi out of spite and ruin both her life and Simi's?
I don't understand why the CVs have made Neetu into such a despicable character. She started off so nice and silly and fun to watch.

Because there wasn't much they could do with her so they made her evil. They already had one good sister that they didn't need another.

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pams309

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: uzee

sure, with arranged marriages, parents look for some sort of good deal...hoping for some sort of security for their child...and somewhere this feeling is mutual between the parents of both guy and girl...however, here, the dadi is being pushy...she is forcing a double marriage ...and I don't think that is right...esp. since neetu and omi have not met...atleast simmi and nakul have met and talked...it seems like dadi is trying to trap the sethi's...

exactly my point uzee....how can daadi force nitu to say yes for marriage with Omi whn she hasnt even seen him?
Arranged marriages sometimes are like deals...i agree1 but at least the girl n guy meets up at least once before they decide...

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