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Posted: 15 years ago
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Simi showed a total different side of her on thursday only interested in me me and my mom. Poor abhi was hurt and she did not least bit bothered to ask him how is he or show any concern? She was completely trying to protect her mom and pity on herself while poor abhi was only concerned about her and her problems.
I mean I understand she had a tough day with rejections and seeing RB, But she should have shown concern to abhi.
Simi is selfish when it comes to abhi she is trying to be hard to get at times while abhi rushes to her rescue all the time
I was lot more bothered by her attitude on last episode.
Simi is always a giver and when it comes to abhi it is a role reversal when she is a taker and expecting things from him . May be it is love that makes her that way,
Sometimes you do not want any one to help you or reject anything and everything from others but you expect and accept everything from that one very person you love the most.
I think simi has already determined that abhi is that person jiske par woh apna haque jata sakti hai or kuch bhi maang sakti hai(she ihas determined abhi belongs to her and she can ask him anything) That is why she asked him tum pyar nahi karte na mujhse., She does not tell things to any one but she bares all to abhi and calls him when she needs comfort,
She should have atleast ask him gently how he is rather than telling him she wants to slap him. I know that is a love too and abhi replied showing his bandge lovingly.
Even though they will deeply love each other but I see alot of conflict in their relation as well. Simi should be concern about Abhi too. I know she was going crazy when she did not hear from him.
But still should have been nicer to him.
What say?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Truuue! I expected her to go like "OMG you call that a lil accident...And like say "Ye sub meri waja se hua...I shouldn't have talked to you until sunrise:" ...I mean she could of been sweeter >< even if she had a bad day....If she really did love lvoe Abhi...Just looking at him would be enough to take away all those problems...But I think she let out her anger on him instead =/ Poor him...
And I think she shouldn't take Abhi for granted... She is being selfish at times but I think she might change... Like if there is some distance between them which I am highly expecting...Cuz of Neeraj...Their feelings might develop better and really "Love" ...Not just... Close friends...
I think she'll regret saying that and will apologize...But it will still keep Abhi thinking for a long time..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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true i agree..........its only when the love factor comes in they act indifferent thinking that the other person would understand us.......hum usse zyaada chot pauchate hain jisse bahut zyaada pyar karte hain 😳..........but surely poor abhi.....what does he lack...am sure girls will be drooling over him but here he is being all concerned and worried about a girl much elder to him.........surely its Love Love and Love from both sides
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: .-Wish-.

Truuue! I expected her to go like "OMG you call that a lil accident...And like say "Ye sub meri waja se hua...I shouldn't have talked to you until sunrise:" ...I mean she could of been sweeter >< even if she had a bad day....If she really did love lvoe Abhi...Just looking at him would be enough to take away all those problems...But I think she let out her anger on him instead =/ Poor him...

And I think she shouldn't take Abhi for granted... She is being selfish at times but I think she might change... Like if there is some distance between them which I am highly expecting...Cuz of Neeraj...Their feelings might develop better and really "Love" ...Not just... Close friends...
I think she'll regret saying that and will apologize...But it will still keep Abhi thinking for a long time..

I was also expecting oh my God abhi you are hurt. Plz be careful next time. But I understand we tend to over react when we meet a person we love after mishap. But then after intial burst out like that she should ahave shown some concern May be she will Monday. After she let out all her anger. let us hope. I want Simi to be as concern and loving to abhi as she is to her. I know she cares deeply about him and can't stay away from him.
aag dono taraf barabar hai. Only that abhi has upper hand and Simi is pressured from every where and desperate at the moment.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have a different interpretation, actually. I think Simi is afraid of her feelings for Abhi and therefore subconsciously tries to distance herself from him by treating him coldly. Manju has successfully convinced her that at 28, she is "old" and past her prime. Consequently, she feels that Abhi is significantly younger than she is, and it intimidates her. She does not want to let him get too close. Notice how whenever Abhi points out her mistakes, she gets defensive. She is wondering who this young boy is to tell her she is wrong? But the truth is Simi isn't as old as she thinks she is, and she has all the insecurities and naivete of a young woman to prove it. She wants to treat Abhi like a child, or a younger brother...but she can't help but see him as lover...and that conflict probably freaks her out. It is therefore best to put up a defense mechanism by acting coldly and trying to prevent Abhi from getting too close. If she showed him her concern, it might lead him to pursue her further, so she gets angry instead.

The fact that Abhi persists despite her behavior shows that he has already gotten closer to her than I think she is comfortable with. The most recent episode is the first time we really see Simi let down her guard and become totally vulnerable. It will be interesting to see how it progresses tomorrow.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rainabow

I have a different interpretation, actually. I think Simi is afraid of her feelings for Abhi and therefore subconsciously tries to distance herself from him by treating him coldly. Manju has successfully convinced her that at 28, she is "old" and past her prime. Consequently, she feels that Abhi is significantly younger than she is, and it intimidates her. She does not want to let him get too close. Notice how whenever Abhi points out her mistakes, she gets defensive. She is wondering who this young boy is to tell her she is wrong? But the truth is Simi isn't as old as she thinks she is, and she has all the insecurities and naivete of a young woman to prove it. She wants to treat Abhi like a child, or a younger brother...but she can't help but see him as lover...and that conflict probably freaks her out. It is therefore best to put up a defense mechanism by acting coldly and trying to prevent Abhi from getting too close. If she showed him her concern, it might lead him to pursue her further, so she gets angry instead.

The fact that Abhi persists despite her behavior shows that he has already gotten closer to her than I think she is comfortable with. The most recent episode is the first time we really see Simi let down her guard and become totally vulnerable. It will be interesting to see how it progresses tomorrow.

That is interesting and I must admit, it makes sense. But does Abhi has any feelings for her ... I wonder...
Cuz Simi does like him a lot more than she expected but I think Abhi takes all these things lightly...To him it's not a big deal that he holds her hands and wander around with her, but for Simi...It's a big deal. And she wouldn't want to admit her feelings, you're right...Cuz she thinks she's old and fat and what not =/ ..
But I really want Abhi to develop his feelings and really l-o-v-e her =3 Not just support her cuz she is one unique girl he came across ...
I don't even think Simi would ever admit the fact that she lvoes him or even tell him about him. And even if Abhi told her he loves her...Their family... And age and society >< Uhhh! So many problems, I wonder if nowadays India is the same ? Do these things really happen ?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lata

true i agree..........its only when the love factor comes in they act indifferent thinking that the other person would understand us.......hum usse zyaada chot pauchate hain jisse bahut zyaada pyar karte hain 😳..........but surely poor abhi.....what does he lack...am sure girls will be drooling over him but here he is being all concerned and worried about a girl much elder to him.........surely its Love Love and Love from both sides

I to feel abhi loves her and can't see her hurting by any one. But let us see what happens today. lots of factors are there first and formost pity 2nd she is ani'tas nanad who has helped her. par kainha khain simi ne bhi abhi pe dil pe jado chala diiya hai. Abhi himself admitted he liked 12th grade girls when he was in 9th grade.
He probabely likes more mature woman becuas ehe himself is very mature for his age.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rainabow

I have a different interpretation, actually. I think Simi is afraid of her feelings for Abhi and therefore subconsciously tries to distance herself from him by treating him coldly. Manju has successfully convinced her that at 28, she is "old" and past her prime. Consequently, she feels that Abhi is significantly younger than she is, and it intimidates her. She does not want to let him get too close. Notice how whenever Abhi points out her mistakes, she gets defensive. She is wondering who this young boy is to tell her she is wrong? But the truth is Simi isn't as old as she thinks she is, and she has all the insecurities and naivete of a young woman to prove it. She wants to treat Abhi like a child, or a younger brother...but she can't help but see him as lover...and that conflict probably freaks her out. It is therefore best to put up a defense mechanism by acting coldly and trying to prevent Abhi from getting too close. If she showed him her concern, it might lead him to pursue her further, so she gets angry instead.

The fact that Abhi persists despite her behavior shows that he has already gotten closer to her than I think she is comfortable with. The most recent episode is the first time we really see Simi let down her guard and become totally vulnerable. It will be interesting to see how it progresses tomorrow.

She is totally vunerable at this time and sees Abhi is her last resort who can rescue her from teh humiliation and anguish the day has put her into. Desperate ppl can do anything,

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