I strongly believe that you learn from personal experiences, watching others at work. Making mistakes of your own is a part of the process. Mistakes help us grow and redefine our goals, aspirations and even activities, or reroute like Abir pointed to Kunal yesterday while one continues to live and move on. The beautiful scene at the NGO was homely, subtly intimate despite the hurt and sorrow, romantic and the baby that visited was the ultimate cherry on the yummy cake that was Mishbir covered with the icing of love.
Happiness often sneaks in through the door you didn’t know that you left open
Iam a dog person and I have always believed that more than people, they care and know howto love. Dogs come to you instinctively, understanding when you are sad and give you the unconditional and selfless, loyal love that even Meenu doesn’t understand, as a human.
A dog is a miracle with paws and he loves you more than you love yourself.
I was elated when Mishti and Abir had a beautiful addition to their family. @chirpee_toree calls their miracle, Muffin so Muffin it is. The other ‘M-s’ Mihir and Misha, Mishti and Abir can add along as they progress further and together with Mishtilicious Mumma and Abirilicious Papa they will be the colorful M&M family.
The beauty and sunshine that is Mishti Rajvansh is brought to the limelight today yet again.She broke, she shattered but she picked herself up and contemplates on looking at what she has, rather than her loss. Despite her sorrow and pain, she still cares and wants to share what she has, because "Self-sacrifice is the real miracle out of which all the reported miracles grow", the miracle that is her birth and extended family.
Looking up to her sun that is Abir, she looks up to bask in his love and warmth. Of course, naturally the shadows will be left behind. You do not find a happy life; you create it and happiness comes from within you. This is why Abir and Mishti can survive and rule any situation and any person. “He who has a firm will, moulds the world to himself.” They have sunshine on a cloudy day and when its cold outside they still have the month of May. Now, she has also become Abir’s Bholi Angry Chorni.
Doesn’t meant hey do not have demons inside of them. They do not feed the demon but instead cater to the angels inside them. Fools rush in where angels fear to tread, Meenu is the former and she rushed to capitalize not caring about who she will hurt what she will trample first to the Maheshwari Sadan. Thank God BP walked in.
“Better be unborn than untaught
For ignorance is the root of misfortune
When an elephant fights back Meenu, the grass gets hurt and you are one mad elephant running amuck in the “waaris” shop. BP rightly said buddhi Phir jaati Hai. You don’t have an iota of love for your sons at all. Meenu’s demons are her status, power, Rajvansh name and heir and she feeds off it and exhilarates feeding off it. This is a drug to her existence - “Yeh naam, parivaar business…” and all that she has created, is on the vile foundation of secrets, hate, anger, treachery. I reiterate a song that I learnt in my kindergarten days which I wrote in one of my articles before.
The wise man built his house upon the rock
And the rains came tumbling down
The rains came down and the floods came up
And the house on the rock stood firm
The foolish man built his house upon the sand
And the rains came tumbling down
The rains came down and the floods came up
And the foolish man's house went "splat!"
Meenu is the foolish one and, as the wise man BP points out beautifully that her Rajvansh Sadan is a Khokli Imaarat.
House is built with two hands and has bricks and beams, but a home is built with a heart and has hopes and dreams.
A four-horse team cannot overtake the tongue and Meenakshi Rajvansh’s tongue was on a total rampage today. The worst blow clincher is still a tie between Abir and BP but I would side with Abir because BP always knew what scum Meenakshi is. To recall his dialog,
“Mausam ho ya insaan
Jo roz badalti hai
Uss par hum vishwaas nahin kar saktey
Aur meenakshiji par hum bilkul
vishwaas nahin karte” (Episode 84)
I think this is Meenu’s ulterior plan to get Mishbir to agree to surrogacy where she first threatens Abir with remarriage, then by threatening Mishti with that letter about offing herself, also kicking her out of Rajvansh Sadan. BP’s altercation with Meenu was lit. He stated the facts and normally despite being a calm man we could feel all his fury because it’s his daughter, her life and also his son. Every Ogre meets his/her Nemesis and Meenu met hers today where she was tossed out of the Rajvansh Sadan with the truth serum in her own language issued as a warning by BP. Before any evil is put out it still rises and fights and so did Meenu.
Finally, Mishti will have no choice but beg Kuhu to surrogacy – our worst nightmare coming true. Good people are like candles; they burn themselves so that others can see the light. Mishti’s middle name is “sacrifice”. If people doubt her about how far she can go, she will go so far that they cannot hear her.
If she wants Abir to fly, she will even sacrifice herself because her presence at RV Sadan, with her inability to bear heirs will weigh him down. Abir’s “Tum mujse dur jaane ki koshish karo….,” really is a foreboding of all kinds. That will kill Abir but right now Mishti is immensely stressed and feels guilty and her actions are going to be irrational.
Either Mishti begs and if Kuhu refuses, Mishti moves away from Abir physically and emotionally (without divorce) because it means so much to Meenu and her Meanness. The situation would be a Khichdi of all kinds, which Abir was eating before in the absence of Mishti and we will be eating it and shedding tears simultaneously watching the future episodes.
One drop of hatred in the cup of joy turns even the most blissful draught into venom. In every shining moment of happiness is that drop of poison: the knowledge that pain will come again. I had used it earlier to define Kuhu but today that is Meenakshi Rajvansh and is she a mother? How is she Abir’s mom is the more important question here? Where instead of one baby that he couldn’t have, he gets ready to save with Mishti thousands through his NGO and here a mother who is hell bent on destroying her son.
Today, she broke her son’s trust and heart and yanked the rug called sympathy and love from right under his feet while he watched her expression and action, in shock and consternation and established herself to be the deviant, conniving and sneaky and poisonous snake that she has always been – a dabbha on mothers and motherhood.
“No matter how much a snake sheds its skin, it’s still a snake.”
When you are a good person you don’t lose people. People lose you.
You’ll lose Abir Meenakshi Rajvansh, just like Mishti pointed out and though Kunal calls you his maa and loves you immensely, we know now that you never considered him yours if that Raja beta comment that you made is true. So technically you have lost him too and will break his trust and love too.
You wore this mask with sorrow and lies
It hid your selfishness and shaded your eyes
This debt you pay to human guile
With torn and bleeding hearts it made us smile…Abir trusted you with his most painful revelation. When you gave him your support, he thought that you had changed for the better. Today, you dealt him the unkindest most treacherous cut of all. The frog does not drink up the pond in which it lives and you have done exactly that – You are all alone like BP pointed out today and Abir too said before “Par aapke saat kaun khada hoga Maa”, when you asked him to leave Mishti.
Abir has forgiven you time and time again not because he is weak but because he is strong enough to forgive and knows that people make mistakes. Yet you go on and on - “ Vinashakale vipareetha buddhi Meenu ”, is what Naanu would tell you if he were here.
“All ambitions and actions are lawful except those which are built to climb upward on the miseries or credulities of another man/woman.”
And what’s with the Raja beta comment? Agreed, Abir has kingly qualities and ironically none of them came genetically from Mehul or you. You, Meenu have tested the depth of the waaris river with both feet and you are going to slip and drown. Meenakshi Rajvansh “KARMA HAS NO MENU; YOU GET SERVED WHAT YOU DESERVE.”
There is a storm that brews inside Abir now.
The devil that threatens him is Meenu that’s challenging him with “YOU CANNOT WITHSTAND THE STORM.”
Abir is a warrior and his reply tomorrow will be: “I AM THE STORM.”
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