Biggest problem in MiKu relationship

MiKu ie mishti and kuhu, are not bad people. Mishti is too mature and kuhu lacks some maturity (im not gonna say she is inmature because i dont think thats true) ..

The biggest problem in their relationship is that they dont talk to eachother. They dont communicate.

Both of them are guilty of it.

Kuhu bottles her feelings inside about feeling sidelined and i get that she feels so because mishti is the perfect daughter.. the daughter that came into kuhu and her perfect family where she was the center of attention. Mishti tool that centered attention away.

Mishti feels for kuhu as well and rather than speak to eachother about how they feel ie mishti feeling bullied by kuhu and kuhu feeling sidelined they dnt have an honest convo.. they just fight. They yell and fight like immature sisters.

Kuhu does care for mishti she does whether people agree or disagree. Whether its care out of genuine love or care cause mishti is a family member or someone thats been in her life for a long time whom she shares a room with.. i dnt know.

If both of them were to talk honestly then neither would feel the need to sneak behind each others backs whether its to help or cause problems.

Mishti WAS NOT justified in sneaking through kuhus things. She may have been trying to help but she needs to learn to mind her own business as well. She only creates more problems for herself in trying to help.

Likewise kuhu has to be more open to help and stop feeling like she has to handle everything alone or that no one would understand, care, or help her.

Just TALK to eachother, to someone else, and be more open. Im frankly sick of their immature relationship with eachother. They dnt grow. In all other relationships they are highly mature. Both of them. But with eachother they act like 5 year olds. Both of them.

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Totally on point. I loved where their relationship had reached right before the leap because they were actually behaving their age but it's all gone downhill since then. Would love to see some sister bonding soon!

Interesting...

But On the contrary I think both the girls should shut up and stop talking to each other at all.😆. Not get into each other's business either.. 😆May be silence, absence and time itself can lead up to a better equation between them..

I said it in another post as well that Kuhu's anger is misdirected.. Invading privacy can become an interesting debate but it's not the only thing Kuhu blames mishti for.. In fact I wonder had other things been settled who knows this might not have been such issue in this particular case ...She is quite irritated with her which she herself accepted.. They can and should definitely communicate their feelings to someone, but I don't know if they consider each other worthy of sharing their feelings.. For Kuhu, the planet Earth belongs to her and Mishti is the cause of every possible wrong that is happening on this planet.. 😆 Why would you share Ur feelings with someone whom u consider as the source of all problems.. I used to feel Kuhu can probably share her feelings to Varsha... But then Varsha herself keeps on giving confused looks when Jasmeet blabber about Mishti being a home breaker.. Each time Jameet tells her this, her expressions are as if Jasmeet has said it for the first time and she is quite surprised.. She is a good person, perhaps that is the reason she does not reflect her insecurities in her decision making and so far has managed to not get brain washed.. But what disappoints me that somewhere deep down she does buy the argument that Mishti will do wrong in Kuhu's life.. There has to be someone who has to tell Kuhu to hold people accountable for the right reasons.. Otherwise holding grudge will never let her live in peace.. Kunal and Meenu and nobody else is responsible for the situation she has landed up in.... Fair enough that she hates Mishti because she became the reason, but why can't she hate both these two gems of Rajvansh family with the same intensity as she hates Mishti.. At least agar Mishti ko char baatein sunai hain toh do baatein jaakar Meenu ko bhi suna do... 😎 phir Meenu ki planning aur plotting se bach kar bhi dikha do... Unless this goes from her nature, I don't think there is any scope for MishKu.. I mean Mishti is a human being, on top of that she is surrounded by epitome of irrational people and on top of that she is an ITV female lead.. 🤓 Kuch na kuch to usse hamesha hota rahega.. Tomorrow if Mishti asks jugnu to go buy vegetables and jugnu ends up falling in love at first side on the road and forgets to come back, because of which an important dinner meeting at home gets cancelled.. Also after that Kunal looses his deal, Meenu gets an heart attack and falls from stairs and Kunal shouts on Kuhu, is it fair for to blame Mishti for everything that conspired.. From jugnu falling in love to kunal loosing his deal to Meenu getting heart attack.. Bhai iska koi illaaj nahi.... Life hai.. TV show hai... kuch na kuch toh hota hi rahega... 😆

As far as Mishti is concerned uski aadat nahi jaane waali.. The more Kuhu tells her to stay out, being an ITV FL the more she will help her.. She reminds me of an interaction between two estranged friends in "Suspicious Partner" one of the friends kept asking for help and have cordial relations, but the other one kept on refusing.. And one day the first friend himself asked him to stay out of his case and not help him.. But later told him that now that the former has refused, he is dying to help him and he will help him no matter what... 🤣

Pata nahi Uska pyaar aur fikr kahan se umad rahi hai.. Mujhe toh aaj tak samajh nahi aaya.. In fact I am more clear about what Kuhu thinks about Mishti than about what mishti thinks about Kuhu.. Lol.. Matlab mujhe koi sir pair samjh hi nahi Aata koi banda kyn help karna chahega itna sunne ke baad.. Main toh kabhi na Karun... Btw, I am also a good human being and I have good intentions.😎. Still I won't taang adaofy where I am clearly not appreciated.. One thing I agree they both are mature when it comes to their relationship with other people but somehow something happens when it comes to each other.. In fact had they made Kuhu a little bit more sensitive and Mishti a bit more aggressive, they both would have looked way more human in the same situation, but here somehow one became devil incarnate and another one became God's avataar.. 😕🤡

Originally posted by: aquaHP

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Totally on point. I loved where their relationship had reached right before the leap because they were actually behaving their age but it's all gone downhill since then. Would love to see some sister bonding soon!

I think ek baar jum ke jhinga la la match ho jaana chahiye Kuhu aur Mishti ke beech mein.. They should pull each other's hair and throw each other on the ground... They can have sword fighting and boxing as well.. Yeh beech beech mein drops of concern dikha ke kyon hopes dete hain Hume.. Ek baat dangal kar lo baad mein dekh jayega kya relationship rakhna hai.. Although I feel after seeing all that Abir and Kunal might reconsider about their overflowing love for the lovely sisters.. ❤️

Originally posted by: ZindagiCalling

I think ek baar jum ke jhinga la la match ho jaana chahiye Kuhu aur Mishti ke beech mein.. They should pull each other's hair and throw each other on the ground... They can have sword fighting and boxing as well.. Yeh beech beech mein drops of concern dikha ke kyon hopes dete hain Hume.. Ek baat dangal kar lo baad mein dekh jayega kya relationship rakhna hai.. Although I feel after seeing all that Abir and Kunal might reconsider about their overflowing love for the lovely sisters.. ❤️

I also think the same. Ho hi jaaye ek baar khullam khulla saari baat because their relationship confuses me too many a times. It would be great if we were to get a clear backstory of the two.

Regarding Kuhu not taking it out on Kunal and Meenu and behaving like a sorted bahu in the RV household and her relationship with Varsha, you should check the KuKu AT, @samanalyses wrote an explanation from her POV today and it's beautifully written. Don't think the writers even thought that much.

@ZindagiCalling were you referring to the Korean Drama "Suspicious Partner"?

I've been saying that they should have it out with each since forever. Makers! If you're listening we have a full proof idea on how increase your trp's.

Originally posted by: PureDrivenSnow

I've been saying that they should have it out with each since forever. Makers! If you're listening we have a full proof idea on how increase your trp's.

I think most of us want that but TRP ke baad episodes bhi to banaane honge na unhe. How will they do that without 2 women fighting each other day in and day out? Have the makers not heard about female solidarity?? It's in fashion right now. They should try it.

@ zindagicalling - Not only Varsha looking confused, even the Mahs acti like it is the first time Jaz has spewed evil! The other day they admitted she had been calling Misti 'adopted' for as long as she had come. I mean if I adopted a child I would take that person aside and firmly tell them to never ever say that again.😵

@puredrivensnow - a boxing match between the two sisters-cum- sisters in law?!🤣 you can imagine the grudge Kuhu will hold, how meenu will come running with a pair of velvet covered knuckledusters to 'help' kuhu...

Nah, the whole point of the fractured relationship between the two is to show where they are and where they will be at the end of it - the tag yeh rishtey comes into play and is shown repeatedly. Also sadly in real life lot of people have conflict with someone near and dear and it stays throughout life. Though this show is produced by a well know producer who is gungho about family, togetherness and etc so we can assume the two girls will soon be bff's.😃

Also the tag given to each character is shown to become believable to that person as time goes - true to real life as well. If someone is told they are being childish/immature, even they will start to believe that and may have trouble expressing the things that is important to them whereas they can be confident as hell in every other aspect of their life. Same with constantly called 'adopted', outsider, homebreaker and etc that that person will believe it no matter how much love is showered, how much importance is given to them because deep down they will believe I am an outsider...esp if your parents walk way you will also have a low opinon of your worth to the people around you and when someone loves you, you will question why? ...so I see some of that with Mishti and Kuhu, who actually have same beginnings but because of their nurture and environment have different outlook of life. You can actually apply the age old debate of nurtue v nature here....

Originally posted by: ZindagiCalling

I think ek baar jum ke jhinga la la match ho jaana chahiye Kuhu aur Mishti ke beech mein.. They should pull each other's hair and throw each other on the ground... They can have sword fighting and boxing as well.. Yeh beech beech mein drops of concern dikha ke kyon hopes dete hain Hume.. Ek baat dangal kar lo baad mein dekh jayega kya relationship rakhna hai.. Although I feel after seeing all that Abir and Kunal might reconsider about their overflowing love for the lovely sisters.. ❤️

@ bold - both those guys are so much in love they will be like 'aww the sisters love one another so much, come lets do wrestling as well!'🤣

Honestly though they all know the two sisters do not get on - remember, Meenu used that to get Kunal to use Kuhu to make Mishti look bad/breaker of marriages/homes/the universe! - so I am actually bit surprised Abir or even kunal has not addressed this yet. I guess maybe a track is coming somewhere over the horizon in-between all the drama...or maybe writers have left their brains somewhere as usual and just doing patch up work based on what the hardcore fans want (cannot have failed to notice suddenly some dialogues/scenes being shown because of popular demand😛 whether it makes sense from story point or not).😛