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Arohi

@made-in-charms

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Posted: 6 years ago

* SPOILER 28TH MARCH *

Meenakshi speaking on behalf of Kunal is wrong.

She is noone to decide whether he's ready for marriage or not but Abeer is being pushy as well.

What I feel is , Kunal's heartbreak was kind of compressed under work load. He isn't over his ex , people need time to heal 'on their own' not by indulging themselves into work.

I felt Abeer is being too pushy , even in the precap , he & mishti are teaming up for uniting Kunal-Kuhu , I mean practice what you preach. Let Kunal decide for himself , let him speak , it looks like Kunal is just a Prop or voh kya kehte hain ? Haa Bali ka Bakhra for carrying out their Abeer vs Meenakshi agenda.

They're behaving as if Kuhu is the only girl on this planet who will be able to make Kunal happy.

Kunal is still young , he has enough time to choose his life partner by himself , why push him into an arrange marriage this early ?

In the Holi party Kunal did not even speak to Kuhu but Kuhu might/will definitely agree to the alliance and will also try hard to impress Kunal since she thinks.. ' well banda hot hain '.

If this is the case Kuhu is definitely not the one for Kunal.

But much to our expectations Kunal-Kuhu marriage is serving as the backdrop for Mishti-Abeer which I am happy for.

EDIT : What I want is a real bro talk between Abeer and Kunal about whether Kunal is really ready for marriage or not.

Because the ways abeer & nanu are opting for to let kunal kuhu meet is pointless , rishta dance , then bhang ka nasha and now kidnapping ?

This is not how you fix a marriage alliance , let him decide for himself if he is open to marriage or not.

Edited by made-in-charms - 6 years ago

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Posted: 6 years ago

Meenakshi has been taking decisions on behalf of Kunal till now ..all Abir and Nani are trying to do is give Kunal a chance to decide for himself ...they are not forcing him to marry Kuhu or anyone ...Abir wants to hear from Kunal whether he is ready to marry or not .

Until now we haven't seen anything which indicates Kunal has not moved on ..Kunal might not be bold enough to ask his mom to look for a gal or find a girl himself

Abir and Nani are concerned about Kunal and no they don't believe Kuhu is the only girl on earth .If not for Abir Meenakshi would have never given a chance for Kunal to meet any girl until she found someone according to her likes

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Arohi

@made-in-charms

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: yyy
Meenakshi has been taking decisions on behalf of Kunal till now ..all Abir and Nani are trying to do is give Kunal a chance to decide for himself ...they are not forcing him to marry Kuhu or anyone ...Abir wants to hear from Kunal whether he is ready to marry or not .
Until now we haven't seen anything which indicates Kunal has not moved on ..Kunal might not be bold enough to ask his mom to look for a gal or find a girl himself

Abir and Nani are concerned about Kunal and no they don't believe Kuhu is the only girl on earth .If not for Abir Meenakshi would have never given a chance for Kunal to meet any girl until she found someone according to her likes

And how can Abeer & Nanu be so certain that Kunal wants to get married this early ?

Did they ask Kunal ?

@bold It did seem to me like that since Nanu was jumping on fixing the marriage the day kunal kuhu met , that's no how it works. As for Abeer he and Mishti are teaming up for kunal-kuhu marriage which is plane wrong considering kunal has said nothing yet.

Secondly is the marriage the solution to happiness ? Its not. Even if it is then Kunal has the right to choose someone for himself on his own , he shouldn't be pushed into arrange marriage neither by meenakshi nor by nanu or abeer unless he says it himself that too at a certain age.

Will have to wait for tomorrow before concluding anything though but as of now I felt abeer nanu and meenakshi are unintentionally/intentionally throwing their decisions on kunal.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: made-in-charms

And how can Abeer & Nanu be so certain that Kunal wants to get married this early ?
Did they ask Kunal ?
@bold It did seem to me like that since Nanu was jumping on fixing the marriage the day kunal kuhu met , that's no how it works. As for Abeer he and Mishti are teaming up for kunal-kuhu marriage which is plane wrong considering kunal has said nothing yet.
Secondly is the marriage the solution to happiness ? Its not. Even if it is then Kunal has the right to choose someone for himself on his own , he shouldn't be pushed into arrange marriage neither by meenakshi nor by nanu or abeer unless he says it himself that too at a certain age.

Will have to wait for tomorrow before concluding anything though but as of now I felt abeer nanu and meenakshi are unintentionally/intentionally throwing their decisions on kunal.

If he is not interested all Kunal has to say is No ...even after that if Abir forces him then he is being pushy otherwise I don't see Abir forcing Kunal to marry .

Has Kunal anytime said he is not ready to marry ? When they were talking about the alliance a day before Holi why didn't Kunal protest against the proposal ? He could have easily said No but he was silent which means he is open to meeting the girl .

There is nothing wrong in arranging the marriage if the guy/gal has no issues with it and if Kunal has issues Abir will be the first one to support him unlike Meenakshi who wanted to reject a girl for silly reason without letting Kunal meet the girl

Precautions doesn't say anything much ...I am guessing they might bring Kunal and Kuhu in one place so that they can meet and in the end leave it to Kunal to decide .

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InaMeenaDika

@InaMeenaDika

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Posted: 6 years ago

Abir wants Kunal and Kuhu to talk to each other in private and then decide, instead of Meenakshi outrightly rejecting the alliance. Till here I find it ok. What I find hilarious, are his and Nanu's ways of making the two people meet.🤣. I mean first the put bhaang in his coffee and makes him meet the girl in inebriated state. Tomorrow, I suppose he will be kidnapped by them to meet Kuhu.. I mean come on.. Normal people would just require them to meet at a nice restaurant and let them talk, instead of creating such dramatic meetings. In any other situation, a person would reject the proposal out of fear.. 😆But since it's dramaland so everything will be ok after ofcourse some drama.. 😆

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: ZindagiCalling
Abir wants Kunal and Kuhu to talk to each other in private and then decide, instead of Meenakshi outrightly rejecting the alliance. Till here I find it ok. What I find hilarious, are his and Nanu's ways of making the two people meet. 🤣. I mean first the put bhaang in his coffee and makes him meet the girl in inebriated state. Tomorrow, I suppose he will be kidnapped by them to meet Kuhu.. I mean come on.. Normal people would just require them to meet at a nice restaurant and let them talk, instead of creating such dramatic meetings. In any other situation, a person would reject the proposal out of fear.. 😆But since it's dramaland so everything will be ok after ofcourse some drama.. 😆

Aree nahiii.. i think Mishti ke dad ne Kunal ko Abir samajh ke kidnap kia hai 😆

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Arohi

@made-in-charms

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: yyy

If he is not interested all Kunal has to say is No ...even after that if Abir forces him then he is being pushy otherwise I don't see Abir forcing Kunal to marry .

Has Kunal anytime said he is not ready to marry ? When they were talking about the alliance a day before Holi why didn't Kunal protest against the proposal ? He could have easily said No but he was silent which means he is open to meeting the girl .

There is nothing wrong in arranging the marriage if the guy/gal has no issues with it and if Kunal has issues Abir will be the first one to support him unlike Meenakshi who wanted to reject a girl for silly reason without letting Kunal meet the girl

Precautions doesn't say anything much ...I am guessing they might bring Kunal and Kuhu in one place so that they can meet and in the end leave it to Kunal to decide .

I think the problem is the makers are not giving Kunal enough 'real' screenspace , what does he think about the proposal should have been shown to us.

Dude I hate Meenakshi , she just imposes her decisions on Kunal's which is so wrong.

Abir will support him if Kunal says No ! definitely i have faith on him.

Kunal has been manipulated for quite a good amount of time so i felt he might have lost his ability to speak for himself , ha bhi nahi , na bhi nahi !

I mean look at mishti , the rishta song was played and she didn't say anything ( not a real talk ) about what she felt. Kuhu was shown to be happy with it but Mishti wanted to know the guy before marriage. But did she say it out aloud ?No na !

Similarly Kunal might have things to say about this proposal but he's not able to speak for himself for some reason.

I just think before jumping to this alliance thingy , kunal and abir should have had a real bro talk about whether he really wants to get married or not ? ( not that hilarious rishta dance )

And Nanu did jump into fixing the alliance which was wrong on his part.

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Arohi

@made-in-charms

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: ZindagiCalling
Abir wants Kunal and Kuhu to talk to each other in private and then decide, instead of Meenakshi outrightly rejecting the alliance. Till here I find it ok. What I find hilarious, are his and Nanu's ways of making the two people meet.🤣. I mean first the put bhaang in his coffee and makes him meet the girl in inebriated state. Tomorrow, I suppose he will be kidnapped by them to meet Kuhu.. I mean come on.. Normal people would just require them to meet at a nice restaurant and let them talk, instead of creating such dramatic meetings. In any other situation, a person would reject the proposal out of fear.. 😆But since it's dramaland so everything will be ok after ofcourse some drama.. 😆

Exactly this is one of the reasons. Let Kunal be in a concious state , let him decide for himself that way.

Who does this antics ?How would he be able to decide when he's practically on bhang ka nasha and then kidnapping ?

The real point of my post is Abeer and Kunal should have a real talk about the alliance , the rishta dance , the bhang ka nesha and now kidnapping is pointless.

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InaMeenaDika

@InaMeenaDika

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: made-in-charms

Exactly this is one of the reasons. Let Kunal be in a concious state , let him decide for himself that way.
Who does this antics ?How would he be able to decide when he's practically on bhang ka nasha and then kidnapping ?

The real point of my post is Abeer and Kunal should have a real talk about the alliance , the rishta dance , the bhang ka nesha and now kidnapping is pointless.

😆

Although I don't really have any hopes that they will have some real talks, but yes that's how it should be. Not only Abir and Nanu should have talked to Kunal, but Kunal and Abir should have talked to Ketki as well. Somewhere both these characters Kunal and Ketki have shown to be taking decisions under Meenakshi's ifluence and manipulations. Abir and to some extent Nanu are the only people to understand this but they are not really doing anything substantial to counter it..😆