Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
Illegitimate is an outdated term and only used to belittle people. It basically means "NAJAYAAZ which again is an offensive term. Whether she was born in and out of wedlock isn't really the big deal since she is still related to everyone there , just like she would have been if was born in a wedlock. I just think people should stop using terms like illegitimate and NAJAYAAZ to define someone.
And moreover, I don't have to justify the sense I wrote the word in, but the fact of the matter is that the both the words illegitimate and Nayjayaaz are just words. It's the people who attach meanings to them. Ba*tard isn't an abuse from it's origin but it is we, the people who make it one. As far as I am concerned, I have never used the term as that of a derogatory tone. That makes you right, that people who use it to belittle someone, should stop using it. But since I didn't, I won't.
Illegitimate is as normal as legitimate IMO so I will not have anyone randomly impose any kind of an accusation on me.