Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 22 Mar 2025 Written Update and EDT - Page 8

How is Rohit’s loaning and then taking his baby back even relevant to this discussion …I mean Ruhi running after Armaan even after her husband returned from the dead and she promised to give her marriage a chance is not a red flag ..and Abhira being unaware of Rohit’s involvement in the baby swap is the deal-breaker 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I despised didi and she did helluva kaands to be the surrogate. Yet I don’t remember people saying didi should miscarry because the baby was positioned as lead couple’s last ray of hope.

Isn’t the same positioning? We know Abhira will give birth to a child but Ruhi miscarrying is basically Abhimaan losing ANOTHER child.

Yeah pakhi was a criminal.. she did the surrogacy by using crime in every step . Threatening the intended surrogate , lying to the parents , stealthily using IVF .. and continued to threaten Sai .. her intention from start to the end was crime and more crime ..

Still they made the surrogacy go through.

Over here 4 people in the family have mutually decided this .. Rohit n Ruhi have themselves proposed the idea ..

Armaan and Abhira have thought about it .. and without any external influence have accepted it ..

both couples are adults . Shivani , Kaveri and Vidya , Madhav plus the Goenkas have had no awareness about this

This is the first time .. yeh rishta has done something mature and progressive.. I rather hope it succeeds well so that families think about it and help each other .. rather than taking potshots at each other

I really hope Rohit , Ruhi and Daksh all survive happily and give Abhimaan a healthy child .. what happens later after the baby is given to them can be dictated by TRP pressures . But give a good message

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

How is Rohit’s loaning and then taking his baby back even relevant to this discussion …I mean Ruhi running after Armaan even after her husband returned from the dead and she promised to give her marriage a chance is not a red flag ..and Abhira being unaware of Rohit’s involvement in the baby swap is the deal-breaker 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is this in response to a let's blame Armaan post, even though it's Abhira who's convincing him for the surrogacy? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: ThePinkPanther

Is this in response to a let's blame Armaan post, even though it's Abhira who's convincing him for the surrogacy? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

Abhira’s desperation is convincing him ..that’s what the clip I saw conveyed ..he clearly says there are going to be consequences ..are you ready to deal with them …Armaan’s is a case of damned if you do damned if you don’t ..he’s either a toxic red flag who doesn’t respect his wife’s autonomy or he is the idiot who doesn’t put his foot down and override his wife’s decisions…bottomline ..he can never win 🤷🏻‍♀️

That's what majority of us understood from the clip.

Everything will always be Armaan's fault. That's a fact. Poor guy can never win, no matter what he does. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

Abhira’s desperation is convincing him ..that’s what the clip I saw conveyed ..he clearly says there are going to be consequences ..are you ready to deal with them …

She was telling him to rethink not because she was unsure. She was it surprised that Armaan said yes. And hence she wants him to be SURE of this surrogacy.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

You are absolutely right. I saw the whole episode. Also Abhira wanted this surrogacy. Armaan had reservations. Abhira only said no because she said ki BSP ke time pe we both were never on the same page and look what happened. I don’t want to take any chances. I am not going to go with whatever your decision is. (Even if it does not match with me is kinda understood.)

She was telling him to rethink not because she was unsure. She was it surprised that Armaan said yes. And hence she wants him to be SURE of this surrogacy.

See it’s always good to have apprehension over any major step any life .. don’t be over confident..

last time Abhira was super confident that she will be able to handle her BSP .. whatever the situation it only resulted in grief .. so if both are being apprehensive.. it is very normal than the regular badhai ho badhai over everything

Originally posted by: Aadi04

See it’s always good to have apprehension over any major step any life .. don’t be over confident..

last time Abhira was super confident that she will be able to handle her BSP .. whatever the situation it only resulted in grief .. so if both are being apprehensive.. it is very normal than the regular badhai ho badhai over everything

But yes ..like they say “ fools rush in where angels fear to tread “ ..so yes, it is always better to remain prepared for consequences when you’re taking a foolhardy step ..rather than imagine that all will be well !

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

this is a classic Aa bail mujhe maar situation ..I don’t even know what else to say

But yes ..like they say “ fools rush in where angels fear to tread “ ..so yes, it is always better to remain prepared for consequences when you’re taking a foolhardy step ..rather than imagine that all will be well !

They really don’t have a choice .. when they were seriously rich like in Poddars time .. they could have arranged a family to become their commercial surrogate.. it happens all the time ., I saw it first hand last year too .

Many ladies agree for a benefit of 1 cr plus .. that time they did not even think about it ..

That time only if they had told about surrogacy which has been shown for 10-15 years in Starplus to shut up Vidya and Kaveri .. that we will do surrogacy like Priyanka Chopra , Aamir khan , SRK

Vidya would have kept quiet and they could have found decent surrogates

now they are barely making ends meet .. so they have to go the honest way of getting surrogate within the family .. so who can be the candidate either Ruhi ( who fits the bill perfectly ) or Kiara ..

If Abhir tells Kiara be the surrogate for my sister n brother in law .. she will happily agree .. and use this as opportunity to secure Abhir’s love

Kiara does not have a baby of her own .. but Abhir can give her a baby .. tell Abhira to wait patiently for 2 years and then use Kiara as a surrogate

Originally posted by: Aadi04

I want the surrogacy to come out well because Ruhi is doing it with good intentions and has Rohit’s total support..

today also the 3 ( Armaan , Abhira and Rohit ) were already present .. Ruhi came running escaping from Kaveri’s clutches with Daksh in tow

This is a better attempt to white wash Ruhi than Vidya or Manish Goenka ever got ..

All are questioning her motive .. suwarna

So much water has flown over the bridge I don’t want the 🐓 story of Daksh being BSP … the ML’s family always had other older male kids .. so it’s ok .. if Daksh is the cousin brother

I rather have a redeemed Ruhi and a fresh new villain ..

today the most positive scene was all 4 being present and Matarani being present as witness .. the file went missing but it actually went for blessing to matarani .. both Ruhi and Rohit got it back as blessing from Matarani

Why should Matarani make any of the 4 people and their children suffer ..

I had problems with surrogacy in Ghum because it was done with criminal intention.. the planned surrogate was threatened..

Sai was bashed by goons and Pakhi did the surrogacy by deceit .. she always wanted to use the kid to throw Sai out of virat’s life .. and used the kid as a biological bomb ..

Pakhi succeeded in her plan .. but frankly till now whatever they are showing yeh rishta is very positive .. that’s exactly how families should step up and help each other .. this is a good message to Indian families to help the others in need ..and without any shame

I hope the process goes through decently … and no one is harmed .. neither Rohit , Ruhi Daksh nor Armaan Abhira and the foetus

People on X are simply immature. A few days ago, they wanted Daksh to be BSP because of his bond with Abhira, both on and off-screen. Now, they want Ruhi to miscarry. I don’t even bother reading such posts because, in the end, what matters is the direction the show takes and the positive things that come out of it.

Right now, all I want is for AbhiMaan to have a baby. Initially, even I wasn’t fully on board, but if both Armaan and Abhira want this, then they should have it. Adoption is a noble choice, but it’s not for everyone. Adopting a child and then failing to provide love and care is far worse. Remember Krishna from Gen 2? No one even knows what happened to her after Naira passed away—she probably ended up back in an ashram. We don’t want another child in this show to face the same fate.

Your perspective on surrogacy is understandable, especially when compared to the more negative portrayal in Ghum. It does seem like the show is attempting to present it in a positive light, focusing on family support rather than deceit or manipulation.

That said, skepticism about Ruhi’s motives is natural given her past actions. While she may have Rohit’s support and good intentions now, her history with Armaan and Abhira makes it difficult for some to trust her completely. If the show aims to redeem her, it needs to address those concerns (Akshara and Aarohi) in a way that feels organic rather than forced.

Also introducing a fresh villain rather than rehashing old conflicts could add new layers to the story. However, whether Ruhi’s redemption arc succeeds depends on how convincingly it’s handled—redemption should come with growth, accountability, and change, not just situational justification.

The spiritual symbolism of Matarani’s presence and the missing file being seen as a blessing is an interesting take. If the show continues to emphasize family unity and support without unnecessary negativity, it could indeed send a positive message. Hopefully, the surrogacy storyline unfolds with dignity, ensuring no one is harmed emotionally or physically.

On Swarna’s role—her concerns about Ruhi struggling to part with the baby after birth are valid, especially considering Ruhi’s emotional history and past attachment issues. However, if she truly wants peace in the family, she should also encourage Ruhi and Abhira to have a healthier relationship. Putting doubts in Abhira’s mind only creates unnecessary tension. If something positive is taking shape, the family should support it rather than planting seeds of distrust.