YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #104 - Page 109

Ye track agar armaan ke naam aur uske kuch bane k liye without Poddar name hai toh uspe focus kyu nahi karte ye writers?

OTT gareebi bhi dekhani hai aur vvv ko bhi, dono nahi chalega please

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

@bold let us not forget that Shivani is the victim here …and someone who’s slowly recovering her mental balance ..she genuinely feels indebted to Vidya because she thinks she took care of her son ..without realising that the son was in need of a mother only because his real one got taken away from him …so no, Shivani’s opinions are no justification for Abhira’s actions

Forgiveness is one thing ..but completely forgetting the committing of a crime is another …what Kaveri and Vidya committed is a crime .. :surely even a lawyer like Abhira should recognize that …so to whitewash the crime in the name of family and thirty year bond is neither expected of Abhira either at a human or a professional level …what does she want of Armaan .,that he should go back to Vidya ,..what of Shivani then ..is she doing right by Shivani in the process of pushing Armaan to forgive Vidya ..it has been two weeks ..surely wounds as these don’t heal in two weeks ..unless you’re Saif Ali Khan of course 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ouch on that last one

See I will not judge much just based on the BTS. But I will say that sometimes you just need to forgive & move on. Armaan is truly struggling in holding on to his anger with Vidya. He keeps lapsing back & has to keep reminding himself that he needs to be angry with Vidya. It's eating him more than anyone.

So my guess is that through this process, somewhere I feel Abhira wants to facilitate the healing process. She wants Armaan to maybe speak to Vidya, understand her POV & hopefully accept that usne jo kiya, woh galat hi sahi, but she had her reasons which were in no way related to Armaan. Armaan needs to move on. Either by forgiving Vidya & letting her go, or accepting that Vidya's choices were hers & he had nothing to do with how she has treated him all this while. Either way Armaan needs to move on and I hope my understanding is right that Abhira is helping him do just that.

Originally posted by: Fortnight

agar ek aur confrontation milega jisme he will raise the infertility point and everything he couldn't the first time then it's a great gift (for me)

Par agar maa ke saath hum saath saath hai karna chahte hai dono toh

Originally posted by: Observer007

Aps, I completely understand your POV, and you’re 100% right. But VVV doesn’t deserve a second chance-not even from her useless husband and son.

She has never acknowledged her mistakes when it comes to Armaan, Shivani, or Abhira. Not even once has she thought, I’m happy that Armaan got a chance to meet his real mom.

My issue with this milaap is that Abhira seems to have forgotten everything VVV did to her (even setting aside what she did to Armaan and Shivani, since Abhira wasn’t the direct victim). Meanwhile, VVV has never once recognized or accepted the wrongs she did to Abhira, including the crime of causing Abhir’s accident. I don’t know if she will ever take responsibility for her actions, especially regarding Armaan and Shivani.

Why does everyone feel that Abhira wants to give Vidya a second chance. Just because you forgive someone doesn't mean you give them a chance again to do what they have done with you before. Take for example what happened with Dadisa or Ruhi. After his confrontation with both of them, he always was wary of them & never allowed himself to get back into their manipulation again, coz he understood better. But those 2 people.were still in his life, all thanks to Abhira. Yahaan bhi wohi hai. Abhira wants to help Armaan get over with his baggage with Vidya, maybe forgive her & move on. Not forget. Not allow gwr the same power again. Not allow gwr any space in his life. Just move on from the pain he currently is in due to the betrayal

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Ouch on that last one

See I will not judge much just based on the BTS. But I will say that sometimes you just need to forgive & move on. Armaan is truly struggling in holding on to his anger with Vidya. He keeps lapsing back & has to keep reminding himself that he needs to be angry with Vidya. It's eating him more than anyone.

So my guess is that through this process, somewhere I feel Abhira wants to facilitate the healing process. She wants Armaan to maybe speak to Vidya, understand her POV & hopefully accept that usne jo kiya, woh galat hi sahi, but she had her reasons which were in no way related to Armaan. Armaan needs to move on. Either by forgiving Vidya & letting her go, or accepting that Vidya's choices were hers & he had nothing to do with how she has treated him all this while. Either way Armaan needs to move on and I hope my understanding is right that Abhira is helping him do just that.

I would love to see, but I am not expecting any further strong calling out of Vidya by Ar for what she did.... It is just going to be more of Vidya facial aerobics and Ab- Ar falling for her manipulations again and Ar slowly accepting her again.. Kv and Sanjay is being shown as the nemesis now, and they will ww Vidya... But I don't like this one bit..

Originally posted by: elizamerin

Wo time ke liye kabse wait kar rahi hain?Her jamaisa is seriously obsessed with Armaan and Abhira

You don't know. Unke jamaisa ka pehla pyaar is Armaan and Abhira is his sautan

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Ouch on that last one

See I will not judge much just based on the BTS. But I will say that sometimes you just need to forgive & move on. Armaan is truly struggling in holding on to his anger with Vidya. He keeps lapsing back & has to keep reminding himself that he needs to be angry with Vidya. It's eating him more than anyone.

So my guess is that through this process, somewhere I feel Abhira wants to facilitate the healing process. She wants Armaan to maybe speak to Vidya, understand her POV & hopefully accept that usne jo kiya, woh galat hi sahi, but she had her reasons which were in no way related to Armaan. Armaan needs to move on. Either by forgiving Vidya & letting her go, or accepting that Vidya's choices were hers & he had nothing to do with how she has treated him all this while. Either way Armaan needs to move on and I hope my understanding is right that Abhira is helping him do just that.

Should we encourage a victim to go meet an abuser for closure …at a time when the wounds are still raw …and whatever Abhira is doing is at the request of Vidya..it is not like she woke up one fine day and decided Armaan needs closure

I mean we remember even the dead for a year …Vidya is still alive ..so it is but normal that Armaan will recall..he recalled Abhira too after she left their house …

Vidya has been a huge part of his life and he loved her because he thought she had accepted him unconditionally ..forget love he worshipped her ..:now he knows at the base of that love was self-interest and manipulation ..he knows he has been wronged in the worst possible way ..when his wounds are still raw, will you allow him to heal slowly and find his feet ..make his life .,or will you push him to go meet his abuser ..I maintain that Kaveri is still better than Vidya ..Kaveri never pretended to be what she was not …or used Armaan without making it clear why or how 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Gooddays

exactly....I don't think Abhira patch up ki baat kar rahi hogi.....ek baar baat karke sort karne hi kar rahi hogi.....kyunki Armaan har din vv ki baatein anjaane mai kar raha hai so he is somewhere still feeling bad and unable move on....30+ years ka rishta farzi hi kyu na ho magar hai.....he has to forgive her to coz he needs to forget the past and move on to the finding himself mission.....

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Why does everyone feel that Abhira wants to give Vidya a second chance. Just because you forgive someone doesn't mean you give them a chance again to do what they have done with you before. Take for example what happened with Dadisa or Ruhi. After his confrontation with both of them, he always was wary of them & never allowed himself to get back into their manipulation again, coz he understood better. But those 2 people.were still in his life, all thanks to Abhira. Yahaan bhi wohi hai. Abhira wants to help Armaan get over with his baggage with Vidya, maybe forgive her & move on. Not forget. Not allow gwr the same power again. Not allow gwr any space in his life. Just move on from the pain he currently is in due to the betrayal