Why is so hard to admit both brothers are equally bad?

This is a legitimate question really. Why aren't both Poddar husbands being reflected as bad people and husbands equally.

1. Both Rohit and Armaan are equal partners in the crime of kidnapping of baby. If Armaan was 'forced' to take the baby, he should be more than happy to return the baby.

2. Both cheated their wives. One wife was forced to think that her baby died when he was alive while other is forced to live in the delusion that her baby is alive and was not allowed to grieve for her real baby.

3. Both 'fathers' did not take care of the baby when Abhira went to court. Both fathers are equally responsible as Abhira for putting the baby in danger. Both seem to think that the mother has sole responsibility of taking care of the baby- Armaan was 'forced' to sign Abhira's termination papers. I love how Armaan is constantly portrayed as a guy with no free will and can be so easily 'manipulated'

4. If Rohit is selfish for asking to take his baby and separating him from Abhimaan when they have gotten attached to the baby (but can't seem to dedicate enough time for the baby's care), why isn't Armaan selfish for separating Daksh from his real mother Ruhi.

Why is it so difficult to portray both Poddar brothers as the toxic husbands and fathers they are? Why can't YRKKH be progressive and show that it isn't wrong to get out of a toxic marriage? Toxic marriage does not merely constitute domestic violence etc. It's also when men cannot step up and be decent human beings and husbands.

But after today's epsiode, Armaan sa crossed all the limits of bachha chori..

Just because Abheera is happy with the baby and he thinks they are a family.. the baby belongs to them and they deserve the baby.

So cheap of him!!! He is the most disgusting and pathetic person.

I find both brothers equally bad. Both are selfish and their 'guilt' kicks in only conveniently at certain moments, but at other moments, they forget about their crime. Both are such hypocrites which is why it's so funny to watch them go against each other.

But I find Armaan more irritating. I can't stand a 30+ year old man's actions being excused under the guise of being forced to do things. What a convenient way to white-wash him.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

But after today's epsiode, Armaan sa crossed all the limits of bachha chori..

Just because Abheera is happy with the baby and he thinks they are a family.. the baby belongs to them and they deserve the baby.

So cheap of him!!! He is the most disgusting and pathetic person.

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

I find both brothers equally bad. Both are selfish and their 'guilt' kicks in only conveniently at certain moments, but at other moments, they forget about their crime. Both are such hypocrites which is why it's so funny to watch them go against each other.

But I find Armaan more irritating. I can't stand a 30+ year old man's actions being excused under the guise of being forced to do things. What a convenient way to white-wash him.

Exactly. Rohit is realizing his mistake, thanks to the Nurse and Abheera's actions.

But toffee sa, is so selfish that he cant see beyond Abheera. That baby was kidnapped because Abheera took the case. Anything would've happened to Daksh. But all he sees that Abheera saved him and she is happy with the baby. He is blind towards Ruhi and Rohit's pain and grief. And what kinda ML is this. He doesnt care about any of his family members anymore. Then why is he even in PH??

Offcourse both brothers are bad. Both did the crime of child trafficking. Just the beneficiary in this case happens to be from their own family(ie. Abheera).

Simple logic hai .

There are no morals amongst thieves .

If rohit can give his baby he can also demand him back if arman can take the baby he will have to give it back. There was no adoption procedure here..

Didn't he think about this when he accepted the baby ? Ke someday ruhi will wake up , she will ask for her baby , rohit can change his mind ? He very well knew ..

Both the brothers acted unlawfully . Their actions can never be justified

One simple reason he is Abhira's husband ...automatically he is purified ..

Till the time great servant ghatiyamaan continues to worship crazy circus clown he will be loved and praised.

Same goes for Papa Kidnapper. The moment he started questioning crazy circus clown and called out on her carelessness and dangerous stunts, he became the target of ghatiyamaan and clown's blind worshippers.

The moment ghatiyamaan will take a step back from worshipping the crazy circus clow, he will finally be prosecuted for all his crimes. But his major crime will be not worshipping the crazy circus clown.

Originally posted by: itsShonali

Till the time great servant ghatiyamaan continues to worship crazy circus clown he will be loved and praised.

Same goes for Papa Kidnapper. The moment he started questioning crazy circus clown and called out on her carelessness and dangerous stunts, he became the target of ghatiyamaan and clown's blind worshippers.

The moment ghatiyamaan will take a step back from worshipping the crazy circus clow, he will finally be prosecuted for all his crimes. But his major crime will be not worshipping the crazy circus clown.

Originally posted by: itsShonali

Till the time great servant ghatiyamaan continues to worship crazy circus clown he will be loved and praised.

Same goes for Papa Kidnapper. The moment he started questioning crazy circus clown and called out on her carelessness and dangerous stunts, he became the target of ghatiyamaan and clown's blind worshippers.

The moment ghatiyamaan will take a step back from worshipping the crazy circus clow, he will finally be prosecuted for all his crimes. But his major crime will be not worshipping the crazy circus clown.

Prosecuted toh koi bhi nahi hua multiple crimes karne ke baad, fir Armaan bhi kyun hoga???