Standing Ovation 👏 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Indira1211

family is abhiras weakness..she craves that so desperately that she actually loses her self respect and values and beliefs when it comes to family…and it shouldn’t be like that. A family whose love and affection is conditional and situational is not worth it..I wonder if we will ever see abhira realise that. Her mother akshu lived a happier more peaceful life when she was away from toxic family members ..I wonder if we will ever see abhimaan go that route 🤷🏻‍♀️

@bold family is not Abhira's weakness, it's her inability to love herself (the way she use to) and realize her self-worth that is making her take shit from the family. Abhira who didn't even think once or didn't shed a tear while leaving PH after deal reveal, is now willing to be humiliated and cursed merely for acceptance. It's not love for family it's imbibing other people's belief that she is worthless.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

family is abhiras weakness..she craves that so desperately that she actually loses her self respect and values and beliefs when it comes to family…and it shouldn’t be like that. A family whose love and affection is conditional and situational is not worth it..I wonder if we will ever see abhira realise that. Her mother akshu lived a happier more peaceful life when she was away from toxic family members ..I wonder if we will ever see abhimaan go that route 🤷🏻‍♀️

Family shouldn't be anybody weakness , it should be one's strength and when your own family becomes your weaknesses and you allow them to ruin your self respect and peace of mind then it shouldn't be worth to anyone.

You will never want to have your child to experience same toxic family and emotional abuse that once you had.

You have two option , stay away from poddars or don't give into their demands and bow down to them. Don't take their abuse for your own sanity .

Abhira had a third option too..after being humiliated countless numbers of times during shadi # 1 , she could just run away ..she was lucky to experience the would be married life & now It's a conscious choice..how is it wrong?

He was marrying ruhi ..why would she go and confess to him? He would've probably married ruhi &.dealt with the complications himself ..she would have had a better life..but for drama sake she had to be with poddars.

The reason I disliked madhav track so much was this ..he pulled her bk into the hell.hole now he doesn't care does he ? Arman pulled her bk , can he protect her dignity ? Abhira took the decision after 10 nakhre, even says mere pichle janam ke acha Karam the ke Arman mil gaya N here we all r saying abhira pe zulm hote hai ? Kahan hai bhai mujhe first class dikhti hai ye. She isn't looking for options ..

Thanks for making this thread!!

What they are showing this was my biggest concern to detach myself from the crap. This crappiest possible.

I said this during shrap episode, I won’t be able to take it if they show positive Vidya after Abhira is pregnant. This is the ultimate slap on women empowerment by the makers and channel of this show. If it was some other country probably there would have been viewers who would sue them by now.

You sll said enough and good points,writers please read this thread. You crossed all limits if making women’s life as regressive as possible. This is how you think not the viewers, rathe you are brainwashing many people.

Originally posted by: Serenity_me

Family shouldn't be anybody weakness , it should be one's strength and when your own family becomes your weaknesses and you allow them to ruin your self respect and peace of mind then it shouldn't be worth to anyone.

You will never want to have your child to experience same toxic family and emotional abuse that once you had.

You have two option , stay away from poddars or don't give into their demands and bow down to them. Don't take their abuse for your own sanity .

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold family is not Abhira's weakness, it's her inability to love herself (the way she use to) and realize her self-worth that is making her take shit from the family. Abhira who didn't even think once or didn't shed a tear while leaving PH after deal reveal, is now willing to be humiliated and cursed merely for acceptance. It's not love for family it's imbibing other people's belief that she is worthless.