Abhira’s Prayers 🙏

Yesterday looking at the tootha tara, Ab prayed ki bhale hi mera dil sau baar tood dijiye lekin V&M ke rishte ko bacha lijiye… today at temple her prayers were, Ar ke hisse ki saari dukh mere pass bhej dijiye and aap uski khushiyon ko dekh lijiye…. Akshara ne apni bachi ko sahi tarike se dua maangna nahi sikhaya hai kya🤔.. yese kaun pray karta hai bhai🤦‍♀️.. it’s one thing to pray good things for others and another to do so at the stake of being self destructive…

Abheera bacha, maine itne pyaar se thread banaya tha, that you emotionally manipulate people and play the victim card (like you know who).. and you also showed those traits a few weeks back…. lekin yeh kya hai🤦‍♀️.. jo khud keliye barbaadi ki dua maange woh kya kisi ko manipulate karegi… Bhagwan ke liye please don’t be dumb and mahan like your Amma…. marte marte kaand kar gayi… tumhe ek pagal ke sath shaadi karake pagalkaane bejh diya🤣

But seriously, it’s a crucial point, if now Ab doesn’t detach herself from this family and focus on her career, I can see her surpassing her mother in mahanta syndrome.... and itv mein mahan hone ka matlab, you take the dumbest decisions which ruins people’s lives and you will be guilt tripped for eternity… in sab se acha hai Ab kahi dur bhaag jaye…

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Neela hai hum, khatte karele ki jaise, aur agar ye Abhira sasti Upma banegi, toh isko bhi changge se troll karenge hum..

I know in every ITV show the FL is bound to be selfless mahaan sacrificial lamb but this time it's getting too much and annoying.

Abhira returns to Poddar house to save her in-laws marriage even though her MIL literally hates her like anything still she wants to save these oldies ka marriage.

She makes thanda nimbu pani for everyone and ends up getting humiliated by Dragonsa. I was like why Abhira why? Why do you have to be so mahaan? Your mahaanta has no value in this home.

Then she gives false statement in court to help Krish and also to save her in-laws marriage. This was typical 'apne hi pairo par kulhadi maarna' wala move. Though I fast forwarded that Abhimaan confrontation scene but I do feel Armaan's anger was justified to some extent.

Abhira is typical ITV FL who only lives for others and just loves being the sacrificial lamb for everything.

Mujhe kuch nahi chahiye... I got jolts immediately. That sacrifice costs much in story next. Ar ki dukh mujhe dedo his dukh is what we have to see usko khushiyan dedo ..ar prayed on diwali to God ruhi is his happiness. Next bit Vidya is asking dadi to hook ar ruhi as she wanted them in start , dadi flipped to Rohit. Rohit's prayers before he was gone to mata Rani mere bhayya aur ruhi ek ho jaye.Ruhi wanted her lost love and the one who left her back in life. Ar is blank he didn't know what to ask cvs are super smart there. Unknowingly abhira is uniting them with her prayers. Let see how it impacts in story.

Abhira ka character ab typical itv ki female lead jaisa dikh raha hai, sulking for husband’s love , kurbaani syndrome, jutha nafrat ka drama for husband , dil mai haa mooh pe naa in front of love of her life , moohtod jawab just to cry later in some kona and to leave examination hall later

Female lead hai show ki so aj nahi toh kal jaise taise lawyer bante usko dikha he denge but the thing is shaddi ke laddoo ko khane ke baad jaise career literally sidekick jaisa ho gaya hai jisko jaise taise sath le kar chalna padega otherwise heroine ambitious nahi dikhegi chahe forcefully ambitious he sahi!

Regarding her prayer, since uska character arc ab exactly upma type hota ja raha hai so self destructive way he upma style prayers bhi dikhayege. Muje toh ab abhira mai sai bhi nahi dikhti hai.

edited for bringing up 'upbringing' and 'genetics'

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

I know in every ITV show the FL is bound to be selfless mahaan sacrificial lamb but this time it's getting too much and annoying.

Abhira returns to Poddar house to save her in-laws marriage even though her MIL literally hates her like anything still she wants to save these oldies ka marriage.

She makes thanda nimbu pani for everyone and ends up getting humiliated by Dragonsa. I was like why Abhira why? Why do you have to be so mahaan? Your mahaanta has no value in this home.

Then she gives false statement in court to help Krish and also to save her in-laws marriage. This was typical 'apne hi pairo par kulhadi maarna' wala move. Though I fast forwarded that Abhimaan confrontation scene but I do feel Armaan's anger was justified to some extent.

Abhira is typical ITV FL who only lives for others and just loves being the sacrificial lamb for everything.

@bold exactly. It's not just this incident.

She knew armaan ka koi ladki hai. They could have shown her bit mature and sacrificing saying armaan you have someone waiting for you go you are free.

She loves him fine. But she also knows someone is hopeful for armaan. I felt they could have shown some scene where she feels bad for chitwali and tries to distance herself from armaan. But now it looks more like sab jaankar bhi apne pairo par khuladi mar li.

She got so many hints but she ignored everything.

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Yesterday looking at the tootha tara, Ab prayed ki bhale hi mera dil sau baar tood dijiye lekin V&M ke rishte ko bacha lijiye… today at temple her prayers were, Ar ke hisse ki saari dukh mere pass bhej dijiye and aap uski khushiyon ko dekh lijiye…. Akshara ne apni bachi ko sahi tarike se dua maangna nahi sikhaya hai kya🤔.. yese kaun pray karta hai bhai🤦‍♀️.. it’s one thing to pray good things for others and another to do so at the stake of being self destructive…

Abheera bacha, maine itne pyaar se thread banaya tha, that you emotionally manipulate people and play the victim card (like you know who).. and you also showed those traits a few weeks back…. lekin yeh kya hai🤦‍♀️.. jo khud keliye barbaadi ki dua maange woh kya kisi ko manipulate karegi… Bhagwan ke liye please don’t be dumb and mahan like your Amma…. Last gen walo ko bohat sar dard mila hai tumhari amma ki mahanta ke chalte😅.. aur iss gen bhi marte marte kaand kar gayi… tumhe ek pagal ke sath shaadi karake pagalkaane bejh diya🤣

But seriously, it’s a crucial point, if now Ab doesn’t detach herself from this family and focus on her career, I can see her surpassing her mother in mahanta syndrome.... and itv mein mahan hone ka matlab, you take the dumbest decisions which ruins people’s lives and you will be guilt tripped for eternity… in sab se acha hai Ab kahi dur bhaag jaye…

Dua mangna nahi sikhaya, khana banana bhi nahi, bus self victimization karo aata hai...

Naa leading Lawyer ki koi dost, naa approach na koi bhi aesa jo bachi ko rakhleta

Na bachi k liye koi FD, MF, account mein Paisa bhi nahi tha.

Na ghar...

Mujhe toh lgne lga hai Akshara kisi baat ka badla le rhi thi Abhira se bhi. 🤣🤣

Bhai aesa kaun krta hai apne bache k saath

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Abhira ka character ab typical itv ki female lead jaisa dikh raha hai, sulking for husband’s love , kurbaani syndrome, jutha nafrat ka drama for husband , dil mai haa mooh pe naa in front of love of her life , moohtod jawab just to cry later in some kona and to leave examination hall later

Female lead hai show ki so aj nahi toh kal jaise taise lawyer bante usko dikha he denge but the thing is shaddi ke laddoo ko khane ke baad jaise career literally sidekick jaisa ho gaya hai jisko jaise taise sath le kar chalna padega otherwise heroine ambitious nahi dikhegi chahe forcefully ambitious he sahi!

Regarding her prayer, since uska character arc ab exactly upma type hota ja raha hai so self destructive way he upma style prayers bhi dikhayege. Muje toh ab abhira mai sai bhi nahi dikhti hai.

Abhira mai ab sirf uski mumma and upma dikhti hai. Abhira ki mumma toh isse bhi zyada destructive way mai sacrifice karti thi and destruction kar ke nikal leti thi.
Jaise ema hereditary thing hai waise he destructive personality bhi hereditary he lagta hai

Exam nahi diya kya arey yaar kya lawyer bannegi re yeh 🤣🤣🤣

Honestly, the whole reason why she engages so much with the Poddars and wants to live with them is because she has always wanted a big family since she was deprived from it by her overly smart mother. I have faced such situations regarding family in real life hence I can understand her feelings and where she is coming from. However, I do not agree with her sacrificing her self respect just for a family. I also don’t have a normal family but it doesn’t mean that I’ll sacrifice my self respect just so a few idiots can accept me as their family. Why not focus on your career now and marry someone decent when the time is right and create a happy family with them. It’s that simple better than staying in a loveless marriage and being treated like a burden and humiliated on daily basis.

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Honestly, the whole reason why she engages so much with the Poddars and wants to live with them is because she has always wanted a big family since she was deprived from it by her overly smart mother. I have faced such situations regarding family in real life hence I can understand her feelings and where she is coming from. However, I do not agree with her sacrificing her self respect just for a family. I also don’t have a normal family but it doesn’t mean that I’ll sacrifice my self respect just so a few idiots can accept me as their family. Why not focus on your career now and marry someone decent when the time is right and create a happy family with them. It’s that simple better than staying in a loveless marriage and being treated like a burden and humiliated on daily basis.

Also isn't she just 22. College jaaye wahan koi mil jaayega par jaati hi nahi hai 🤣🤣