Posted: 2 years ago
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Reverting back to Abhimanyu's recent dialogue to Akshara in relation to Neil's death, did she apologize to his mother for it?


I have discussed it multiple times and every time I said that she didn't kill him, she is not a murderer but she was responsible for it. It was the police which came on time and saved those girls while Akshara was acting on impulse, they didn't have any plan or training to tackle goons, let alone a group of armed criminals involved in trafficking.


I don't know if I have told this story before if I have then sorry for boring you with it again. When I was 10 years old, I asked one of my cousins who was double my age and height to pick guavas for me from the tree in our backyard. He said we'll do it later but I insisted upon it and we went to the backyard to get the fruit, he reached out his hand to pluck a guava but a bee bit him. Everyone was tending to his wound and I felt terrible because I had insisted upon it, I took him there and because of me he had to go through the pain


I employ experience from my life while judging something, I see complete lack of empathy in Akshara towards Neil and his family who lost him, she was so consumed by her grief that loss of a life doesn't matter to her, her immediate reaction to it was apologizing to Neil so it was there but every time after it she was adamant on her stand that she wasn't wrong


I would have agreed she wasn't wrong if her fist fight with criminals was incidental to those criminals being apprehended by police, which it was not, police saved those girls and Akshara but none could save Neil so I don't buy the narrative that the life was lost for a greater cause, it wasn't

It was a stupid act by civilians to take matters in their hands which led to death of a civilian



Now, We have a parallel to that track. None understood Abhimanyu's pain and grief of losing his brother, none understood that he was lashing out in pain and frustration.


Nowadays, a family who lost their dear member is grieving and surpassing Abhimanyu in anger, they are abusing him physically


Why isn't Akshara employing the the calm demeanor she expected from Abhimanyu? We thought Akshara will lead by example and show the world, how she is different from Dr. Birla


Did Akshara kill Neil? No


Did Abhimanyu kill Abhinav? No


Do people who are reacting in anger believe that they are responsible? Yes



I don't blame Akshara or Abhinav's other family members for their reactions because I understand how people behave when they are hurt


My only expectations from Abhimanyu is that Akshara is behaving like him but he shouldn't behave like Akshara and apologize to Abhinav's family. It wasn't a murder but a life was lost, their pain is much bigger than your ego.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM

Reverting back to Abhimanyu's recent dialogue to Akshara in relation to Neil's death, did she apologize to her mother for it?


I have discussed it multiple times and every time I said that she didn't kill him, she is not a murderer but she was responsible for it. It was the police which came on time and saved those girls while Akshara was acting on impulse, they didn't have any plan or training to tackle goons, let alone a group of armed criminals involved in trafficking.


I don't know if I have told this story before if I have then sorry for boring you with it again. When I was 10 years old, I asked one of my cousins who was double my age and height to pick guavas for me from the tree in our backyard. He said we'll do it later but I insisted upon it and we went to the backyard to get the fruit, he reached out his hand to pluck a guava but a bee bit him. Everyone was tending to his wound and I felt terrible because I had insisted upon it, I took him there and because of me he had to go through the pain


I employ experience from my life while judging something, I see complete lack of empathy in Akshara towards Neil and his family who lost hum, she was so consumed by her grief that loss of a life doesn't matter to her, her immediate reaction to it was apologizing to Neil so it was there but every time after it she was adamant on her stand that she wasn't wrong


I would have agreed she wasn't wrong if her fist fight with criminals was incidental to those criminals being apprehended by police, which it was not, police saved those girls and Akshara but none could save Neil so I don't buy the narrative that the life was lost for a greater cause, it wasn't

It was a stupid act by civilians to take matters in their hands which led to death of a civilian



Now, We have a parallel to that track. None understood Abhimanyu's pain and grief of losing his brother, none understood that he was lashing out in pain and frustration.


Nowadays, a family who lost their dear member is grieving and surpassing Abhimanyu in anger, they are abusing him physically


Why isn't Akshara employing the the calm demeanor she expected from Abhimanyu? We thought Akshara will lead by example and show the world, how she is different from Dr. Birla


Did Akshara kill Neil? No


Did Abhimanyu kill Abhinav? No


Do people who are reacting in anger believe that they are responsible? Yes



I don't blame Akshara or Abhinav's other family members for their reactions because I understand how people behave when they are hurt


My only expectations from Abhimanyu is that Akshara is behaving like him but he shouldn't behave like Akshara and apologize to Abhinav's family. It wasn't a murder but a life was lost, their pain is much bigger than your ego.

Satya vachaan.

Time and again, Akshara has proven she can’t walk the talk. She can just preach and pretend to be mahan. But turn the tables and she is worst form of herself.

During first leap, she expected Abhi to understand her reasons and empathise with her situations but she didn’t do the same. Infact she didn’t even bother to find out how he lived for that one year like a nomad and popping anxiety and sleeping pills!!

Now again in leap2, she is where Abhi was before the leap and she is worse than him because she is consumed by hatred and her actions are driven by it. And in the hatred she has festered over the years, she can’t see loss and pain of other 😔

Sorry tho dor ki baat hai even if it is said to just acknowledge their loss. That is expecting too much from Mrs. Sharma right now 😔

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Posted: 2 years ago
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One of the poorly written FL in recent days! The most expectation from the character is to birth next gen or continue blind revenge! 👏

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Posted: 2 years ago
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First when akshara received call it was her decision to to go and save those girls and she never asked Neil to come with her but he insisted so that was individual choice they both made and that should be respected. There are very people in this world who will risk their lives for others and don't think of consequences. Neil's and akshara actions were very heroic that day and both suffered consequences but akshara is sorrowful for Neil's death but not for decision they took to save those girls. It was uncertain that time police arriving on time and those goons were getting away. Given circumstances I am very sure if alive Neil and akshara will make same choice to risk their lives for others so I believe continuously condemning akshara for Neil's death is insulting Neil's choice to risk and sacrifice his life to save those girls. On the other hand abhimanyu actions in abhinav death are highly irresponsible behaviour. He took him far away restricted kairav to tag along to him to mountain slope and making him drunk while himself remained sober. Abhinav drank only thinking his bhaiji is so generously arranged this for him not knowing only he is drinking. So their situations are completely different and comparing it with Neil's death to white wash abhimanyu is laughable.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I still feel Abhi is not as much responsible for Nav's death as Ak was for Neil's. She clearly pursuaded him to go and fight and gaslighted him, she clearly knew they were getting into a dangerous situation and still chose to do the same. For Neil saying no to his pregnant bhabhi was not really an option. Whereas Abhi and Nav went there to enjoy with an agreement among both of them. Nav could have easily said no to Abhi that Bhaiji we can do this later after the party. Also they didn't sense the danger because firstly why would Abhi think Nav would do that stunt there and also he's a pahadi like muskaan said so why would he think that Nav would collapse and everyone who's saying ki pahad pe kon daaru peene jaata hai if you've been on treks in Maharashtra you'll often see empty bottles sometimes cards and all there because people want privacy while drinking and all and they tend to do it. But inspite of all this it can still be said that Abhi could have been carefull.

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