Tere Bina..Epi 940

Overall sweet episode in terms of the coparenting dynamics between AbhiN, AbhiM and Ak.

1. Abhir: I really liked the sentence said by Abhir. Abhir said Docman loves him a lot and can't stay without him and will follow him wherever he is. But his Papa is the best and he can't live without his Papa. Abhir loves the love docman showers on him and does love him too, but he can live without him ( as of now) but his Papa is his life without whom he can't live. (If after listening to this, AbhiN let's go Abhir or exits Abhir's life by choice, even he would need a redemption track)

AK's perspective is not very clear wrt AbhiN, but does not the same sentence apply to AK? AbhiM can't live without AK and wishes to be in her life. But, love or no love AK does not want to live without AbhiN. I had loved the scene where AbhiN's frame fell from the wall and AK said, AbhiN makes her family complete and she will do everything to keep him part of the family.

2. Manjiri: I am not liking how only one person has turned villian in whole drama. The multilayered character interplay (other Birla family members) is missing.

3. AR's wisdom pearls: AR is the person who has shown to be the most wise person in many of the past episodes. Yesterday, she said that AbhiM choosing to live in AK and AbhiN's home is not the right choice. Today, she showed mirror to Manjiri. I feel, she is strong woman who does not need a family ( unlike AK. AK is a family person and wants to have family and that is her character trait) and should raise Ruhi all by herself.

I think it’s high time for Abhinav to stop his I am not real father chant and start paying attention to the unconditional love Abhir has for him and treasure it for all his life.

Even somehow I get the feeling that Ak also loves him. He should start believing in himself, as he did before 2nd UP track, rather than wallowing in self pity and inferiority complex with regard to 🦹‍♂️

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I think it’s high time for Abhinav to stop his I am not real father chant and start paying attention to the unconditional love Abhir has for him and treasure it for all his life.

Even somehow I get the feeling that Ak also loves him. He should start believing in himself, as he did before 2nd UP track, rather than wallowing in self pity and inferiority complex with regard to 🗑️🦹‍♂️

Yes, he should. That is his character flaw. AK, AbhiN, AbhiM each need to grow and Abhir can become the reason for it. Every character is supposed make us feel irked with their shades. AbhiM's possessiveness, AK's sacrificial nature and AbhiN's letting go tendancies are the ones. AbhiN irks you by being extremely good.

For AK, thank you for saying this. Writers may choose to flip based on TRP in future. But, even I feel that she loves AbhiN more than she realizes at this point. She has just made her heart numb in that respect and has not allowed herself to think much in that direction. Even with respect to Abhir, she is more concerned about how AbhiN would live without Abhir than she herself would. I have written this before. Abhir, AK and AbhiN are soulmates. All three have very similar values:Being empathetic, thinking about other's happiness, all the three souls have very strong attachment to the concept of family. They do love others but it is their family that matters the most to them and will go to any extent to protect it from the outside threat.