Ruhi the innocent sufferer - Page 2

Ruhi is no different from the regular Birla kids including abhimanyu ..and then she has arohis genes🤢 From Her upbringing , courtesy bachus mummy , bachu and arohi, I'd expected this disaster...give a few more years and she will be a combination of parth anisha arohi and abhimanyu .

The sad part is that none of the birlas can see this..overindulgence and over pampering a kid creates so many issues which magnify in adulthood ..still after this , abhimanyu calls himself a great father (and arohi seconds it ) 😆And we bash abhinav for bragging . At least nav is stating the facts but bachu is totally in delusion always talking rubbish .

Akshu and abhinav brought up abhir really well , with limited means and ruhi ..for sure , materialistic things never ensure a safe future for a child. All those who were bashing akshu for raising abhir in poverty can take rest.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I disagree that Abhimanyu is ignoring Ruhi

1) He came to camp for Ruhi, Abhir was there by coincidence, if Abhir hadn't been there then still in this game Abhimanyu would have teamed up with some other child.

Even Abhir was doing tasks without his parents, every other child was doing it

2) He didn't go out of his way to spend time with Abhir, he was shown playing with Ruhi and hugged both kids on every occasion

3) He is more protective of Abhir because Abhir is a heart patient, his condition is more delicate than that of Ruhi

4) He was only one to reprimand Ruhi for her wrong behaviour

From tonight's episode, I didn't see Ruhi's mother doing anything to stop her wrong behaviour, she is using her child to get what she wants, that's actually making the situation worse

Akshara is using Abhimanyu and Ruhi to assuage whatever guilt she has regarding not being able to be in good books of Arohi

When a child misbehaves with someone, one can't say she was right in doing so, especially when she pushed Abhir, her brother

Parent and child's relationship is not a monogamous relationship where only one child has a place as Akshara tried to portray, Abhimanyu has two kids, he is not giving Ruhi's place to Abhir, he is giving Abhir's place to Abhir

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

He did overdo there was no need to dance taking abhir on shoulder and shout mera betu has won he could have consoled Ruhi at the same time which parent jumps like that on other kids win. But you will not see that blind fan effect

How about not using a disability like blindness for petty fandom fights? Lets be a little tolerant to different opinion, we can't all join "Jai Jai Abhinav" or "Hay Hay Abhimanyu" bandwagon

@Bold

Except he did it for his son's victory and told Ruhi that Abhir won or she won it is the same thing as they are siblings

Originally posted by: arooshee

Really really felt bad the way Abhimanyu jumped on seeing Abhir getting Birla chit and leaving Ruhi's hand in the process ..

The sweet little girl doesn't know what is happening around her ..the Poppy who used to love her so much now doesn't even give a thought about her..this is really unpleasing to watch also.. selfishness at its best..how much will Abhimanyu will stop low...arey if you plan a surprise birthday party include the little girl also ..if you welcome abhir in your team encourage and cheer that Little girl also...am sure when he will get abhir he will then forget him and run for Ruhi if she is going away from him..

Abhimanyu's nature is not to treasure what he has but to run for another..

Very well put. In the hospital scene AbhiN says the same thing. He says to AbhiM, "Bhai ji apake pas jo hai usme khush Rahiye".

AbhiM rarely was content with what he had. Even when he had AK with him. That is his trait. Unfortuantely, AbhiM has got it from his mom. She is always hurt, anxious person who loves to wallow in her pain. She always sees what she lost over what she has.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

How about not using a disability like blindness for petty fandom fights? Lets be a little tolerant to different opinion, we can't all join "Jai Jai Abhinav" or "Hay Hay Abhimanyu" bandwagon

@Bold

Except he did it for his son's victory and told Ruhi that Abhir won or she won it is the same thing as they are siblings

https://twitter.com/idkyaaaar/status/1653586729788657670?s=20

In the clip it's clearly shown that when abhi was correcting roohi. Akshu encouraged roohi's behaviour for her own selfish reasons.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I disagree that Abhimanyu is ignoring Ruhi

1) He came to camp for Ruhi, Abhir was there by coincidence, if Abhir hadn't been there then still in this game Abhimanyu would have teamed up with some other child.

Even Abhir was doing tasks without his parents, every other child was doing it

2) He didn't go out of his way to spend time with Abhir, he was shown playing with Ruhi and hugged both kids on every occasion

3) He is more protective of Abhir because Abhir is a heart patient, his condition is more delicate than that of Ruhi

4) He was only one to reprimand Ruhi for her wrong behaviour

From tonight's episode, I didn't see Ruhi's mother doing anything to stop her wrong behaviour, she is using her child to get what she wants, that's actually making the situation worse

Akshara is using Abhimanyu and Ruhi to assuage whatever guilt she has regarding not being able to be in good books of Arohi

When a child misbehaves with someone, one can't say she was right in doing so, especially when she pushed Abhir, her brother

Parent and child's relationship is not a monogamous relationship where only one child has a place as Akshara tried to portray, Abhimanyu has two kids, he is not giving Ruhi's place to Abhir, he is giving Abhir's place to Abhir

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

Blind fan is an widely used word to define biasness it is not to demean disability and for your information disability is not the word used it is differently abled if it is the same thing he should have told that to Ruhi before jumping with his son. And the band wagon should be die die Abhinav, mar Jao fake papa and oh my abhi asli papa ( who kicked the mom out)

I don't need that information as "Disability" is not a demeaning word, it is an official one

Please pick someone else to fight, I am not interested

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

He would have teamed up with some other kid but not the way he did today. He should have made Ruh understand the situation and then go and not ignore her like he did today. She felt left out when he carried Abhir in his shoulders .He knows Abhir is his kid the girl doesn’t. Ar part yes she is using the kid for her selfishness .. she didn’t even respond or say anything when she pushed Abhir. AbM pointing out Ruhi is no way wrong . He did right thing for 1st time teaching her manners but normally he over pampers her. Ak is no way using the situation . She clearly explained how it feels when ur sibling keep grudges on u.. she went through that pain all her life. She is seeing n feeling the pain of Ruhi. H should know how to balance relationships . He can handle only one relation at a time . Only with his mom it’s constant.

That's the thing

Abhir is not just any kid, it is his son and he has lost 6 years of his son's life that's why they added his scene with Abhinav where he asked about Abhir's childhood pictures

He is over compensating for those lost years but not going out of his way to be with Abhir, the scene where he was playing with Ruhi in the tent and Abhir was with Akshara-Abhinav, Abhimanyu went to Abhir only when Abhir was being bullied by other kids

I don't think he is ignoring Ruhi, his knee jerk reaction was to celebrate Abhir's victory

Akshara supported Ruhi in her wrong behaviour when Abhimanyu was reprimanding her, which I think wasn't correct

Originally posted by: NoraSM

That's the thing

Abhir is not just any kid, it is his son and he has lost 6 years of his son's life that's why they added his scene with Abhinav where he asked about Abhir's childhood pictures

He is over compensating for those lost years but not going out of his way to be with Abhir, the scene where he was playing with Ruhi in the tent and Abhir was with Akshara-Abhinav, Abhimanyu went to Abhir only when Abhir was being bullied by other kids

I don't think he is ignoring Ruhi, his knee jerk reaction was to celebrate Abhir's victory

Akshara supported Ruhi in her wrong behaviour when Abhimanyu was reprimanding her, which I think wasn't correct

Ak didn’t support her in her wrong doings,she didn’t say anything because she is only her Maasi not her Ma. It’s Ar’s responsibility to teach her some manners. Carrying on shoulders it’s very common in kid to feel jealous when their parents carry someone like that. Ak said the same