Question - Why will Abhir pick AkshNav over Abhimanyu?

Just for a sake of drama, I would like to think two things will definitely happen in future...

1. Abhir will dislike Abhimanyu
2. Abhir will go away from AkshNa

Let me focus on only second thing.... Again three ways that Abhir will move to Abhimabyu leaving AkshNav and one way (out of three) that could happen is Abhir CHOOSING to go with Abhimanyu.... (no tomatoes please... Bohot menage hai... Tomatoes, Belan and joote sab mehenga hai) 🤣

Why is that slight possibility?

In some episode in the past, I remember Abhir was super rude to Abhinav for not fulfilling his wish to have his own room, that's when hus Matashri told him story about Super Papa carrying mommy and him to hospital in toofan... He may have felt lacking in his life... As a 6/7 years old, do you not think Abhi can actually lure kid into choosing him? 😆

Like he has seen only good side... He is, for me, kuch jyada hi into him... Sees him in his dream, keeps calling out on how he would feel, runs away from house, etc.

I am also quoting previous post by umawanderer that explained Abhir's reaction to docman just for his behavior but nevertheless, I always felt the attachment for Docman is little overthetop from Abhir...

Originally posted by: umawanderer

I actually did not find much obsession from Abhir's side, to be honest.

I always felt that he likes Docman because he saved his super papa.

He was kind of indifferent toward Abhimanyu before saving his father.

After the Nacho Nacho song... He readily asked his parents to dance next.

He clearly says when taking the Vibhuti.. that he is doing it because Docman saved his papa

And when they reached Kasauli.. He called Docman.. because he is a doctor.. and he didn't want to worry his parents.

Maybe he also connects to him as Roohi's poppy and his Mausaji(?)

Yes, he trusts Docman more because that guy saved his father..(That too without any actual medical equipment.. Heck.. I also trust him..after the butter knife incident)

The balloon was for Roohi to give him.. many balloons were alrady for his parents. The hug, because an adult was crying and asking for a hug..

Actually he did not even feel bad for Docman when his mom was shouting at him for the fire incident..He listened to music in car and was smiling. It was Nav who was thinking about the injured hand of Abhi and felt sorry for him. Abhir was also about to causually say about that incident to others..

Maybe I am missing something... I always felt he loves his parents normally and Abhimanyu as a cool family member/relative.

But Abhimanyu's soul connection (read: obsession) seems like a sin(X) curve.. Sometimes up sometimes down.. sometimes just a punch on the stomach.

Second as Illogical and stupid as it sounds.. He will be angry at AkshNav for hiding the truth of his birth... And like biological baap, end up choosing him in gussa🤪

As a kid, I don't know why do people expect him to know difference between biological father and other one and what's sadder in the show maybe Abhir knows... The way he spoke about Khoon ka Rishta with Abhinav once...

I find it funny when people blame Akshu for not telling truth to Abhir... Matlab what do you expect her to do... Aao beta, without a context mein tumhe batau ki tumhare aur docman ka kya rishta hai? 🤪

And assuming kid will be sad/angry at mommy after knowing truth is quite illogical 😆 even from Akshu's POV..

Phew... That's all...

other two possibilities for Abhir to separate from AkshNav is clearly forceful take way through custody battle and finally remember that day Akshu held Abhinav's collar to tell him that money is important... Abhinav will see it for himself and decide to move out of way from his kid and biological dad as he can give him better life and blah blah blah...

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Just for a sake of drama, I would like to think two things will definitely happen in future...

1. Abhir will dislike Abhimanyu
2. Abhir will go away from AkshNa

Let me focus on only second thing.... Again three ways that Abhir will move to Abhimabyu leaving AkshNav and one way (out of three) that could happen is Abhir CHOOSING to go with Abhimanyu.... (no tomatoes please... Bohot menage hai... Tomatoes, Belan and joote sab mehenga hai) 🤣

Why is that slight possibility?

In some episode in the past, I remember Abhir was super rude to Abhinav for not fulfilling his wish to have his own room, that's when hus Matashri told him story about Super Papa carrying mommy and him to hospital in toofan... He may have felt lacking in his life... As a 6/7 years old, do you not think Abhi can actually lure kid into choosing him? 😆

Like he has seen only good side... He is, for me, kuch jyada hi into him... Sees him in his dream, keeps calling out on how he would feel, runs away from house, etc.

I am also quoting previous post by umawanderer that explained Abhir's reaction to docman just for his behavior but nevertheless, I always felt the attachment for Docman is little overthetop from Abhir...

Second as Illogical and stupid as it sounds.. He will be angry at AkshNav for hiding the truth of his birth... And like biological baap, end up choosing him in gussa🤪

As a kid, I don't know why do people expect him to know difference between biological father and other one and what's sadder in the show maybe Abhir knows... The way he spoke about Khoon ka Rishta with Abhinav once...

I find it funny when people blame Akshu for not telling truth to Abhir... Matlab what do you expect her to do... Aao beta, without a context mein tumhe batau ki tumhare aur docman ka kya rishta hai? 🤪

And assuming kid will be sad/angry at mommy after knowing truth is quite illogical 😆 even from Akshu's POV..

Phew... That's all...

other two possibilities for Abhir to separate from AkshNav is clearly forceful take way through custody battle and finally remember that day Akshu held Abhinav's collar to tell him that money is important... Abhinav will see it for himself and decide to move out of way from his kid and biological dad as he can give him better life and blah blah blah...

Thanks for the tag...

I did not see yesterday's episode. and will not see today's episode also.. OG AbhiM sickens me🤢.. So taking a break.. Planning to watch Challang till it is good... But I'll answer this post

There is a 50-50% chance Abhir choose Ak-Nav or AbhiM. It is ITV.. let's be real. They would do anything for drama... Maybe a 6-year-old kid gets angry.. misunderstands the situation somehow...or is just blinded by riches.. or actually.. genuinely gets attached to his biological dad.

Maybe because his and AbhiM's personality is somewhat similar.. he might get too comfortable. This is all that can happen in the future.

But based on what I have seen till now. I feel Abhir will choose Ak-Nav.

I still stand by that He sees Docman as a cool relative and do not want to replace his parents. When he said he did not want to go to the US he did not say the reason was that he did not want to go far away from his Docman, rather, he was again worried about his parents.. and how they will handle everything.

For me, that time when Ak shouted at Abhi(because of the fire incident), I really wanted to see some sort of reaction from Abhir. He could have felt sorry.. painted his mom in a bad color in front of him.. for the future track.. But nope.. that champ was chilling in his car listening to music and smiling. He did not even give much thought to it as he was going to talk about it to everyone. No, he was not excited about the fire incident.. He definitely was about to talk about the fire, "Aaj docman aur mumma..." He wanted to talk about the fight. He did not feel sorry or remembered that scene at all.. after meeting Docman again.

to compare this with when Nav was just feeling bad about Abhi rudely(?) brushing him off. That kid remembered that incident to threaten Abhi to not hurt his papa again. The kid understands fights.

He did not defend Docman till now, in the fire incident, did not say, "Mumma Docman ne toh mujhe aag se bachata.. toh aapne unhe kyun data?"

I don't what happened in these two episodes also. So maybe Abhir and Abhi's bond is shown much stronger than the bond between his parents and him.

As for Abhir getting angry at Ak and Nav.. maybe. I can not picturise it much. but it is possible.

Also, it is based on execution. How the truth will be revealed will also play a major factor.

I wanted AbhiM to win the custody battle.. to see Nav's reaction. I want to see how he handles himself after the great loss. Call me weird.

Abhir is seen as too attached to BOTH parents. Let's see what Abhir will do. But if the writer and creatives feel that Abhir is a kid who gets attracted to riches and chooses a rich dad.. it will be like that.

On a different note: I so want to see the now-ignored Ruhi be cheered up and taken care of by the now-ignored Nav😊. ...No. I don't think Nav is Ruhi's IVF dad. Jesus!! I just thought Nav is a character who likes kids.. and Ruhi needs some attention as Abhi has shown as a person who cannot balance his relations or emotions or anything. While Ak Ar Manjari and all are way too affected by AbhiM, I wanted some nice cute scenes with Nav and Ruhi. I like both the kid actors. I want to them both smile.❤️

A non-biological father-and-son connection was what attracted me to this show.

If everyone wants Abhi-Abhir scenes.. I want to balance it with Nav Ruhi scenes. It is too much to ask for.. I know...A woman can wish right?

So Abhir's reaction after the truth reveals might bring me back. (ignoring OG Abhimanyu will be tiring...sigh!!.. og Abhimanyu...) 😭

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

I also feel kids get lured to luxury and gifts. And abhir is no exception kahan phatichar papa kahan rich n handsome docman. To be with Abhir Akshu will also follow him. End of S3

Oyee nai nai... Abhinav will move on and have a boy of his own 😆

Akshu and AbhiM will have another daughter....

Phir she will play lead in Gen 4... She will fall for Abhinav ka beta🤣 family disagrees and bacche asks Why.. Kya rishta hai do parivaar ka? Again show ka title will be justified 😆 nai pata... Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai...

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

I also feel kids get lured to luxury and gifts. And abhir is no exception kahan phatichar papa kahan rich n handsome docman. To be with Abhir Akshu will also follow him. End of S3

Jokes apart, by any chance Abhir does choose Manyu... It will be more like a lesson because there has to be a point where he would realize what Abhinav meant to him and he will dislike Abhimanyu😆 Matlab show uss direction mein toh pakka jayega... I say this because he started off hitting Manyu for upsetting momma and papa.. He will go back to his OG form...

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

And assuming kid will be sad/angry at mommy after knowing truth is quite illogical 😆 even from Akshu's POV..

Phew... That's all...

other two possibilities for Abhir to separate from AkshNav is clearly forceful take way through custody battle and finally remember that day Akshu held Abhinav's collar to tell him that money is important... Abhinav will see it for himself and decide to move out of way from his kid and biological dad as he can give him better life and blah blah blah...

I can see hiding the real parents can make the kid angry like in the case of Neil. If the child is made to believe and grow up thinking s/he is an orphan and doesn't have anyone they can call their own. In that sense, Manjari screwed up way worse.

But here, Abhir has a healthy family, loving mom and dad who are willing to go to any extent for him. So why would he feel bad or react badly.

And even adopted parents do not let their small children know they are adopted. AND it is still an ethical question whether the kids should know whether they are adopted or not. And it is completely the prerogative of the parents to tell the kid or not.

I believe the kids should get to know about their biological parents because it is normal I guess to go through a phase or feeling that you do not belong or you feel like somethings are not making sense, or feeling like a misfit. Not everyone but kids do feel that I guess. And that is majorly faced by teenagers and young adults when they start exploring more about their interests etc. So, even when you are divulging truths like that, one should be telling that to the kid once the kid is 15-18 or so. Definitely not to a 5 year old.

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

I also feel kids get lured to luxury and gifts. And abhir is no exception kahan phatichar papa kahan rich n handsome docman. To be with Abhir Akshu will also follow him. End of S3

For that abhimanyu needs to apologise and redeem himself it's not gonna be that easy reunion will take time bohot drama hoga.

See I want abhir to choose bachu ..I want him to experience howz it with him and without his actual parents ...I want abhir to know the complete truth ..abhir will not live a day without nav and akshu ...this might knock.some sense in the biopapa ...ke sirf khoon ka rishta nahi aur bhi sab chahiye hota hai bache ko..he needs his mom, he needs his dad who he is attached to, he needs his room, his school , everything he is used to ....

Why would abhir be intimidated by the riches of abhimanyu ? Aren't goenkas providing him enuf ?

Originally posted by: umawanderer

Thanks for the tag...

I did not see yesterday's episode. and will not see today's episode also.. OG AbhiM sickens me🤢.. So taking a break.. Planning to watch Challang till it is good... But I'll answer this post

There is a 50-50% chance Abhir choose Ak-Nav or AbhiM. It is ITV.. let's be real. They would do anything for drama... Maybe a 6-year-old kid gets angry.. misunderstands the situation somehow...or is just blinded by riches.. or actually.. genuinely gets attached to his biological dad.

Maybe because his and AbhiM's personality is somewhat similar.. he might get too comfortable. This is all that can happen in the future.

But based on what I have seen till now. I feel Abhir will choose Ak-Nav.

I still stand by that He sees Docman as a cool relative and do not want to replace his parents. When he said he did not want to go to the US he did not say the reason was that he did not want to go far away from his Docman, rather, he was again worried about his parents.. and how they will handle everything.

For me, that time when Ak shouted at Abhi(because of the fire incident), I really wanted to see some sort of reaction from Abhir. He could have felt sorry.. painted his mom in a bad color in front of him.. for the future track.. But nope.. that champ was chilling in his car listening to music and smiling. He did not even give much thought to it as he was going to talk about it to everyone. No, he was not excited about the fire incident.. He definitely was about to talk about the fire, "Aaj docman aur mumma..." He wanted to talk about the fight. He did not feel sorry or remembered that scene at all.. after meeting Docman again.

to compare this with when Nav was just feeling bad about Abhi rudely(?) brushing him off. That kid remembered that incident to threaten Abhi to not hurt his papa again. The kid understands fights.

He did not defend Docman till now, in the fire incident, did not say, "Mumma Docman ne toh mujhe aag se bachata.. toh aapne unhe kyun data?"

I don't what happened in these two episodes also. So maybe Abhir and Abhi's bond is shown much stronger than the bond between his parents and him.

As for Abhir getting angry at Ak and Nav.. maybe. I can not picturise it much. but it is possible.

Also, it is based on execution. How the truth will be revealed will also play a major factor.

I wanted AbhiM to win the custody battle.. to see Nav's reaction. I want to see how he handles himself after the great loss. Call me weird.

Abhir is seen as too attached to BOTH parents. Let's see what Abhir will do. But if the writer and creatives feel that Abhir is a kid who gets attracted to riches and chooses a rich dad.. it will be like that.

On a different note: I so want to see the now-ignored Ruhi be cheered up and taken care of by the now-ignored Nav😊. ...No. I don't think Nav is Ruhi's IVF dad. Jesus!! I just thought Nav is a character who likes kids.. and Ruhi needs some attention as Abhi has shown as a person who cannot balance his relations or emotions or anything. While Ak Ar Manjari and all are way too affected by AbhiM, I wanted some nice cute scenes with Nav and Ruhi. I like both the kid actors. I want to them both smile.❤️

A non-biological father-and-son connection was what attracted me to this show.

If everyone wants Abhi-Abhir scenes.. I want to balance it with Nav Ruhi scenes. It is too much to ask for.. I know...A woman can wish right?

So Abhir's reaction after the truth reveals might bring me back. (ignoring OG Abhimanyu will be tiring...sigh!!.. og Abhimanyu...) 😭

I have stopped watching this crap ever since they came back to Udaipur for Abhir's treatment.

I cannot take Gorillas ka drama yaar...🤢

But though there is a logic on Abhir's reaction, I remember seeing him be very impressed by some jazzy things. His attachment does appear deeper but these two Abhir-Abhimanyu centric will be worst... And I cannot imagine nonsense that would play along...🤪makers can do anything...

@Bold Blue: That's a brilliant idea... And hence wouldn't cross makers mind. Ooo! I would love Ruhi and Abhinav bonding... No shaadi but just a cute bond between Ruhi and Abhinav to show that Abhinav is just a friendly person and could fit in with any kid. I don't mind seeing Abhir getting insecure 🤣because of Abhinav-Ruhi ka connection.. Wayy opposite of people's expectations.... It would be hell better than vice versa

Yes, the child knows what has his papa( Abhinav) done for his mamma and him so without any questions he will choose them over this dumbass so called Dr.A Birla. God knows iss aadmi ko kiss cheez ka itna gamand hai yaar!!! He will get taste of his own medicine that he gave to his papa once upon a time