Originally posted by: lagjagale
Why are you defending Nav's position? I have NOTHING against him. My statements are to illustrate the issues between Abhi and Nav, not to insult either of them. At this point, I am not trying to take anyone's side here. Just feel it's a little weird that two people who are supposed to hate/ignore each other are shown as being friends despite it.
If Abhi loves Ak so much, how can he stand Abhinav? Does he forget that this guy is married to the so-called love of his life? If Nav loves Ak so much, how does he tolerate Abhi, who he knows hurt her so much? And the Abhir issue is icing on top of that, Nav wants Abhi to know the truth, even though Abhi will take away Abhir from him ?
My two cents based on what I have understood so far from what is being shown.
In one of the episodes I think Nav had asked Abhi, how come you don’t hate me and Abhi had answered why should he. The reason for this as I understand they both knew each other as individuals first before both found out how they are related. May be this prevented the prejudice that comes along usually in such cases. The hate that someone feels towards the partner of their ex, generally stems from jealousy. Here Abhi has already acknowledged that Nav is better person than him. That is why he doesn’t hate/despise or is jealous towards Nav because he understands that Ak was divorced when she met Nav and fell in love with him, hence he has nothing against Nav. As shown initially, he found it hard to reconcile how Ak quickly/easily forgot the love they shared, but he doesn’t hold that against Nav.
As to why Nav is so comfortable with Abhi, I don’t think his love for Ak is possessive or endearing kind. It’s more of like we live together, we are already married on paper, so why not. Their relationship has always been more about Abhir than themselves. And that is why he doesn’t hate/judge Abhi for his behaviour towards Ak. As Nav had mentioned earlier he hated Abhi before knowing him because he couldn’t understand how a father did not care about his unborn child, but now he knows that Abhi thought his child was dead and not that he didn’t care for the child. And as regards to truth, he is not insecure that Abhi will take Abhir away. He thinks at best Abhi will become part of Abhir’s life. Also I don’t think he feels any guilt for hiding the truth or really wants Abhi to know the truth either (he had enough opportunities to tell Abhi but hasn’t). He has left it all on Ak as he had advised her to tell the truth but she didn’t agree, so his conscious is clear.
Edit - There are not best friends or anything, they are civil to each other when they meet and get along. In this instance too they weren’t seeking each other out to go drink together and have a nice time. They accidentally met each other after being drunk and then all the nautanki.
P.s - I haven’t watched today’s episode but just seen some clips. I found them very funny and welcome light-hearted respite in midst of all the emotionally draining drama.
Edited by DotDash - 2 years ago
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